DATING (25)

Nov 17, 2013 4:22 AM CST DATING
Jaymack
JaymackJaymackMonaghan, Ireland37 Threads 800 Posts
Is it actually possible that i could meet someone on this dating site ?.

I don't seem to be having much success sad flower

Is it like this for most of us ?,i really did think that this was a good site and it also is genuinely free.

Any idea why am i going wrong ? confused help wine
Nov 17, 2013 4:33 AM CST DATING
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
Jaymack: Is it actually possible that i could meet someone on this dating site ?.

I don't seem to be having much success

Is it like this for most of us ?,i really did think that this was a good site and it also is genuinely free.

Any idea why am i going wrong ?


Don't think it is the case of going wrong, it is just like the outside world on here, not always easy to find someone you are interested in dating that is also interested in dating you.
Also it is easy when you meet someone out in the social scene, you know there and then if you are interested in going on a date.
Don't give up, but don't expect more than you would in the real world. I think sometimes people think online dating is easier, in every way. Not necessarily so. cool
Nov 17, 2013 4:36 AM CST DATING
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Jaymack: Is it actually possible that i could meet someone on this dating site ?.

I don't seem to be having much success

Is it like this for most of us ?,i really did think that this was a good site and it also is genuinely free.

Any idea why am i going wrong ?
its just hit and miss on here really but has gone very quiet i must admit ,the women are waiting for that elusive Mr Wonderful when ever he comes along so i wouldnt worry about it handshake
Nov 17, 2013 4:58 AM CST DATING
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
mjpd67: its just hit and miss on here really but has gone very quiet i must admit ,the women are waiting for that elusive Mr Wonderful when ever he comes along so i wouldnt worry about it


oh wow MJ look at you in the new photos love
Nov 17, 2013 5:01 AM CST DATING
dateadave
dateadavedateadavelimerick, Limerick Ireland7 Threads 3 Polls 95 Posts
I think the CS is good because of the on-line community, you can get slightly addicted to the forums and this is something that a lot of the other dating sites lack.

I had a look at your profile I don't think you doing anything wrong per-se. Maybe adding a good picture of yourself where you can see your eyes properly wouldn't hurt. I don't know how women feel about this but when I see a lady's profile and here eyes are hidden or it's a fuzzy out of focus picture I get this feeling there hiding something.

That said, I've been on this site and not had a date out of it.
Still post stuff on the forums though.
Nov 17, 2013 5:01 AM CST DATING
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
Jaymack: Is it actually possible that i could meet someone on this dating site ?.

I don't seem to be having much success

Is it like this for most of us ?,i really did think that this was a good site and it also is genuinely free.

Any idea why am i going wrong ?


It is a good site....and hello and welcome to the forums! cswelcome

I viewed your profile and it is good and you seem like a lovely guy hug

keep trying is all I can say....email women you think you might be compatible with and join in the forums to get to know people wave

Tiny fangs plays harp and is very musical and pretty.....just saying grin
Nov 17, 2013 5:02 AM CST DATING
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
mjpd67: its just hit and miss on here really but has gone very quiet i must admit ,the women are waiting for that elusive Mr Wonderful when ever he comes along so i wouldnt worry about it


And of course a man knows what us women are waiting for roll eyes

Surely us women know what we want, why we are or are not dating!

Therefore OP, I suggest you ask the men for a male perspective and the women for a female perspective, that way you get the real picture.
Nov 17, 2013 5:04 AM CST DATING
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
dateadave: I think the CS is good because of the on-line community, you can get slightly addicted to the forums and this is something that a lot of the other dating sites lack.

I had a look at your profile I don't think you doing anything wrong per-se. Maybe adding a good picture of yourself where you can see your eyes properly wouldn't hurt. I don't know how women feel about this but when I see a lady's profile and here eyes are hidden or it's a fuzzy out of focus picture I get this feeling there hiding something.

That said, I've been on this site and not had a date out of it.
Still post stuff on the forums though.


Dave that is nuts that you haven't had a date yet from here......do you really want one? Do you email women who interest you? You're chatting and normal and nice looking so it shouldn't be a big problem! bouquet
Nov 17, 2013 5:11 AM CST DATING
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
WittyandWise: And of course a man knows what us women are waiting for

Surely us women know what we want, why we are or are not dating!

Therefore OP, I suggest you ask the men for a male perspective and the women for a female perspective, that way you get the real picture.
only quoting what ive read on profiles ,i personally prefer a real down to earth woman ,not looking for miss wonderful and no such thing anyways tongue love reading some of the profiles though with the poses and the pouting lips hug
Nov 17, 2013 5:12 AM CST DATING
Jaymack: Is it actually possible that i could meet someone on this dating site ?.

I don't seem to be having much success

Is it like this for most of us ?,i really did think that this was a good site and it also is genuinely free.

