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Dec 11, 2006 9:18 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
I'm a single mom of three there dad does as little as possible for them, but I am a girl of 07 I have a good job and my own house and don't need help at all. So when a girl has kids how does this play a part on the dating thing and have you ever liked a girl alot and would not date her because of her having kids so really whats the deal and when does a girl bring her kids into the picturehelp
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Dec 11, 2006 9:22 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
The kids should not make a difference. If they are dating you then they are dating you.
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Dec 11, 2006 9:25 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
AdventureBegins
AdventureBeginsAdventureBeginsZanesville, USA66 Threads 1,718 Posts
If your children make a diferance then he ain't worth your time. You are a package.

Be real careful who you get involved with though cause some guys might just be using you to get to your kids. Lots of strange people out there.

AB
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Dec 11, 2006 9:25 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Thanks and I agreegrin
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Dec 11, 2006 9:27 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Thanks AB yup there are some sick ones in this worldhug
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Dec 11, 2006 9:27 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
smiylley17
smiylley17smiylley17Cortland, New York USA42 Threads 717 Posts
always bring your kids up if they dont wanna date you because of your kids then obviously you dont wanna be with them kids are #!
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Dec 11, 2006 9:28 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Sorry Girls your thoughts count as well just wanted a guys point wink conversing
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Dec 11, 2006 9:29 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Thankshug
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Dec 11, 2006 9:30 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
photofreek
photofreekphotofreeksoda springs, USA23 Threads 2,495 Posts
If your not serious about the guy then I wouldn't bring them into the picture.
But if you are serious with him then that changes everything. While looking into this relationship the guy knows that you have children so it becomes that he is not only dating the lady but dating the kidren as well. peace
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Dec 11, 2006 9:31 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
sweetoutdoorsmen
sweetoutdoorsmensweetoutdoorsmenWatertown, New York USA29 Threads 489 Posts
Let them know about the kids and when your comfortable and know this might be something good then bring them in. I'm sure you don't want to bring them in every time you go on a date. Theres nothing wrong with a women with kids.wave wave
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Dec 11, 2006 9:32 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
kiss hug
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Dec 11, 2006 9:35 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
AdventureBegins
AdventureBeginsAdventureBeginsZanesville, USA66 Threads 1,718 Posts
Even in this circumstance the children are important. If she is out on a date and her children need her that date has to understand and step aside.

Children are the first priority.

AB
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Dec 11, 2006 9:36 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Thanks no I was going to wait 6 mo to a year into the relationship before I would bring them in I mean he would see them if he was picking me up but would be more of a friend thing in my kids eyes.
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Dec 11, 2006 9:37 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
I'm a single father of two kids ... that would be the package ... someone would take me and my kids that be cool ,i'm not going by myself ... i hope this helped grin
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Dec 11, 2006 9:39 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
You are right AB they are first I'm all they havethumbs up
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Dec 11, 2006 9:41 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
Kids into the picture?

Immediately. Not as many men are scared off by kids as you might think.
It would be nice to know whether to bring wine or bubbles.
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Dec 11, 2006 9:43 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Thanks Luis I have told you before you are one of a kind and I hand it to you for being a single dad in a way I think its harder on a guy to be the single parent I see my brother do it with two girls but I play a mother part in their lifes as well as my own kids
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Dec 11, 2006 9:44 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
Thanks and I see your point you guys are a great helphug
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Dec 11, 2006 9:50 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
Thanks Bree ,yes it is hard but i don't mind doing it,i brought them to this world so it's my duty to be there for them grin
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Dec 11, 2006 9:56 PM CST Ok Guys need your help on this one !!!!!!
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
The girl that gets you is one lucky lady but she is a great girl herself thanks Luis reallykiss
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