If your child committed a crime that would send them to prison for years and only you knew about it, would you turn them over to the authorities or would you keep their secret in order to keep them out of prison?
misbhavn: If your child committed a crime that would send them to prison for years and only you knew about it, would you turn them over to the authorities or would you keep their secret in order to keep them out of prison?
Ah, no one tackled this one. If it was a heinous crime, the child, let's assume an adult, would be turned in. Tax fraud, I would not, but very large grey area.
pedalguy59: Ah, no one tackled this one. If it was a heinous crime, the child, let's assume an adult, would be turned in. Tax fraud, I would not, but very large grey area.
serene56: Ooh this is a toughie, good question If a human being was hurt or killed, I would have to report my child.
However if it were a major robbery or a so-called 'victimless crime', I would be in two minds for sure.
Hey lady! It is a tough question. I can't imagine turning my daughter over to the authorities and then off to prison for years or for a life sentence. How heart-breaking!
misbhavn: Hey lady! It is a tough question. I can't imagine turning my daughter over to the authorities and then off to prison for years or for a life sentence. How heart-breaking!
Mis
Often crosses my mind when reading of peoples' crimes and their ensuing jail sentence, how that is someone's son, daughter, parent, sibling, lover and so on.
serene56: Mis Often crosses my mind when reading of peoples' crimes and their ensuing jail sentence, how that is someone's son, daughter, parent, sibling, lover and so on.
misbhavn: If your child committed a crime that would send them to prison for years and only you knew about it, would you turn them over to the authorities or would you keep their secret in order to keep them out of prison?
No one can keep a secret for ever, the truth always shines.-
serene56: Mis Often crosses my mind when reading of peoples' crimes and their ensuing jail sentence, how that is someone's son, daughter, parent, sibling, lover and so on.
Just awful
I would hate to be in that position. I also often wonder how child/parent lives with this situation. Horrible! Just horrible!
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
theD0CT0R: Is that without hesitation to let them do their time for a crime, or would you protect them?
Ah doctor... I don't believe that there should be an exemption for anyone..
Laws are in place for a reason, and that same access is for everyone, so if you feel that you are above the law... then of course, you wouldn't turn in your own... but then, by the same token... if someone did something to you and yours.. then I feel, the law need not protect them...
Sorry, but for me... its a two way street... either stand one side or the other... not jump the line when you feel like it..
Merriweather: Ah doctor... I don't believe that there should be an exemption for anyone..
Laws are in place for a reason, and that same access is for everyone, so if you feel that you are above the law... then of course, you wouldn't turn in your own... but then, by the same token... if someone did something to you and yours.. then I feel, the law need not protect them...
Sorry, but for me... its a two way street... either stand one side or the other... not jump the line when you feel like it..
Whoa, this is a grey area if there ever was one. In making the choice to turn in an adult offspring, we would decide for ourselves the severity of the crime, and as a Mother, I believe you would too.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
pedalguy59: Whoa, this is a grey area if there ever was one. In making the choice to turn in an adult offspring, we would decide for ourselves the severity of the crime, and as a Mother, I believe you would too.
Sorry... I think you are wrong...
as a mother.. I instilled the difference between right and wrong..
I am extremely black and white on this subject..
like I said...without hesitation
We like living in a country with rules. We like the privledges of having rules to protect us We like to know that we have the law on our side. etc etc.
so how do you all of a sudden, say.. Oh dear.. but this rule does not apply to me and mine.. ???
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