Feb 26, 2014 3:52 AM CST JUST GOT A HORRIBLE MESSAGE IN MY IN BOX
goldenglossMalahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads389 Posts
goldenglossOPMalahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland389 posts
Hello all, Ive had the mother of all Lung infections with phneumonia and am going round the twist at home. I like the forums and that's why i am basically on Connecting Singles. Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc., My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt
In response to: Hello all, Ive had the mother of all Lung infections with phneumonia and am going round the twist at home. I like the forums and that's why i am basically on Connecting Singles. Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc., My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt
I'm so sorry! What a nasty piece of work he must be. Maybe he actually has a bit of a crush on you and that is his childish way to show it. That comment would bring me down as I do too suffer depression.
Either lower yourself, and tell him to go to hell,or ignore and delete.-JMO.
goldengloss: Hello all, Ive had the mother of all Lung infections with phneumonia and am going round the twist at home. I like the forums and that's why i am basically on Connecting Singles. Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc., My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt
goldengloss: Hello all, Ive had the mother of all Lung infections with phneumonia and am going round the twist at home. I like the forums and that's why i am basically on Connecting Singles. Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc., My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt
Ignore fools like that. It's always the ones without pics up themselves Do you really care what a faceless stranger on the web thinks of you?
Having said that, I'm really sorry you were the target of his spite.
I had a message on another site a few months ago from someone who accused me of lying about my age. Said I looked ten years older than the age I claimed ... that hurt at the time ... I was a bit fragile. Doesn't bother me much now, but at the time it hurt.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
1969soul: I'm so sorry! What a nasty piece of work he must be. Maybe he actually has a bit of a crush on you and that is his childish way to show it. That comment would bring me down as I do too suffer depression.
He sounds a creep- why even bother to acknowledge his existence. Just report and delete. And in your mind say, "I'm not going to let a low life make me feel bad."
goldengloss: Hello all, Ive had the mother of all Lung infections with phneumonia and am going round the twist at home. I like the forums and that's why i am basically on Connecting Singles. Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc., My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt
Hello Goldengloss, sad to hear your plight, I suggest when you come on line know to delete people that,1 are not close to you in vacinity,, forget no show of photos, cut your choices down. You are fragile, they know.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
sophiasummer: Hello Goldengloss, sad to hear your plight, I suggest when you come on line know to delete people that,1 are not close to you in vacinity,, forget no show of photos, cut your choices down. You are fragile, they know.
Sophia
Yes, and I meant to say don't let him know he's got through to you, that's what he's looking for!!!!
I could start a thread with all the comments I get about the year I was born in. Some are very painful. I report and block the freaks but sometimes it's hard to ignore.
1969soul: I could start a thread with all the comments I get about the year I was born in. Some are very painful. I report and block the freaks but sometimes it's hard to ignore.
tomcatwarne: He sounds a creep- why even bother to acknowledge his existence. Just report and delete. And in your mind say, "I'm not going to let a low life make me feel bad."
Maybe, although people deal with stuff in different ways. Last night I got one from some freak dressed in a bunny rabbit outfit that would knock the socks off the most open minded people. It can't be posted as it's too graphic. I replied by inviting him for a play day with my greyhound.
1969soul: Maybe, although people deal with stuff in different ways. Last night I got one from some freak dressed in a bunny rabbit outfit that would knock the socks off the most open minded people. It can't be posted as it's too graphic. I replied by inviting him for a play day with my greyhound.
1969soul: Maybe, although people deal with stuff in different ways. Last night I got one from some freak dressed in a bunny rabbit outfit that would knock the socks off the most open minded people. It can't be posted as it's too graphic. I replied by inviting him for a play day with my greyhound.
goldengloss: Hello all, Ive had the mother of all Lung infections with phneumonia and am going round the twist at home. I like the forums and that's why i am basically on Connecting Singles. Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc., My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt
Golden, just ignore this SOB. I hope you BLOCKED him. Don't let his words get to you. We all get terrible messages from i----ts like that from time to time. I am really sorry about what happened to you.
1969soul: Maybe, although people deal with stuff in different ways. Last night I got one from some freak dressed in a bunny rabbit outfit that would knock the socks off the most open minded people. It can't be posted as it's too graphic. I replied by inviting him for a play day with my greyhound.
Jerks ....................... Just block and report !!!!
Hello Golden, never feel down for some desaxed, frustrated people sending you coward personal attacks, they value and admire you more than you can imagine, the fact they mentioned you clearly shows up that you are or have something they don't ........ think about it. Have a very good day.
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Anyway... I received a message from a FACELESS MAN [suprise, suprise ] He just wanted to say that If I was the age I said I was, then he was Elvis. To cop on and tell the truth etc.,
My photos arenot airbrushed, not did I go to any great length to put up gorgeous ones, glamorous ones as I wanted to be natural. I answered him back [lowered myself] by saying he hadnt even the guts to have a photo up, etc., but what he thought of my looks, age , was none of my business. I do suffer bouts of Depression though and if that had been say, 3 months ago, when I was grieving over a long term relationship, it would have hurt me deeply. I dont worry too much now what men think of my looks, but it could have hurt somebody deeply. Nasty piece of work. Thats it. Vitriol spilt