equiya: That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.
equiya: That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.
Sorry but thats a total over reaction. We are willingly on a dating site for goodness sake, putting our pictures up for the world and its Mother to see. Someone looking at them a lot is not stalking.
I bet the OP doesnt find the guy attractive either, we wouldnt be having this discussion if she did.
Glatlol: Sorry but thats a total over reaction. We are willingly on a dating site for goodness sake, putting our pictures up for the world and its Mother to see. Someone looking at them a lot is not stalking.
I bet the OP doesnt find the guy attractive either, we wouldnt be having this discussion if she did.
Glatlol: Sorry but thats a total over reaction. We are willingly on a dating site for goodness sake, putting our pictures up for the world and its Mother to see. Someone looking at them a lot is not stalking.
I bet the OP doesnt find the guy attractive either, we wouldnt be having this discussion if she did.
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
equiya: That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.
You obviously have no idea what stalking is. Just because he is looking at a very blurred photo of you, it doesn't cause you any harm or fear, so is hardly stalking you.
Much drama over something that really is a wee in the ocean. Someone is looking at someone and doing nothing about it. Big deal. Wonder what would happen if there was a real crisis?
I'd like to thank everyone who has given their thoughts and opinions to explain this guy's behaviour, it is always helpful to see the situation from someone else's perspective.
22W00: I am baffled as to why someone would visit my profile everyday, sometimes more than once. I could understand someone viewing a profile a couple of times, and maybe with a memory lapse a month or so later. Can anyone give me an insight to explain this behaviour - I am not after compliments, but serious opinions. I am considering deleting my account and coming back faceless or confronting him with a message asking him to stop...what do you think?
ignore and move on. regarding this kind of attitude it is inconsequential. some people enjoy being insecure and alone.
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