What do you hate most about meeting someone on a first date ? (91)
mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 PostsSpeaking from personal experience im a ball of nerves usually 
reality does not match the profile
In response to: Speaking from personal experience im a ball of nerves usually
Trying to keep the conversation going if it is a bit stilted
WadeWilson: reality does not match the profile
25 years older than her pic,that happened a mate once he jumped out a toilet window ,the great escape 
mollybaby: Trying to keep the conversation going if it is a bit stilted
nanu nanu 
mjpd67: nanu nanu
You from Ork??
What is this craic about people using old photos on the site?
I have never met anybody who didn't look exactly as they should have.
What is the point anyway? You will get caught out on the first meet!
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It's nervous feeling meeting someone for first time Especially off a dating site like its different if you meet someone unexpected and then it just naturally flows,,l
..I suppose the best thing to do when meet someone frm a dating site for first time is just dont get expectations up too much,,lol... Yes I've had a date I met didnt match his profile pic at all he ,,I didnt even reconaise him waiting I was heal king past him and he called me back,,,the man looked about 15 years older than his pic ,,I had to say it to him as I think that was deceitful,,,nice man but still that wasn't fair of him to do that,,he told me he had been sick,,even so he should have shown me a fairly recent pic of him,,I nearly died he wasn't one bit like his pic a small man tiny bit taller than me,,,
It's nervous feeling meeting someone for first time Especially off a dating site like its different if you meet someone unexpected and then it just naturally flows,,l
..I suppose the best thing to do when meet someone frm a dating site for first time is just dont get expectations up too much,,lol... Yes I've had a date I met didnt match his profile pic at all he ,,I didnt even reconaise him waiting I was heal king past him and he called me back,,,the man looked about 15 years older than his pic ,,I had to say it to him as I think that was deceitful,,,nice man but still that wasn't fair of him to do that,,he told me he had been sick,,even so he should have shown me a fairly recent pic of him,,I nearly died he wasn't one bit like his pic a small man tiny bit taller than me,,,
mollybaby: You from Ork??
What is this craic about people using old photos on the site?
I have never met anybody who didn't look exactly as they should have.
What is the point anyway? You will get caught out on the first meet!
no point as you say your gonna get caught out as you said but it does happen both men and women trying to old on to their youth i suppose, What is this craic about people using old photos on the site?
I have never met anybody who didn't look exactly as they should have.
What is the point anyway? You will get caught out on the first meet!
mollybaby: You from Ork??
What is this craic about people using old photos on the site?
I have never met anybody who didn't look exactly as they should have.
What is the point anyway? You will get caught out on the first meet!
What is this craic about people using old photos on the site?
I have never met anybody who didn't look exactly as they should have.
What is the point anyway? You will get caught out on the first meet!
Lucky you Molly I haven't met anyone frm the site I want to meet,,still I'm not making much effort.think I should i must put more effort into it,,
A friend of mine told me he went to meet a woman and called to her house to go out like she asked,, she said in her profile she had lost weight and when he went to the door she looked ten years older and overweight,,... Now please what was the point of that ,was she stone mad,,,he said she said please don't go and come in for a cupa and he said he never got out so quick and back on his car,,.thetes some eejet s out thete ,,bit soft if you ask me,.
peachmelba: Lucky you Molly I haven't met anyone frm the site I want to meet,,still I'm not making much effort.think I should i must put more effort into it,,
I haven't met lots of people. But of those I did meet, they all both looked like what I expected, and had the personalities I expected.
I got on with them all. I would be happy meeting any of them again.
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A date I had from another site pof told me he had a date with a woman and she got really drunk ,,she went to the loo came back and told him she had took her knickers off,,I didnt believe him,,he said its true ,so I said what did you do need I ask,,.he said he told her he was getting a taxi for her home..
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Ah that men I met had two dates with he made me laugh but I just liked him like a friend,,he was funny tho.
A date I had from another site pof told me he had a date with a woman and she got really drunk ,,she went to the loo came back and told him she had took her knickers off,,I didnt believe him,,he said its true ,so I said what did you do need I ask,,.he said he told her he was getting a taxi for her home..
, Ah that men I met had two dates with he made me laugh but I just liked him like a friend,,he was funny tho.
peachmelba: A friend of mine told me he went to meet a woman and called to her house to go out like she asked,, she said in her profile she had lost weight and when he went to the door she looked ten years older and overweight,,... Now please what was the point of that ,was she stone mad,,,he said she said please don't go and come in for a cupa and he said he never got out so quick and back on his car,,.thetes some eejet s out thete ,,bit soft if you ask me,.
Its sad really but an awful lot of men and women are so lonely and desperate to meet someone,a lot i suppose feel rejected and broken after a bad or unhappy marriage or a bad separation , no worse feeling than feeling rejected and lonely in life,your like an unwanted prize at a raffle ,some people never gain their confidence back, scars of the heart are hardest mended 
mollybaby: I haven't met lots of people. But of those I did meet, they all both looked like what I expected, and had the personalities I expected.
I got on with them all. I would be happy meeting any of them again.
I got on with them all. I would be happy meeting any of them again.
Good on you Molly.
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mjpd67: Its sad really but an awful lot of men and women are so lonely and desperate to meet someone,a lot i suppose feel rejected and broken after a bad or unhappy marriage or a bad separation , no worse feeling than feeling rejected and lonely in life,your like an unwanted prize at a raffle ,some people never gain their confidence back, scars of the heart are hardest mended
Oh yes of course thete are people out there so desperate to get someone but still thetes no excuse for them lying when they decide to meet someone because they fooling themselves,..
I've had afew dates frm pof and the few I met were what I expected,,,it's not the end of the world if people don't click ,, people should never take it personally just move on ,,pof as they say,lol
WadeWilson: reality does not match the profile
I agree,, had a first date tonight,, and even though he was a gentleman, he was not like i imagined him to be.
ah I it does not bother me in the slightest id talk with any woman love it love meeting first time wind them up a bit tell them there lovely which all women are sure its great now one woman told me she dressed in the best but she forget to tell me she had 2 walking sticksreally I got a shock to be honest I find people are near enough the same as they say give n a few years that's common
peachmelba: Oh yes of course thete are people out there so desperate to get someone but still thetes no excuse for them lying when they decide to meet someone because they fooling themselves,..
I've had afew dates frm pof and the few I met were what I expected,,,it's not the end of the world if people don't click ,, people should never take it personally just move on ,,pof as they say,lol
Desperate times call for desperate measures I've had afew dates frm pof and the few I met were what I expected,,,it's not the end of the world if people don't click ,, people should never take it personally just move on ,,pof as they say,lol
annaroach: I agree,, had a first date tonight,, and even though he was a gentleman, he was not like i imagined him to be.
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