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Dec 22, 2013 2:20 AM CST Reason..
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
dear friends,
let's us sharing though here...
what is your reason of looking for love, falling in love, and marry?
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Dec 22, 2013 2:22 AM CST Reason..
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Mei82686: dear friends,
let's us sharing though here...
what is your reason of looking for love, falling in love, and marry?


wave The same reason as your own.
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Dec 22, 2013 2:27 AM CST Reason..
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing smart and a good answer thumbs up
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Dec 22, 2013 2:31 AM CST Reason..
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Mei82686: dear friends,
let's us sharing though here...
what is your reason of looking for love, falling in love, and marry?



Dear Mei....

I guess each one of us has a different reason...

customs, happiness, security, because you feel you should.. etc

But its also OK to not want any of that... some people like their independence..


There are really strong points in both arguments...


wave
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Dec 22, 2013 2:32 AM CST Reason..
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Mei82686: smart and a good answer



So is that the end of your thread now wave


laugh cheers
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Dec 22, 2013 2:44 AM CST Reason..
serene56: So is that the end of your thread now


Just like 4th of July, We spend our Money, just to have a Blast!laugh wave uh oh
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Dec 22, 2013 2:48 AM CST Reason..
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Just like 4th of July, We spend our Money, just to have a Blast!



Can't say the earth moved for me here wave laugh
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Dec 22, 2013 3:00 AM CST Reason..
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: Can't say the earth moved for me here



You could fake it like a good sportgrin grin grin
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Dec 22, 2013 3:01 AM CST Reason..
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
tomcatwarne: You could fake it like a good sport



I just did.
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Dec 22, 2013 3:02 AM CST Reason..
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: I just did.



I knew itdoh
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Dec 22, 2013 7:43 AM CST Reason..
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
dear pals,
thanks have drop by and given some words here. though they haven't fully answer my queries.But at least it can make me smile while read them. hmmm smile
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Dec 22, 2013 8:20 AM CST Reason..
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Mei82686: dear friends,
let's us sharing though here...
what is your reason of looking for love, falling in love, and marry?


Hi Mei,

Some seek love and marriage because they feel insecure and unable to cope without someone else.

Some seek love and marriage because they want to control another person and marriage lets them do this through emotional manipulation.

Some seek love and marriage because they think that this will make them happy, not realizing that happiness comes from within themselves.

Some seek love and marriage because they want to care and give to another person.

Some seek love and marriage because they want money.

These are some of the reasons why people seek love and marriage.

For me, I am a better human being when I can care for another person. It helps me to be less self-centred and selfish. It gives my fiancee security and value and self-worth. She realizes that someone in the world thinks she is beautiful, when she does not think this. Also I need the companionship. Talking to myself at night does nothing for my sanity..... ha ha.
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Dec 22, 2013 8:30 AM CST Reason..
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
Halv0: Hi Mei,

Some seek love and marriage because they feel insecure and unable to cope without someone else.

Some seek love and marriage because they want to control another person and marriage lets them do this through emotional manipulation.

Some seek love and marriage because they think that this will make them happy, not realizing that happiness comes from within themselves.

Some seek love and marriage because they want to care and give to another person.

Some seek love and marriage because they want money.

These are some of the reasons why people seek love and marriage.

For me, I am a better human being when I can care for another person. It helps me to be less self-centred and selfish. It gives my fiancee security and value and self-worth. She realizes that someone in the world thinks she is beautiful, when she does not think this. Also I need the companionship. Talking to myself at night does nothing for my sanity..... ha ha.
doh
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Dec 22, 2013 2:37 PM CST Reason..
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
Halv0: Hi Mei,

Some seek love and marriage because they feel insecure and unable to cope without someone else.

Some seek love and marriage because they want to control another person and marriage lets them do this through emotional manipulation.

Some seek love and marriage because they think that this will make them happy, not realizing that happiness comes from within themselves.

Some seek love and marriage because they want to care and give to another person.

Some seek love and marriage because they want money.

These are some of the reasons why people seek love and marriage.

For me, I am a better human being when I can care for another person. It helps me to be less self-centred and selfish. It gives my fiancee security and value and self-worth. She realizes that someone in the world thinks she is beautiful, when she does not think this. Also I need the companionship. Talking to myself at night does nothing for my sanity..... ha ha.



And some seek love for the warm joy they get from having someone to help them put the xmas lights up!handshake


Great points!!!handshake




SHANTIwine
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Dec 22, 2013 7:42 PM CST Reason..
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
Halv0 & Harley,
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your though.
That's given me some glimpse why people seek love & marriage.
Have a good day hug cheers
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Dec 22, 2013 8:56 PM CST Reason..
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
Mei82686: dear friends,
let's us sharing though here...
what is your reason of looking for love, falling in love, and marry?


Because... I don't want to do it alone.. giggle


wine


"Men marry because they are tired; women because they are curious. Both are disappointed." ~OSCAR WILDE, A Woman of No Importance smile
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Dec 22, 2013 9:20 PM CST Reason..
Pom_Pom
Pom_PomPom_PomBuenos Aires, Argentina71 Threads 32 Polls 1,740 Posts
bohemianjack: Because... I don't want to do it alone.. "Men marry because they are tired; women because they are curious. Both are disappointed." ~OSCAR WILDE, A Woman of No Importance



If Oscar Wilde wrote that it was because he was dissapointed he couldn't marry Bosie.





laugh
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Dec 22, 2013 9:34 PM CST Reason..
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
Tiered of being alone miss having someone to hold and to share the good times and the bad ones!tip hat daydream wave
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Dec 22, 2013 9:53 PM CST Reason..
smallcute
smallcutesmallcutesemarang, Central Java Indonesia3 Threads 45 Posts
bohemianjack: Because... I don't want to do it alone..



thumbs up everyone needs love , and need someone who can be trusted to be a life partner to share the ups and downs and passing through old age
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Dec 23, 2013 7:44 PM CST Reason..
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
Scott1812: Tiered of being alone miss having someone to hold and to share the good times and the bad ones!
thumbs up

Thank you my friends, for sharing your though here.
Wishing you all gonna have a wonderful X'MAST eve.snowman santa waving
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