So after going through the search list what to do then? (5)

Jan 7, 2014 6:18 AM CST So after going through the search list what to do then?
Hiniberus
HiniberusHiniberusMosta, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 5 Posts
Ello all!

This is my first topic posting up around here, so I'm not sure if there is some format to follow (after seeing a few I don't think so o:?) but anyway, I've come across a slight dilemma as the title states, I had gone through the entire list of people with only meagre filter of ages (18-26 which is rather broad, I suppose?) and all over Malta (Gozo included) yet with little results.

Granted I have gone out with about two people for the two or so months I have been using this service, though with a low number of replies from others I fear a rather prolonged haitus may be required to let the list build up some more? Though if anyone has any suggestions it would be pretty great if there is something else to do that could help out!

No I'm not asking for a profile review, (although I do take up any constructive criticism!) just seeing if there are other means and ways of possibly getting some attention and the like.
Jan 7, 2014 11:26 AM CST So after going through the search list what to do then?
arbra
arbraarbraVilvoorde, Flemish Brabant Belgium2 Posts
Hi Hiniberus,

Well i think there's little to expect from free dating sites in general. Many girls here have fake profiles or are here just to shop for a rich guy or for the next Brad Pitt. So if you'r not rich and not Brad Pitt and unless you are isolated with little to no chance of meeting people,I would not recommend any free dating site.

Me too, I've spend quite some times doing advanced searches, reading profiles and writing them only to never get a response, and like you I'm a normal guy with normal intentions so I see no reason I shouldn't get responses. I think dating sites are really a waste of time for us men and i think we are better off going out in the real world, on other forums or, why not, on online video games.
Jan 7, 2014 7:44 PM CST So after going through the search list what to do then?
Hiniberus
HiniberusHiniberusMosta, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 5 Posts
Greetings there,

Thank you for sharing your reply and I am grateful that I am not the only one that seems to be having this issue. I suppose the tone of the topic can come off as quite negative or dip into that and it isn't somethign I'd like it to! I am merely curious to see if there is anything else to do aside from going on haitus.

I have asked for profile reviews and the only thing I got in terms of constructive criticism was to say what my best personality strengths are along with some photos of me smiling. Granted the latter is hard for me to genuinely pull off but I'll manage something on that, that aside I was given a few compliments from others albeit a slight out of my age range (and locality!) so maybe you ought to try something there?

Also, having two part-time jobs generally reduces one's time for searching in the 'real world' when you spend 12 hours sometimes in offices, you'd want a break not be bustling about haha!

Thanks for your input regardless though!
Mar 6, 2014 7:09 AM CST So after going through the search list what to do then?
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
Hiniberus: Ello all!

This is my first topic posting up around here, so I'm not sure if there is some format to follow (after seeing a few I don't think so o:?) but anyway, I've come across a slight dilemma as the title states, I had gone through the entire list of people with only meagre filter of ages (18-26 which is rather broad, I suppose?) and all over Malta (Gozo included) yet with little results.

Granted I have gone out with about two people for the two or so months I have been using this service, though with a low number of replies from others I fear a rather prolonged haitus may be required to let the list build up some more? Though if anyone has any suggestions it would be pretty great if there is something else to do that could help out!

No I'm not asking for a profile review, (although I do take up any constructive criticism!) just seeing if there are other means and ways of possibly getting some attention and the like.


Yeah I couldn't agree more , As I said before :
One side too many scammers.
One side too many players.
And in the middle a few good people.

I'm also a normal guy, came out a relationship 2 months ago ,and I find it very difficult to adapt my self to cs.

For example as we are talking ,5 min ago I got an email from an native american girl with her email address. Now bloody hell am I the only guy here that thinks email is for WORK purpose?

( Alexandro l
Mar 9, 2014 6:00 AM CST So after going through the search list what to do then?
Hiniberus
HiniberusHiniberusMosta, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 5 Posts
Alexandro10: Yeah I couldn't agree more , As I said before :
One side too many scammers.
One side too many players.
And in the middle a few good people.

I'm also a normal guy, came out a relationship 2 months ago ,and I find it very difficult to adapt my self to cs.

For example as we are talking ,5 min ago I got an email from an native american girl with her email address. Now bloody hell am I the only guy here that thinks email is for WORK purpose?

( Alexandro l


Yeah, I don't quite get the point of players, though I suppose some do enjoy one-night stands more than building an actual relationship. Sorry to hear you came out of one two months ago but it's great that you're trying to move on buddy :D

I'm not sure what to do aside from possibly set your email to manually update? So while you're on a date with someone you just pay attention to her but afterwards when you get home or something you can update it then?

Those are my two cents at least!
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