enough with the bad boys!!!! ( Archived) (26)

Nov 29, 2013 5:22 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Catibrae
CatibraeCatibraeHULL, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1,827 Posts
real_khan: I have a bike
rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 29, 2013 5:34 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
lilsweetnsassy
lilsweetnsassylilsweetnsassyBrownstown, Indiana USA2 Threads 21 Posts
sirLarryIII: Well you do say in your profile that your ditsy and looking for someone who is cocky and sweet at the same.
A lot of famous serial killers in the past have been famous for their sweet talking as much as their murdering ability.
Be careful what you wish for...
good point. Maybe I look for qualities bad boys tend to have.
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Nov 29, 2013 6:26 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
It's your life and your choices.

If something didn't work in the past, learn from it and try to do things differently in the future. handshake
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Nov 29, 2013 6:44 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
lilsweetnsassy
lilsweetnsassylilsweetnsassyBrownstown, Indiana USA2 Threads 21 Posts
HelenaRaber: Well you're the one choosing them,and why are you hooking up with them. People like to blame other people for the bad choices they make in their lives,but really almost all the time our heartbreaks are our own fault.

You are right!! I have only myself to blame for the guys I have chose in the past. And the only way to prevent the patterns from continuing is to make wiser choices and to be more selective and take my time getting to know someone before settling down. I agree.
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Nov 29, 2013 6:45 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
Bad boys? Nahhh... never held with bad boys! dancing
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Nov 29, 2013 7:01 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
MADDOG69: Your entire story vindicates everything Mr. 'Obstinance_works' writes about. And he's spot on with most of what he writes too.

I guess you're now looking for... in his words... a "cuddle herb".


well said MADDOG69thumbs up

Lilsweetnassy...when a girl asks a guy those questions at first,your basically telling him I've had my fun with the badboys and now am ready for my second choice(safety net)...better guys won't do second choice unless their weak/desperate.

a high percentage of tday's so called modern women deny the truth and onstead of recognising their own mistakes will blame men...why no good man??? why good man so hard to find etc etc.

women that rarely blame men will have chosen good ones in the past.
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Nov 29, 2013 7:08 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
lilsweetnsassy
lilsweetnsassylilsweetnsassyBrownstown, Indiana USA2 Threads 21 Posts
Tormented: well said MADDOG69

Lilsweetnassy...when a girl asks a guy those questions at first,your basically telling him I've had my fun with the badboys and now am ready for my second choice(safety net)...better guys won't do second choice unless their weak/desperate.

a high percentage of tday's so called modern women deny the truth and onstead of recognising their own mistakes will blame men...why no good man??? why good man so hard to find etc etc.

women that rarely blame men will have chosen good ones in the past.

And perhaps the thread I should have made should have stated why have I chosen the wrong men in the past. But again, it's not like I have went out there searching for the 'bad boys'. Yes, I was the one who chose to be in a relationship with them, I was the one who allowed myself to continue the relationship even after I knew. I tend to try to find the good in everyone. And I have tried to fix them. I am trying to learn from past mistakes and make wiser choices. Thanks for the advice.
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Nov 29, 2013 7:23 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
lilsweetnsassy: And perhaps the thread I should have made should have stated why have I chosen the wrong men in the past. But again, it's not like I have went out there searching for the 'bad boys'. Yes, I was the one who chose to be in a relationship with them, I was the one who allowed myself to continue the relationship even after I knew. I tend to try to find the good in everyone. And I have tried to fix them. I am trying to learn from past mistakes and make wiser choices. Thanks for the advice.


well tending to look for the good in everyone lilsweetnsassy is one of the best if not the best quality any individual can have.

I wish you all the besthandshake
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Nov 29, 2013 7:25 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
lilsweetnsassy: And perhaps the thread I should have made should have stated why have I chosen the wrong men in the past. But again, it's not like I have went out there searching for the 'bad boys'. Yes, I was the one who chose to be in a relationship with them, I was the one who allowed myself to continue the relationship even after I knew. I tend to try to find the good in everyone. And I have tried to fix them. I am trying to learn from past mistakes and make wiser choices. Thanks for the advice.


hi, trying to fix a bad boy just does not work

cannot change others so change yourself

good luck with your future...children, career and happiness

hug
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Nov 29, 2013 10:24 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
I think a lot of people had some good ideas.
You owned up to past mistakes, good work.

The dobe
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Nov 29, 2013 10:31 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
lilsweetnsassy: And perhaps the thread I should have made should have stated why have I chosen the wrong men in the past. But again, it's not like I have went out there searching for the 'bad boys'. Yes, I was the one who chose to be in a relationship with them, I was the one who allowed myself to continue the relationship even after I knew. I tend to try to find the good in everyone. And I have tried to fix them. I am trying to learn from past mistakes and make wiser choices. Thanks for the advice.