Any idea why am i going wrong ?


its possible yes but the chances are very slim..most women are too afraid to meet a strange man from a dating site..sad but true..the odds are stacked against you right away and the fact that this site has very few eligibile women on it in the first place..get yourself over to the the site of many fishes..far better selection of huairs..more likely to meet someone from that site I thinkireland
Nov 17, 2013 5:17 AM CST DATING
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
mjpd67: only quoting what ive read on profiles ,i personally prefer a real down to earth woman ,not looking for miss wonderful and no such thing anyways love reading some of the profiles though with the poses and the pouting lips


Perhaps you would be better asking women for their opinions rather than making assumptions, no such thing as Mr Perfect either but there is a Mr Perfect for me out there very happy

Now what did the 52yr old give off to you about in your profile conversing hug
Nov 17, 2013 5:22 AM CST DATING
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
WittyandWise: Perhaps you would be better asking women for their opinions rather than making assumptions, no such thing as Mr Perfect either but there is a Mr Perfect for me out there

Now what did the 52yr old give off to you about in your profile
im not making assumptions at all witty if you want to go into lesbo mode and read some womens profiles they are looking for mr wonderful and mr perfect WTF no point shooting the messanger with your own assumptions ,oh and a few a looking for a milllionare also tongue
Nov 17, 2013 5:29 AM CST DATING
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
mjpd67: im not making assumptions at all witty if you want to go into lesbo mode and read some womens profiles they are looking for mr wonderful and mr perfect WTF no point shooting the messanger with your own assumptions ,oh and a few a looking for a milllionare also


You wrote "the women are waiting on mr wonderful"
I am a woman and I am not awaiting Mr Wonderful nor does it say it on my profile.
You should not generalise so much, we are all after all unique.

I merely responded to what you wrote! Therefore it is not an assumption, it is YOUR words, no one elses, therefore you are the messenger of YOUR own message. Unless of course you are correcting your statement, not to include all women grin devil
Nov 17, 2013 5:42 AM CST DATING
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
WittyandWise: You wrote "the women are waiting on mr wonderful"
I am a woman and I am not awaiting Mr Wonderful nor does it say it on my profile.
You should not generalise so much, we are all after all unique.

I merely responded to what you wrote! Therefore it is not an assumption, it is YOUR words, no one elses, therefore you are the messenger of YOUR own message. Unless of course you are correcting your statement, not to include all women
yes and im a mere mortal only responding to what ive read on profiles,and there not my own messages i have actually read that on various profiles not a figment of my imagination i might add ,yes we are all unique and looking for varying different things ,and not all women are the same on here some are uniquely different to others tongue
Nov 17, 2013 5:45 AM CST DATING
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
WittyandWise: You wrote "the women are waiting on mr wonderful"
I am a woman and I am not awaiting Mr Wonderful nor does it say it on my profile.
You should not generalise so much, we are all after all unique.

I merely responded to what you wrote! Therefore it is not an assumption, it is YOUR words, no one elses, therefore you are the messenger of YOUR own message. Unless of course you are correcting your statement, not to include all women
and ps you are using your own assumptions on me by thinking i see all women as the same which i dont scold
Nov 17, 2013 5:54 AM CST DATING
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
WittyandWise: You wrote "the women are waiting on mr wonderful"
I am a woman and I am not awaiting Mr Wonderful nor does it say it on my profile.
You should not generalise so much, we are all after all unique.

I merely responded to what you wrote! Therefore it is not an assumption, it is YOUR words, no one elses, therefore you are the messenger of YOUR own message. Unless of course you are correcting your statement, not to include all women


Jesus who bit you on the bum uh oh you better not be that narky when you meet my loooovely brother! laugh
Nov 17, 2013 5:56 AM CST DATING
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
mjpd67: vegging out


relaxing and doing nothing! happy place
If I had a BF I would make him cuddle up in bed all day, snoozing and making...well doing other relaxing gentle stuff banana love
Nov 17, 2013 6:08 AM CST DATING
pogo07
pogo07pogo07dubliin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 74 Posts
Maybe adding a good picture of yourself where you can see your eyes properly wouldn't hurt. I don't know how women feel about this but when I see a lady's profile and here eyes are hidden or it's a fuzzy out of focus picture I get this feeling there hiding something.


Spot on! I would have to agree with this. Think you really need to be able to see who you are communicating with. We are at a disadvantage on a site like this as opposed to 'real life' contact in that all we have is a profile and if theres a pic with someone miiiiiles away or no pic at all, were a blind sighted.
Nov 17, 2013 6:17 AM CST DATING
Jaymack
JaymackJaymackMonaghan, Ireland37 Threads 800 Posts
Thanks Everyone,

I will take your comments on board wine handshake
Nov 17, 2013 6:19 AM CST DATING
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
Jaymack: Thanks Everyone,

I will take your comments on board


and will you stick around the forums? we could do with some newbies to chat to hug wave
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