I was referring mainly why men have this kind of behavior...the need to have multiple se...al partners even when they are married to hot wives...it was a question why why why...what is driving them to even manipulate the vulnerable women to be their victims. Anyhow..all the commentators here have brilliant minds...I just don't know why I had this conversation that most people in cs especially women are sick and have psycho problems.....I felt sad hearing that comment though...
arkisetzu: I was referring mainly why men have this kind of behavior...the need to have multiple se...al partners even when they are married to hot wives...it was a question why why why...what is driving them to even manipulate the vulnerable women to be their victims. Anyhow..all the commentators here have brilliant minds...I just don't know why I had this conversation that most people in cs especially women are sick and have psycho problems.....I felt sad hearing that comment though...
Maybe bad behaviour is more outstanding, that's why you see it. I do see some men and women display this kind of behaviour, sleep around etc. Then there are people who aren't interest in this kind of carry on - my point is, you CHOOSE your partner and friends, choose wisely!
On your comment half of the male population being gay, google the figures and you might get a realistic percentage.
About guys telling you about mental illnesses: every nutter and weirdo is on the net. Also, if someone can't get a partner AT ALL locally, than there is something wrong with them and not other people. These kind of people look at other areas of the world to attract a different kind of partner, someone who doesn't expect to be treated as an equal. Always keep that in mind.
KNenagh: Maybe bad behaviour is more outstanding, that's why you see it. I do see some men and women display this kind of behaviour, sleep around etc. Then there are people who aren't interest in this kind of carry on - my point is, you CHOOSE your partner and friends, choose wisely!
On your comment half of the male population being gay, google the figures and you might get a realistic percentage.
About guys telling you about mental illnesses: every nutter and weirdo is on the net. Also, if someone can't get a partner AT ALL locally, than there is something wrong with them and not other people. These kind of people look at other areas of the world to attract a different kind of partner, someone who doesn't expect to be treated as an equal. Always keep that in mind.
Its a very good point KN and the girls at home are certainly as good as anywhere else,also sound advice for other women however in some instances we do hear of others being genuinely happy from different parts of world but I get what your saying.
I do recall hearing one guy say that he had given up on having a marriage/family because he thought no women in his country were quote''up to his standards''but he did find one abroad and knew immediately she was the one(a desperado).
on a side note:not all married men will cheat or be abusive to their wives because keeping a family together of course means a great deal to some.in my place there still is good husbands/fathers out there.
"A woman is at home when she hears someone knocking at her door. She goes to the door opens it and sees a man standing there. He asks the lady, "Do you have a va*ina?" She slams the door in disgust. The next morning she hears a knock at the door, its the same man and he asks the same question to the woman, "Do you have a va*ina?" She slams the door again. Later that night when her husband gets home she tell him what has happened for the last two days. The husband tells his wife in a loving and concerned voice, "Honey, I am taking an off tomorrow so as to be home, just incase this guy shows up again." The next morning they hear a knock at the door and both ran for the door. The husband whisperes to the wife, "Honey, im going to hide behind the door and listen and if it is the same guy I want you to answer yes to the question because I want to a see where he's going with this." She nods yes to her husband and opens the door. Sure enough the same fellow is standing there, he asks, "Do you have a va*ina?" "Yes I do." says the lady. The man replies, "Good, would you mind telling your husband to leave my wife's alone and start using yours"
Tormented: Its a very good point KN and the girls at home are certainly as good as anywhere else,also sound advice for other women however in some instances we do hear of others being genuinely happy from different parts of world but I get what your saying.
I do recall hearing one guy say that he had given up on having a marriage/family because he thought no women in his country were quote''up to his standards''but he did find one abroad and knew immediately she was the one(a desperado).
on a side note:not all married men will cheat or be abusive to their wives because keeping a family together of course means a great deal to some.in my place there still is good husbands/fathers out there.
Hi Tormented, I do know marriages with people from different regions where people just met by chance and fell for each other.
You hit the nail on the head with the rest of your comments - I also have some great fathers in my family.
ZAKER: "A woman is at home when she hears someone knocking at her door. She goes to the door opens it and sees a man standing there. He asks the lady, "Do you have a va*ina?" She slams the door in disgust. The next morning she hears a knock at the door, its the same man and he asks the same question to the woman, "Do you have a va*ina?" She slams the door again. Later that night when her husband gets home she tell him what has happened for the last two days. The husband tells his wife in a loving and concerned voice, "Honey, I am taking an off tomorrow so as to be home, just incase this guy shows up again." The next morning they hear a knock at the door and both ran for the door.... i did enjoy laughing at this joke.........but beware.....illicit affairs are heartbreaking...........i can make or break someone's life. The husband whisperes to the wife, "Honey, im going to hide behind the door and listen and if it is the same guy I want you to answer yes to the question because I want to a see where he's going with this." She nods yes to her husband and opens the door. Sure enough the same fellow is standing there, he asks, "Do you have a va*ina?" "Yes I do." says the lady. The man replies, "Good, would you mind telling your husband to leave my wife's alone and start using yours"
ZAKER: "A woman is at home when she hears someone knocking at her door. She goes to the door opens it and sees a man standing there. He asks the lady, "Do you have a va*ina?" She slams the door in disgust. The next morning she hears a knock at the door, its the same man and he asks the same question to the woman, "Do you have a va*ina?" She slams the door again. Later that night when her husband gets home she tell him what has happened for the last two days. The husband tells his wife in a loving and concerned voice, "Honey, I am taking an off tomorrow so as to be home, just incase this guy shows up again." The next morning they hear a knock at the door and both ran for the door.... i did enjoy laughing at this joke.........but beware.....illicit affairs are heartbreaking...........i can make or break someone's life. The husband whisperes to the wife, "Honey, im going to hide behind the door and listen and if it is the same guy I want you to answer yes to the question because I want to a see where he's going with this." She nods yes to her husband and opens the door. Sure enough the same fellow is standing there, he asks, "Do you have a va*ina?" "Yes I do." says the lady. The man replies, "Good, would you mind telling your husband to leave my wife's alone and start using yours"
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