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Aug 6, 2014 10:07 PM CST Memory
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Recently I went to a CS game called test your memory. I played it and rated mediocre. I noticed a lady who had a dreadful score listed below the game. She seemed attractive so I wrote a brief email to her : "you did not do well on the memory game!"

She responded in large letters "MIND YOUR BUSINESS!". She blocked me too!

Do you think she was rude? What should I do?
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Aug 6, 2014 10:32 PM CST Memory
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
In response to: Recently I went to a CS game called test your memory. I played it and rated mediocre. I noticed a lady who had a dreadful score listed below the game. She seemed attractive so I wrote a brief email to her : "you did not do well on the memory game!"

She responded in large letters "MIND YOUR BUSINESS!". She blocked me too!

Do you think she was rude? What should I do?


Oh darn, you've dug a hole for yourself and have fallen right in. Hope she's not reading this. stuck uncertain
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Aug 6, 2014 10:33 PM CST Memory
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
2intrigued: Oh darn, you've dug a hole for yourself and have fallen right in. Hope she's not reading this. stuck uncertain
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Aug 6, 2014 10:42 PM CST Memory
raphael119: Recently I went to a CS game called test your memory. I played it and rated mediocre. I noticed a lady who had a dreadful score listed below the game. She seemed attractive so I wrote a brief email to her : "you did not do well on the memory game!"

She responded in large letters "MIND YOUR BUSINESS!". She blocked me too!

Do you think she was rude? What should I do?



You could have something nice instead Raphael.

No, I don't think she's rude. There's nothing else you can do . But it will will be a lesson learned .. .wink
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Aug 6, 2014 10:44 PM CST Memory
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Its ok, the time element has erased all history of it.
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Aug 6, 2014 10:51 PM CST Memory
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
pinay_survivor: You could have something nice instead Raphael.

No, I don't think she's rude. There's nothing else you can do . But it will will be a lesson learned .. .


ty pinay. Yes, she was very pretty and I imagine I didnt interest her anyway. It was just a silly little game and she was apparently bent out of shape. I didnt find her rude really, just unable to take a poke in the ribs.
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Aug 6, 2014 10:52 PM CST Memory
raphael119: Recently I went to a CS game called test your memory. I played it and rated mediocre. I noticed a lady who had a dreadful score listed below the game. She seemed attractive so I wrote a brief email to her : "you did not do well on the memory game!"

She responded in large letters "MIND YOUR BUSINESS!". She blocked me too!

Do you think she was rude? What should I do?


Do Nothing now....wave


But next time a different approach may make the difference.....cheers
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Aug 6, 2014 10:54 PM CST Memory
raphael119: Its ok, the time element has erased all history of it.



thumbs up handshake
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Aug 6, 2014 10:55 PM CST Memory
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
raphael119: ty pinay. Yes, she was very pretty and I imagine I didnt interest her anyway. It was just a silly little game and she was apparently bent out of shape. I didnt find her rude really, just unable to take a poke in the ribs.


I know your post is directed to Pinay but consider the fact that this women doesn't know you so it would be hard for her to know if you're joking or not. She may have felt insulted. dunno
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Aug 6, 2014 10:55 PM CST Memory
datwasntme
datwasntmedatwasntmewoodbridge, Virginia USA1 Threads 38 Posts
raphael119: Recently I went to a CS game called test your memory. I played it and rated mediocre. I noticed a lady who had a dreadful score listed below the game. She seemed attractive so I wrote a brief email to her : "you did not do well on the memory game!"

She responded in large letters "MIND YOUR BUSINESS!". She blocked me too!

Do you think she was rude? What should I do?



roflmfao
no i don't think she was rude
and nothing you can do about it now since you are blocked
might wanna choose your words a little better next time
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Aug 6, 2014 10:56 PM CST Memory
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Do Nothing now.... But next time a different approach may make the difference.....


yes, ive finally learned to restrain myself after all these years. Kinda late now, soon ill be so old I can do most anything I guess.
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Aug 6, 2014 11:05 PM CST Memory
raphael119: yes, ive finally learned to restrain myself after all these years. Kinda late now, soon ill be so old I can do most anything I guess.


laugh Just put you teeth on the counter and pretend it never happened!rolling on the floor laughing cheers giggle shock
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Aug 6, 2014 11:05 PM CST Memory
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
2intrigued: I know your post is directed to Pinay but consider the fact that this women doesn't know you so it would be hard for her to know if you're joking or not. She may have felt insulted.


good point, the internet doesnt have the body language most of us pick up on, I forgot my medicine at the drug store years ago and left it on counter due to some confusion , clerk made a joke when I came back "you forgot your medicine" tsk tsk. Her body language made it funny.
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Aug 6, 2014 11:06 PM CST Memory
raphael119: ty pinay. Yes, she was very pretty and I imagine I didnt interest her anyway. It was just a silly little game and she was apparently bent out of shape. I didnt find her rude really, just unable to take a poke in the ribs.


We all made mistakes. But at least you learned something from it.

You'll be fine..
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Aug 6, 2014 11:10 PM CST Memory
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
raphael119: good point, the internet doesnt have the body language most of us pick up on, I forgot my medicine at the drug store years ago and left it on counter due to some confusion , clerk made a joke when I came back "you forgot your medicine" tsk tsk. Her body language made it funny.


Yeah, we're so used to interacting with people face to face so we might be inclined to carry this into our interactions with people online and expect the same result. It happens so don't beat yourself up too much about it. Maybe we need to take a little more time thinking before writing but then again, we sometimes suffer foot in mouth disease in real interactions too. laugh
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Aug 6, 2014 11:15 PM CST Memory
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
2intrigued: Yeah, we're so used to interacting with people face to face so we might be inclined to carry this into our interactions with people online and expect the same result. It happens so don't beat yourself up too much about it. Maybe we need to take a little more time thinking before writing but then again, we sometimes suffer foot in mouth disease in real interactions too.


next time if I write to attractive women like you and pinay survivor Ill think first.
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Aug 6, 2014 11:15 PM CST Memory
2intrigued: Yeah, we're so used to interacting with people face to face so we might be inclined to carry this into our interactions with people online and expect the same result. It happens so don't beat yourself up too much about it. Maybe we need to take a little more time thinking before writing but then again, we sometimes suffer foot in mouth disease in real interactions too.


Hello D. If we were all perfect, I doubt we would have time for CSmoping laugh wave hug
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Aug 6, 2014 11:20 PM CST Memory
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
raphael119: next time if I write to attractive women like you and pinay survivor Ill think first.


shimmy laugh
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Aug 6, 2014 11:22 PM CST Memory
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
raphael119: Recently I went to a CS game called test your memory. I played it and rated mediocre. I noticed a lady who had a dreadful score listed below the game. She seemed attractive so I wrote a brief email to her : "you did not do well on the memory game!"

She responded in large letters "MIND YOUR BUSINESS!". She blocked me too!

Do you think she was rude? What should I do?


Just forget it ever happened. Given her score she probably already has.
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Aug 6, 2014 11:25 PM CST Memory
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Hello D. If we were all perfect, I doubt we would have time for CS


Hiya Larry wave This is so true. laugh hug
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