Counselling and Therapies. ( Archived) (149)

Jan 3, 2014 5:18 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
What do the terms 'counselling' and/or 'therapy' mean to you?

Do you have experience of counselling and/or therapies?

Under what circumstances would you consider counselling and/or therapies?
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Jan 3, 2014 5:27 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Never been to any kind of counseling or therapy myself but my son did when he had a earring loss and had to attend speech therapy from K-8th grade.He had to learn how to make the vowel sounds of words.
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Jan 3, 2014 5:29 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379: What do the terms 'counselling' and/or 'therapy' mean to you?

Do you have experience of counselling and/or therapies?

Under what circumstances would you consider counselling and/or therapies?
hi Jac....thought about it.....after loseing mum.....but to old now ...for it to work..so I just live with the pain.....hard life sometimes.??????.
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Jan 3, 2014 5:35 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
I studied councelling/councelling services as part of my HNC in social work,Ive used councelling services twice..wave
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Jan 3, 2014 5:37 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Ccincy: Never been to any kind of counseling or therapy myself but my son did when he had a earring loss and had to attend speech therapy from K-8th grade.He had to learn how to make the vowel sounds of words.

I assume that was supposed to be 'hearing loss', Ccincy, unless your son was mortified into silence by losing a diamanté stud as a child. laugh
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Jan 3, 2014 5:37 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
truheart1941: hi Jac....thought about it.....after loseing mum.....but to old now ...for it to work..so I just live with the pain.....hard life sometimes.??????.

hey P..hug you are never too old for councelling it don't have an age barrier its a coping method for anyone..teddybear
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Jan 3, 2014 5:38 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
truheart1941: hi Jac....thought about it.....after loseing mum.....but to old now ...for it to work..so I just live with the pain.....hard life sometimes.??????.

hey P..hug you are never too old for councelling it don't have an age barrier its a coping method for anyone..teddybear
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Jan 3, 2014 5:38 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
truheart1941: hi Jac....thought about it.....after loseing mum.....but to old now ...for it to work..so I just live with the pain.....hard life sometimes.??????.

Why do you think you're too old for it to work, True?

How do you think (presumably) bereavement counselling 'works'?
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Jan 3, 2014 5:40 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
BenG2011
BenG2011BenG2011wexford, Wexford Ireland10 Posts
hey I first went to counselling at 19 when my mam wanted me to quit smoking weed..i thought it was a joke.i stopped goin..7 years later..signed myself into a rehab clinic..for cocaine,and prescription drugs,after losin my long term gf and car and all my friend.]s..my brain was fried..and im goin to na meetins twice a week for groupe therapy.my life ha changed around..by just bein honest and acceptin I couldn't do it alone,
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Jan 3, 2014 5:42 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
boomboom_uk: I studied councelling/councelling services as part of my HNC in social work,Ive used councelling services twice..

Hi Boom, good to see you. hug

How did you find using counselling services?

How did you find using counselling skills in your work?

Did you study counselling skills before, or after using the services yourself? How did your knowledge impact upon being a service provider and/or a service user?
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Jan 3, 2014 5:42 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
BenG2011: hey I first went to counselling at 19 when my mam wanted me to quit smoking weed..i thought it was a joke.i stopped goin..7 years later..signed myself into a rehab clinic..for cocaine,and prescription drugs,after losin my long term gf and car and all my friend.]s..my brain was fried..and im goin to na meetins twice a week for groupe therapy.my life ha changed around..by just bein honest and acceptin I couldn't do it alone,

nice one Ben...thumbs up
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Jan 3, 2014 5:44 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
jac379: I assume that was supposed to be 'hearing loss', Ccincy, unless your son was mortified into silence by losing a diamanté stud as a child.





Yes jac I met hearing.I've got a new keyboard and it's taking time to get used to the keys cause they are stiff.laugh
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Jan 3, 2014 5:47 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
BenG2011: hey I first went to counselling at 19 when my mam wanted me to quit smoking weed..i thought it was a joke.i stopped goin..7 years later..signed myself into a rehab clinic..for cocaine,and prescription drugs,after losin my long term gf and car and all my friend.]s..my brain was fried..and im goin to na meetins twice a week for groupe therapy.my life ha changed around..by just bein honest and acceptin I couldn't do it alone,

Thank you for sharing your personal experiences, Ben.

What made your experiences positive and negative? Was it just from within, your decision to accept you couldn't do it alone? Was it because it was your choice in later life? Was it something to do with the difference in the services that were provided between your first and later experiences?
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Jan 3, 2014 5:48 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
It appears that some people are never satisfied with whom they have.

It seems they have to find greener pastures in which to romp in.

They are only playing with fire and may get burnt someday.
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Jan 3, 2014 5:49 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Ccincy: It appears that some people are never satisfied with whom they have.

It seems they have to find greener pastures in which to romp in.

They are only playing with fire and may get burnt someday.





Sorry jac wrong thread I met to post this in the Say Anything thread..blushing blushing
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Jan 3, 2014 5:50 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Ccincy: Yes jac I met hearing.I've got a new keyboard and it's taking time to get used to the keys cause they are stiff.

It was a good one, Ccincy.

How did you and your son find the experience of the speech therapy? Was it a positive, or negative experience? Did it provide just speech therapy, or did you find it useful in any other way? How did it make you feel to be using a therapy service?
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Jan 3, 2014 5:50 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
jac379: Hi Boom, good to see you.

How did you find using counselling services?

How did you find using counselling skills in your work?

Did you study counselling skills before, or after using the services yourself? How did your knowledge impact upon being a service provider and/or a service user?

using them for myself was unhelpful at first Jac it took me at least 3/4 different times before I found someone who I felt I could open up to and who I felt really listened..the first one I seen was a clock watcher and sat paraphrasing everything I said..I felt no connection with her..when using councilling skills in my place of work I found listening and letting the client open up at their own pace and building a relationship with them helped get a bigger picture of the clients issues etc bouquet
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Jan 3, 2014 5:51 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk: hey P.. you are never too old for councelling it don't have an age barrier its a coping method for anyone..
...hi B/B......being on my own.....perhaps I have more time on my hands then most......to ponder.........dunno dunno
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Jan 3, 2014 5:52 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Ccincy: Sorry jac wrong thread I met to post this in the Say Anything thread..

Damn that new keyboard! laugh

Glad you said, mind. I was just about to suggest you seek therapy. giggle
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Jan 3, 2014 5:52 PM CST Counselling and Therapies.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
Ccincy: Sorry jac wrong thread I met to post this in the Say Anything thread..

made me LOLLLLLL laugh hug
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