What are the Qualities of a good guy? (14)

Dec 18, 2013 7:29 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
ChiefOhara
ChiefOharaChiefOharaMallow, Cork Ireland6 Threads 36 Posts
Its an honest question, open to honest people.

We all live life to our own standards, but asking as a man to other men and women, what defines a good man to you?
Dec 18, 2013 7:34 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
ChiefOhara: Its an honest question, open to honest people.

We all live life to our own standards, but asking as a man to other men and women, what defines a good man to you?
a good man will always make the cuppa and light a cigarette for his woman after some hot lovin beer
Dec 18, 2013 7:37 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
mjpd67: a good man will always make the cuppa and light a cigarette for his woman after some hot lovin


And good man won't rob another man of his Christmas dream presentslaugh
Dec 18, 2013 7:41 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
sirLarryIII: And good man won't rob another man of his Christmas dream presents
if its a cracker of a present we could pull it together grin
Dec 18, 2013 8:14 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
ChiefOhara
ChiefOharaChiefOharaMallow, Cork Ireland6 Threads 36 Posts
mjpd67: a good man will always make the cuppa and light a cigarette for his woman after some hot lovin


You know i honestly think that is a genuine quality of a man that needs to portrayed a bit more.

There is so much about protectiveness, confidence, providence, aggressiveness that people overlook the paternal aspect of it. There is a nurturing need to a man that honestly needs to be reflected more i think.
Dec 18, 2013 8:41 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
ChiefOhara: You know i honestly think that is a genuine quality of a man that needs to portrayed a bit more.

There is so much about protectiveness, confidence, providence, aggressiveness that people overlook the paternal aspect of it. There is a nurturing need to a man that honestly needs to be reflected more i think.

I think protectiveness and what mjp mentioned can be linked? I mean protecting also ties in with caring?

Will think on this a bit more and hit everyone with an essay once I have found a way to formulate what I feel is important (or maybe not, maybe for once I will say nothing and shock everyone that way devil giggle)
Dec 18, 2013 8:53 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
ChiefOhara: Its an honest question, open to honest people.

We all live life to our own standards, but asking as a man to other men and women, what defines a good man to you?

Well no offense to you...this is a question that is often asked...same as what is a good woman?
We are all people and if we choose to be an a**hole then that is not a gender thing.
To answer your question...a good guy is just a decent person who treats everybody in his life with respect whether it is his parents, his siblings or his friends..
Then again..that is only my opinion....It should not even be broken down to gender..a female should also care about her family and friends also and respect others as should any guy on CS...YAY
Dec 18, 2013 9:24 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
ChiefOhara
ChiefOharaChiefOharaMallow, Cork Ireland6 Threads 36 Posts
saoirse65: Well no offense to you...this is a question that is often asked...same as what is a good woman?
We are all people and if we choose to be an a**hole then that is not a gender thing.
To answer your question...a good guy is just a decent person who treats everybody in his life with respect whether it is his parents, his siblings or his friends..
Then again..that is only my opinion....It should not even be broken down to gender..a female should also care about her family and friends also and respect others as should any guy on CS...YAY


No offence taken,

I guess i am asking this question for selfish reasons, in what is expected of me as a gender.

looking at all the various profile expectations of this site, people want different things from a prospective partner, and all i am asking here is what they want specifically from a male gender.

From what i see age and different stages and priorities of life play a very significant part here in choosing a partner. Any man can say he is a good man, and most of us genuinely are! I guess all i want to know is what proves it to woman?
Dec 19, 2013 4:58 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
ChiefOhara: No offence taken,

I guess i am asking this question for selfish reasons, in what is expected of me as a gender.

looking at all the various profile expectations of this site, people want different things from a prospective partner, and all i am asking here is what they want specifically from a male gender.

From what i see age and different stages and priorities of life play a very significant part here in choosing a partner. Any man can say he is a good man, and most of us genuinely are! I guess all i want to know is what proves it to woman?


Speaking for me, the only thing I expect from someone when I meet him is being honest and upfront about what he wants and that we can talk about things.

Everyone has different things that float their boat and it changes as we get older or as our life changes.

We all have different things that attract us to someone, being kind and caring is something which attracts me to someone. handshake
Dec 19, 2013 6:05 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
Karn1
Karn1Karn1Galway, Ireland11 Threads 1 Polls 252 Posts
6ft under with a large legacyrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing









only joking but couldn't resist!
Dec 20, 2013 5:06 AM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
why tailor yourself to suit others...

be yourself and get someone who deserves you...thats a good man wink
Dec 20, 2013 6:38 AM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
jamiethekid
jamiethekidjamiethekidtipperary, Tipperary Ireland2 Threads 524 Posts
ChiefOhara: Its an honest question, open to honest people.

We all live life to our own standards, but asking as a man to other men and women, what defines a good man to you?
A good man is secure confident pretend if you have 2 and be your self, never show sign of weakness if you want to get aaammm a date. grin
Dec 20, 2013 7:09 AM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
ChiefOhara: Its an honest question, open to honest people.

We all live life to our own standards, but asking as a man to other men and women, what defines a good man to you?


just being a doormat for people..women especially..then you will be a good guyireland
Dec 20, 2013 12:58 PM CST What are the Qualities of a good guy?
IWILLTEASEYOU
IWILLTEASEYOUIWILLTEASEYOUTIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland59 Threads 1 Polls 933 Posts
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