Easyboy1: What ever the mother told her that is all she knows. If she ever come and ask me i have all the proofs to show her that i've tried to see her but the mother gave me a hell of a ride and i choose to stop pursuing it.
But do you think it's justifiable punishing your daughter now especially in light of what you said about her issues, because of the past actions of the mother that was obviously not the fault of your child?
Unfortunatelly the system works that way and the children have to suffer. I've tried to fight it but is one way. The western courts always supports the woman unless she is very very bad.
NotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia1,210 posts
Easyboy1: Unfortunatelly the system works that way and the children have to suffer. I've tried to fight it but is one way. The western courts always supports the woman unless she is very very bad.
You can't continue to blame the mother and the courts now that you've had opportunities to see your child.
You might feel it's too late, your daughter may feel differently.
Easyboy1: Unfortunatelly the system works that way and the children have to suffer. I've tried to fight it but is one way. The western courts always supports the woman unless she is very very bad.
I'm not judging you but from what I see, you're blaming the system to avoid responsibility for ignoring her because you cannot overcome your bitterness.
Imagine it cost me 25000 euro, what do you think i will die poor and homeless for the eyes of the people, is not going to happen, sorry ladies enough is enough.
I realize you're only human. I can only hope the situation improves and together with counselling (suggestion), you will eventually re-establish contact with your daughter. I wish you well in this.
Are the emotes for me, Tom? If so, spit it out already. Eh, nevermind, you're not worth the effort. Feeling the big man with back up eh? Spare me your moods.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
unlaoised: Are the emotes for me, Tom? If so, spit it out already. Eh, nevermind, you're not worth the effort. Feeling the big man with back up eh? Spare me your moods.
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But do you think it's justifiable punishing your daughter now especially in light of what you said about her issues, because of the past actions of the mother that was obviously not the fault of your child?