Has anyone actually "met" anyone female on connecting singles or been fobbed off excuses? (49)
I can say the same about the men on CS
Man, I tell ya!
"I am new on here, you seem like such a nice and sincere man...here is my e-mail judygarland4u465@bmail.scom.... blablabla"
This site and another I'm on is packed full of fake females. If the women on this site experience fake male profiles, then we're all just wasting our time. The other site is not free so I'm also wasting money. Can't tell you how many are blonde in the profile and at the same time posting picture of a brunette, or the pic showing a black woman with beautiful brown eyes, profile stating "blue eyes".
PEOPLE, I'm tired of fakes and scammers. Also ladies, yes we know many of you like that "fine, dine, wine" as your interest. But you look good, so
I might stay here since it's free, but I'm not paying another dime for membership of a dating site.
"I am new on here, you seem like such a nice and sincere man...here is my e-mail judygarland4u465@bmail.scom.... blablabla"
This site and another I'm on is packed full of fake females. If the women on this site experience fake male profiles, then we're all just wasting our time. The other site is not free so I'm also wasting money. Can't tell you how many are blonde in the profile and at the same time posting picture of a brunette, or the pic showing a black woman with beautiful brown eyes, profile stating "blue eyes".
PEOPLE, I'm tired of fakes and scammers. Also ladies, yes we know many of you like that "fine, dine, wine" as your interest. But you look good, so
I might stay here since it's free, but I'm not paying another dime for membership of a dating site.
In response to: : Has anyone actually "met" anyone female on connecting singles...
Yes.
Dear Mrsoftly,
I can't answer as a man, only as a woman.
I have met in real life 5 men from CS from the Rotterdam, Gouda and Hague area of the Netherlands, which also means 5 men from CS have 'met' someone female - me!
They were actually nice decent men, just not love matches.
I can't answer as a man, only as a woman.
I have met in real life 5 men from CS from the Rotterdam, Gouda and Hague area of the Netherlands, which also means 5 men from CS have 'met' someone female - me!
They were actually nice decent men, just not love matches.
Maybe the negative attitudes turn the 'sincere' women scuttling in the opposite direction....
I went on lots of dates after I joined. 
Most guys were just sincere about getting laid and nothing else.
Most guys were just sincere about getting laid and nothing else.
KNenagh: I went on lots of dates after I joined.
Most guys were just sincere about getting laid and nothing else.
Most guys were just sincere about getting laid and nothing else.
What did you expect? Don't tell me you were hoping for deep and meaningful convo's...
Phoenix: What did you expect? Don't tell me you were hoping for deep and meaningful convo's...
A bit of honesty and not wasting my time.
I don't date off here anymore.
In response to: Hi,
A question relevant as it seems many people are registered on CS but many have big issues ex's,or are married or in relationship or going through problems or something or another and do not want to go any further make stupid replies or keep you waiting make excuses,e.g be in contact and don't,or need to sort some things out!,anyone experiences this?,seems a pattern of regularity.
I think a lot of people are wasting other peoples time via CS and should not even be on CS and de-register,if they are genuine then fine but i think many are not.
I have had many experiences of this CS sorry to say but that's the truth!,anyone really genuine out there female?.
If they genuinely want to make contact either e-mail or whatever and move forward and meet up after a period of time and they are happy to do this then that's great but why is it so difficult to get anywhere on this site with anyone female?..
It the same old replies.
are you sincere?,you seem sincere,you seem genuine,you seem like a nice guy it goes on.jon
A question relevant as it seems many people are registered on CS but many have big issues ex's,or are married or in relationship or going through problems or something or another and do not want to go any further make stupid replies or keep you waiting make excuses,e.g be in contact and don't,or need to sort some things out!,anyone experiences this?,seems a pattern of regularity.
I think a lot of people are wasting other peoples time via CS and should not even be on CS and de-register,if they are genuine then fine but i think many are not.
I have had many experiences of this CS sorry to say but that's the truth!,anyone really genuine out there female?.
If they genuinely want to make contact either e-mail or whatever and move forward and meet up after a period of time and they are happy to do this then that's great but why is it so difficult to get anywhere on this site with anyone female?..
It the same old replies.
are you sincere?,you seem sincere,you seem genuine,you seem like a nice guy it goes on.jon
From my experience so far on CS not met anyone genuine as yet, most women when you message them or they message you just give you an email address and say email me here and I can send photos which are probably not them.
Still hoping there are some genuine women on here, just not managed to wade through all the scammers, and women just wanting money, but hopefully one day I will find a real woman on here, and on here for the right reasons.
keep looking....
Elm. Get a good woman like the one in the video and ask for some woman love and you'll be fine..
I think the problem is sorting out the phishers from the men/women. Yes, there are real people here - I'm one, you're one - and I've met a couple of them, and they were very nice, it just didn't click. However, there are LOADS of phishers - pretty easy to spot. They want you to e-mail them, not reply on site. The mail they send is very general and is titled (in my case) Hello dear, hello pretty - or something equally banal and ridiculous. There are then a couple of sentences (often in broken or bad English) about how gorgeous I am bla bla and please reply to xxxx@xx.com
They aren't real people - they are chat bots aimed at collecting email addresses for future spamming, so they are not going to de-register. Obviously, the ones aimed at men have different parameters - they go on about how genuine/sincere you look... because whoever programmed them thought that would be what you wanted to hear.
Treat them like annoying pop-ups - just delete and ignore. When it's a real person, they will use your name/id, and mention something particular to you - "I see you're interested in naked ice-skating - that's a coincidence, so am I. How did you get into it?" etc.
In the meantime, it's real people in the forums - so hi! Nice to meet you!
They aren't real people - they are chat bots aimed at collecting email addresses for future spamming, so they are not going to de-register. Obviously, the ones aimed at men have different parameters - they go on about how genuine/sincere you look... because whoever programmed them thought that would be what you wanted to hear.
Treat them like annoying pop-ups - just delete and ignore. When it's a real person, they will use your name/id, and mention something particular to you - "I see you're interested in naked ice-skating - that's a coincidence, so am I. How did you get into it?" etc.
In the meantime, it's real people in the forums - so hi! Nice to meet you!
Rhiannon3
I sniffed your profile and I am intrigued by your job. How do you go about helping a beast with a bad attitude?
I sniffed your profile and I am intrigued by your job. How do you go about helping a beast with a bad attitude?
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A question relevant as it seems many people are registered on CS but many have big issues ex's,or are married or in relationship or going through problems or something or another and do not want to go any further make stupid replies or keep you waiting make excuses,e.g be in contact and don't,or need to sort some things out!,anyone experiences this?,seems a pattern of regularity.
I think a lot of people are wasting other peoples time via CS and should not even be on CS and de-register,if they are genuine then fine but i think many are not.
I have had many experiences of this CS sorry to say but that's the truth!,anyone really genuine out there female?.
If they genuinely want to make contact either e-mail or whatever and move forward and meet up after a period of time and they are happy to do this then that's great but why is it so difficult to get anywhere on this site with anyone female?..
It the same old replies.
are you sincere?,you seem sincere,you seem genuine,you seem like a nice guy it goes on.
jon