Boys will be Boys!

and in time hope WE grow up!mumbling



Hope all aren't Bad!snooty hole
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Nov 30, 2013 4:55 AM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
MADDOG69: Your entire story vindicates everything Mr. 'Obstinance_works' writes about. And he's spot on with most of what he writes too.

I guess you're now looking for... in his words... a "cuddle herb".


Spot onthumbs up
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Nov 30, 2013 5:09 AM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
itsimpossible
itsimpossibleitsimpossibleBrisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 777 Posts
sirLarryIII: Well you do say in your profile that your ditsy and looking for someone who is cocky and sweet at the same.
A lot of famous serial killers in the past have been famous for their sweet talking as much as their murdering ability.
Be careful what you wish for...
yeah my front doormat doesn't say "Welcome" it says "No Serial Killers"...
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Dec 2, 2013 12:11 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Skymoon_70
Skymoon_70Skymoon_70Evansville, Indiana USA1 Posts
Don't despair.
I'm sure you'll find someone to your taste. burger
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Dec 2, 2013 1:08 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
lilsweetnsassy: And perhaps the thread I should have made should have stated why have I chosen the wrong men in the past. But again, it's not like I have went out there searching for the 'bad boys'. Yes, I was the one who chose to be in a relationship with them, I was the one who allowed myself to continue the relationship even after I knew. I tend to try to find the good in everyone. And I have tried to fix them. I am trying to learn from past mistakes and make wiser choices. Thanks for the advice.


You cannot fix people who are damaged and broken or save them from themselves. These people are losers and if you let them they will all destroy your life as well as their own. Take longer to get to know them before getting intimately involved with them because lots of very nasty and very damaging people are very accomplished actors who can pretend to be really nice at the beginning.

Try to check them out. Become face book friends with them and check out their face book profile. This way you will discover what kind of things they are into and what they are talking about on face book ? Also click of their F.B. friend's profiles to see what kind of people they are friends with and what these people are about and into also ? You can find out a LOT of information about people this way without even having to ask them any direct questions at all.
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Dec 2, 2013 2:21 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
Prapiroon: You cannot fix people who are damaged and broken or save them from themselves. These people are losers and if you let them they will all destroy your life as well as their own. Take longer to get to know them before getting intimately involved with them because lots of very nasty and very damaging people are very accomplished actors who can pretend to be really nice at the beginning.

Try to check them out. Become face book friends with them and check out their face book profile. This way you will discover what kind of things they are into and what they are talking about on face book ? Also click of their F.B. friend's profiles to see what kind of people they are friends with and what these people are about and into also ? You can find out a LOT of information about people this way without even having to ask them any direct questions at all.


Are you for realwow

If I had to rely on Facebook to suss someone out ,I'd give up. Not only that, anyone with any modicum of sense would have security on their A/C so you can't just click on anyone to check them out.
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Dec 2, 2013 3:42 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
Prapiroon: You cannot fix people who are damaged and broken or save them from themselves. These people are losers and if you let them they will all destroy your life as well as their own. Take longer to get to know them before getting intimately involved with them because lots of very nasty and very damaging people are very accomplished actors who can pretend to be really nice at the beginning.

Try to check them out. Become face book friends with them and check out their face book profile. This way you will discover what kind of things they are into and what they are talking about on face book ? Also click of their F.B. friend's profiles to see what kind of people they are friends with and what these people are about and into also ? You can find out a LOT of information about people this way without even having to ask them any direct questions at all.


seems your another expert on human beings.

so if someone is really nice at the beginning should I consider them all to be nasty and damaged???

and the whole thing about FB just doesn't sit too well with me.
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Dec 2, 2013 6:46 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
Glitch101: Are you for real

If I had to rely on Facebook to suss someone out ,I'd give up. Not only that, anyone with any modicum of sense would have security on their A/C so you can't just click on anyone to check them out.


Once they have accepted your friends request you would gain access to their timeline wouldn't you ? They can lie to your face but they cannot invent a fake F.B. profile at the drop of a hat. Not everyone has privacy settings. You can discover quite a lot usually.
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Dec 2, 2013 6:51 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
Tormented: seems your another expert on human beings.

so if someone is really nice at the beginning should I consider them all to be nasty and damaged???

and the whole thing about FB just doesn't sit too well with me.


Of course not but they might be. I mean people do not fall for sociopaths and psychopaths because they appeared to be evil and nasty. Quite the opposite. The very reason why these predators are SO successful is because they are well dressed, good looking, very articulate, confident and charismatic.
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Dec 2, 2013 6:53 PM CST enough with the bad boys!!!!
Ana13
Ana13Ana13Winchester, Hampshire, England UK3 Threads 147 Posts
"bad boys" are just more cocky and often charming on the outside so they easily form friendships and relationships. Delve a bit deeper and their true colours shine through.
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