How long does it take to get over a broken up long term marriage?. (3)

Apr 16, 2014 2:10 PM CST How long does it take to get over a broken up long term marriage?.
elednuw
elednuwelednuwKamloops, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
I've been divorced for over 20 years(married for 18)and still can't get over losing the love of my life.I'm not really interested in other women.My heart is still with my ex,no matter how I try to get on with my life and meet new women.Just not in to it.What are your experiences?,thoughts?wave
Apr 23, 2014 11:56 AM CST How long does it take to get over a broken up long term marriage?.
elednuw: I've been divorced for over 20 years(married for 18)and still can't get over losing the love of my life.I'm not really interested in other women.My heart is still with my ex,no matter how I try to get on with my life and meet new women.Just not in to it.What are your experiences?,thoughts?


I don't think you really do get over it, especially if you`ve been married for awhile.

If you do find someone new, there`s always the feeling of comparing the new person to the person you`ve broken up with before. Not a good feeling.

Time is supposed to heal the wounds, perhaps it does soften the blow, but it`s like putting a bandaid on a big incision. It doesn't stick.

Hopefully the new person would be good enough to get along with, find true happiness, then I think the unhappiness will gradually ease the pain.
Apr 23, 2014 5:25 PM CST How long does it take to get over a broken up long term marriage?.
elednuw
elednuwelednuwKamloops, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
Thanks for your comment Brian,so true.
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