We fall in love with that which we project on each other.... (19)
that's one creepy animal 
discuss!
discuss!
Green_Sleeves: Awwwwwww, that's 'Slow Loris'
yeah I know what they are (no shudder emoticom)
am weird.....I don't like kittens either!
to go back to what you posted.......I think reality kills love!
Green_Sleeves: Awwwwwww, that's 'Slow Loris'
He is seriously adorable. I would love to have one 
LadyBlackAdder: He is seriously adorable. I would love to have one
they have FINGERS
and bulgy eyes!LadyBlackAdder: I think we allow reality to kill love. People's expectations of relationships are becoming much bigger and more complicated. Simplicity and kindness are the best things to go for.
and some boinking!
Will reality kill this love?!! NEVER!!!!!! 
xoxo
xoxo
LadyBlackAdder: And he is so slow and gentle and his fur is so soft
I'd be afraid he might pick my nose during the night
Green_Sleeves: When we fall in love, we're just falling in love with ourselves.
Discuss.
It's more likely that when we fall in love, we fall in love with what we feel is lacking in ourselves, with what we want to have in our lives. I don't know if that is any better than falling in love with ourselves but it's more true.Discuss.
LadyBlackAdder: It's more likely that when we fall in love, we fall in love with what we feel is lacking in ourselves, with what we want to have in our lives. I don't know if that is any better than falling in love with ourselves but it's more true.
So we fall in love with that which we project on each other
Green_Sleeves: So we fall in love with that which we project on each other
That could well be the truth. It's hard to really know someone else, so we fall in love with who we think that person is, relative to how much they seem to answer what we need in a partner. Delusion is probably a good thing when it comes to couples staying together Love is a battlefield discuss 
IWILLTEASEYOU: Love is a battlefield discuss
I'll brandish the blandest mans anguish with a rammed fist directed at the throat of any man that can withstand this!
dateadave: *their
this one is right
dateadave: *They're
Seriously.. what's up with my spelling tonight
You need a date dave Seriously.. what's up with my spelling tonight
Projection can be a huge issue in my opinion as it can completely fail to match the reality we are confronted with. Think that is indeed one of the big ones while relationships often do break apart, once realisation sets in.
We have reasons why we project, we project what we need in another, and the more complex our needs, the less possible I think to cope with it if the projection is not met by reality.
No doubt one can compromise on some things, but some of our needs can be essential to have them met for our emotional wellbeing in a relationship, or at least I know this is the case for myself.
We have reasons why we project, we project what we need in another, and the more complex our needs, the less possible I think to cope with it if the projection is not met by reality.
No doubt one can compromise on some things, but some of our needs can be essential to have them met for our emotional wellbeing in a relationship, or at least I know this is the case for myself.
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