What do you think about your ex? ( Archived) (78)

Aug 8, 2014 1:26 PM CST What do you think about your ex?
Kaybee50: That's one way to look at it.

It is easy to blame others when many times it takes 2 to tango.

For me, it is helpful to look back and thoughtfully consider and analyze with an honest and critical mind, what went wrong and how I contribute to that.

In most cases, we were not compatible from the beginning, as I was looking at the wrong things to be attracted to, and I also was seeking out men who were just like me. For my personality type, that was not the right choice, but I didn't understand that simple concept for most of my adult life. Once I connected the dots, I believe I have a better understanding of what a good partnership looks like for me and I am quite selective. I prefer being single rather than being with someone that who is not the Yin to my Yang.


you learned a lot from your past. I agree with your thinking "being single rather than being with someone that who is not the Yin to my Yang". this is huge world and people find partner of same mentality.
I hope you will get one soon..hug
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Aug 8, 2014 5:17 PM CST What do you think about your ex?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
guysimple: In this site most of us are single. We either had bad break up or separated nicely. How is your view about your ex. Does you ever think about him/her?


No. There's a reason why one's ex is in the past and I leave it there. I don't dwell on the what-might-have-been, its futile. What happened.... happened.

Its sad and it would've been wonderful if it'd worked out but it didn't. There's a huge world out there and a wealth of adventures to be had....

Bring it on!! yay
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Aug 8, 2014 8:04 PM CST What do you think about your ex?
PRAY, FORGIVE, BLESS THEM EVERY DAY, I GUESS THERE ARE TIMES, PEOPLE GROW APART. I AM NOT HAVING A MAN THAT DOES WRONG AROUND MY HOME. STRAIGHT UP. I AM 53, I AM MATURE , HAPPY, MY EXES ALL WANT TO KEEP ON WITH THE GAME. NOT ME, PEACE HH
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Aug 8, 2014 9:12 PM CST What do you think about your ex?
2intrigued: My ex is a distant memory and I prefer to keep it that way...the less baggage we carry around the better, as it allows us to move forward.
thumbs up wave so true
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Aug 8, 2014 9:18 PM CST What do you think about your ex?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
felixis99: so true


Hiya Felix wave
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Aug 8, 2014 9:20 PM CST What do you think about your ex?
2intrigued: Hiya Felix
hug cheers howdywave
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Aug 9, 2014 4:06 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
What do I think about my ex?

Which one? laugh

Learning experiences.

My one true love was tragically taken early. I sometimes think....what if?
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Aug 9, 2014 4:35 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada39 Threads 22 Polls 890 Posts
BerrySmoothie: What do I think about my ex?

Which one?

Learning experiences.

My one true love was tragically taken early. I sometimes think....what if?

sad flower
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Aug 9, 2014 4:38 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Thank you...hug

It was a long time ago.

Only the good die young.
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Aug 9, 2014 7:41 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
guysimple: In this site most of us are single. We either had bad break up or separated nicely. How is your view about your ex. Does you ever think about him/her?


My EX husband, he's never been a good father to my child.
I filed my divorced 13 years ago. It was a real bad break up.
But as years goes by, I learned how to forgive and forget.
He will always be the father of my child but I'm much happier without him in my life.
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Aug 22, 2014 12:33 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
elo3000
elo3000elo3000bruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium8 Posts
total indifference...her life and future has no interest for me...
she belongs the past and past is dead.
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Aug 22, 2014 12:37 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
In response to: In this site most of us are single. We either had bad break up or separated nicely. How is your view about your ex. Does you ever think about him/her?


My ex is a good person, but what happened between us left me feeling hollow and disenchanted for quite a while.
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Aug 22, 2014 6:27 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Who? laugh
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Aug 22, 2014 6:35 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
My ex hubby is just someone I used to know,,, till I got sense to grow, Up.::roll:
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Aug 22, 2014 6:42 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Attractive, polite and a lady.
I divorced her 15 years ago, and I wish her all the best.
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Aug 22, 2014 6:46 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: My ex hubby is just someone I used to know,,, till I got sense to grow, Up.::roll:




I was going to go to his wedding last year but I couldn't find my prettier wedding dress .rolling on the floor laughing ,,

So was going to dress up as godziller but my two adult kids were there and they would say to me mam dont be so childish if I turned up with a chainsaw...rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 22, 2014 6:47 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Cloven Hoofed.
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Aug 22, 2014 6:47 AM CST What do you think about your ex?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: I was going to go to his wedding last year but I couldn't find my prettier wedding dress . ,,

So was going to dress up as godziller but my two adult kids were there and they would say to me mam dont be so childish if I turned up with a chainsaw...




angel ...heart beating
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