Well you see on that first date on meeting man and woman if they like each other both woul like to start kissing but damn if man starts damn if woman starts...Comprende?
In response to: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
bungallow55: Well you see on that first date on meeting man and woman if they like each other both woul like to start kissing but damn if man starts damn if woman starts...Comprende?
Yeah the wish for a kiss must come from both sides at the same time .
I had a fate with a man last year we met up had something to eat ,,,he was Easey to get on with, ,he complimented me we had a laugh ,,he said goodbye and said hope to see you again,,he was a real gent ,txt me on mobile on his way home to say he enjoyed my company and I said same,,,txt me following day,..,,then few days later he asked me would I like to visit him and be happy to do whatever on the date,,,and asked me did I want to stay with him at his house,, I said no thanks,,so then he asked me would I stay with him the night in hotel if he came to Wexford,.
Now going by the way he behaved on our first meet and he never even tried to kiss me even on the cheek I was suprised he asked me to stay the night with him,,,
Sep 2, 2014 2:36 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
sum1toluvyouCopenhagen, Capital Region Denmark1 Posts
sum1toluvyouCopenhagen, Capital Region Denmark1 posts
No as long as you both feel that it is not a wrong thing to do. And besides, the two people who decided to date must be open on any possibilities or shall I say "looking" for all the possibilities.
Some men spoil things,,..you could be getting on with a man and yes thinking of meeting up with him,,, then he goes and spoils it by making very suggestive stuff,
And when I say something like why can't you go with the flow and just meet up first and done be putting the cart before the horse he says what's wrong with it it's natural, ,now I understand if a man makes it clear from the very start that he just after intimate encounter and it says it on his profile that's being honest but I'm on about the types that you could be chatting and abit flirty but then they get carried away and get very suggestive.
peachmelba: Some men spoil things,,..you could be getting on with a man and yes thinking of meeting up with him,,, then he goes and spoils it by making very suggestive stuff,
And when I say something like why can't you go with the flow and just meet up first and done be putting the cart before the horse he says what's wrong with it it's natural, ,now I understand if a man makes it clear from the very start that he just after intimate encounter and it says it on his profile that's being honest but I'm on about the types that you could be chatting and abit flirty but then they get carried away and get very suggestive.
peachmelba: Some men spoil things,,..you could be getting on with a man and yes thinking of meeting up with him,,, then he goes and spoils it by making very suggestive stuff,
And when I say something like why can't you go with the flow and just meet up first and done be putting the cart before the horse he says what's wrong with it it's natural, ,now I understand if a man makes it clear from the very start that he just after intimate encounter and it says it on his profile that's being honest but I'm on about the types that you could be chatting and abit flirty but then they get carried away and get very suggestive.
Help me here Peaches, I once was a true gentleman in this regard and never made suggestive remarks......many times ladies would come back to years later and ask " why did you not take me to bed , did you not find me attractive ? I did not think you wanted me because you never said anything so I figured you just wanted friendship ? " This happened to me more than I like to remember , so I changed my behavior to reflect my desires ? We can't have it both ways .....HELP !
Veaster54: Help me here Peaches, I once was a true gentleman in this regard and never made suggestive remarks......many times ladies would come back to years later and ask " why did you not take me to bed , did you not find me attractive ? I did not think you wanted me because you never said anything so I figured you just wanted friendship ? " This happened to me more than I like to remember , so I changed my behavior to reflect my desires ? We can't have it both ways .....HELP !
Peach is talking about BEFORE a first meeting, I think? I am anyway ...
Veaster54: Help me here Peaches, I once was a true gentleman in this regard and never made suggestive remarks......many times ladies would come back to years later and ask " why did you not take me to bed , did you not find me attractive ? I did not think you wanted me because you never said anything so I figured you just wanted friendship ? " This happened to me more than I like to remember , so I changed my behavior to reflect my desires ? We can't have it both ways .....HELP !
Your know what I mean cheeky,... .
Im Talking about men. That I've been getting on with on line and abit of cheek flirtation is okay but I'm on about when they make really suggestive stuff for when we meet up and they spoil it for themselves and me because its the mystery and element of suprise and to just go with the flow without this expectation of theirs that they suggest,its spoils the romance,the mystery,element of suprise before even meeting them..that is not clever seduction if thete was going to be any,.
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The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.