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Fresh Starts: I am ready to try something new, something different. I am looking for a like minded person as individual and as unique as me! Are you that person?

You are young.
You would like to have a fresh start in life and make a better life for yourself and your children.

Step 1: Make a plan. Understand it won't happen overnight. Make a realistic step-by-step plan with small achievable goals.

Step 2: Don't look for Sugar Daddies or Sugar Mamas. You are at an age now where you are living in the real world and need to come down from the fantasy world. Take personal responsibility.

Step 3: Respect yourself first. When you respect yourself, you will understand that the life you build yourself and your children will be created through hard work and your own achievements. By doing this, you are also setting an example for your children of how to build their future lives as well.

Step 4: There are assistance and counseling agencies in your city. If you don't know where to do to begin on this road of becoming an adult, seek them out. They can help you with getting the can of paint you want (but don't need). Learn to distinguish the difference between wants and needs. Wants come later. Needs are urgent "Now" things.

Step 5: People will respect you when you take personal responsibility, opportunities will open when you gain people's respect and trust. Please bear in mind, I've said "opportunities", not "freebies". Nothing in life is free. Hard work, sweat, determination will get you on the path you so desire, and that path is never straight, but you keep picking yourself up and moving forward. Take control of your life. That begins with taking the first step...