Is it wrong to kiss on the first date? ( Archived) (65)

Sep 2, 2014 3:07 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.

The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
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Sep 2, 2014 7:27 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
EnzoDublin2014
EnzoDublin2014EnzoDublin2014Dublin, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 4 Posts
Ah no a welcome kiss and a goodbye kiss as long as you make a good impression other than that no tongue action on the first date haha
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Sep 2, 2014 7:32 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA297 Threads 14 Polls 5,615 Posts
Well you see on that first date on meeting
man and woman if they like each other both
woul like to start kissing but damn if man starts
damn if woman starts...Comprende?cool
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Sep 2, 2014 8:11 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Bauksi
BauksiBauksiVölkermarkt, Karnten Austria17 Threads 10 Polls 182 Posts
it is never wrong kissing a women
In response to: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.

The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
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Sep 2, 2014 8:18 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA297 Threads 14 Polls 5,615 Posts
Remember women like kissing too.purple heart
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Sep 2, 2014 8:30 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Bauksi
BauksiBauksiVölkermarkt, Karnten Austria17 Threads 10 Polls 182 Posts
bungallow55: Well you see on that first date on meeting
man and woman if they like each other both
woul like to start kissing but damn if man starts
damn if woman starts...Comprende?

Yeah the wish for a kiss must come from both sides at the same time
.laugh
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Sep 2, 2014 10:18 AM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia19 Threads 1 Polls 4,967 Posts
Australian kiss would probably be exaggerating for the first date,but other than that, its okay in my opinion ...
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Sep 2, 2014 3:02 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
OutsideofBali
OutsideofBaliOutsideofBaliBali, Indonesia158 Posts
First date without a kiss means no second date but that's just me.
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Sep 2, 2014 3:04 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
hoolet
hoolethooletDenia, Valenciana Spain54 Threads 2 Polls 13,800 Posts
no chemistry.........no kissing.........SIMPLE
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Sep 2, 2014 3:04 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Dedovix: Australian kiss would probably be exaggerating for the first date,but other than that, its okay in my opinion ...


Oh yea...the Aussie kiss = downunder laugh
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Sep 2, 2014 3:05 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Benny1518: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.

The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.


It depends entirely on the chemistry, IMO
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Sep 2, 2014 3:17 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland104 Threads 14,241 Posts
I had a fate with a man last year we met up had something to eat ,,,he was Easey to get on with, ,he complimented me we had a laugh ,,he said goodbye and said hope to see you again,,he was a real gent ,txt me on mobile on his way home to say he enjoyed my company and I said same,,,txt me following day,..,,then few days later he asked me would I like to visit him and be happy to do whatever on the date,,,and asked me did I want to stay with him at his house,, I said no thanks,,so then he asked me would I stay with him the night in hotel if he came to Wexford,.

Now going by the way he behaved on our first meet and he never even tried to kiss me even on the cheek I was suprised he asked me to stay the night with him,,,

No I didn't spend the night with him btw.laugh
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Sep 2, 2014 3:36 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
sum1toluvyou
sum1toluvyousum1toluvyouCopenhagen, Kobenhavn Denmark1 Posts
No as long as you both feel that it is not a wrong thing to do. And besides, the two people who decided to date must be open on any possibilities or shall I say "looking" for all the possibilities.
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Sep 2, 2014 3:57 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland104 Threads 14,241 Posts
Some men spoil things,,..you could be getting on with a man and yes thinking of meeting up with him,,, then he goes and spoils it by making very suggestive stuff,

And when I say something like why can't you go with the flow and just meet up first and done be putting the cart before the horse he says what's wrong with it it's natural, ,now I understand if a man makes it clear from the very start that he just after intimate encounter and it says it on his profile that's being honest but I'm on about the types that you could be chatting and abit flirty but then they get carried away and get very suggestive.
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Sep 2, 2014 4:04 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
peachmelba: Some men spoil things,,..you could be getting on with a man and yes thinking of meeting up with him,,, then he goes and spoils it by making very suggestive stuff,

And when I say something like why can't you go with the flow and just meet up first and done be putting the cart before the horse he says what's wrong with it it's natural, ,now I understand if a man makes it clear from the very start that he just after intimate encounter and it says it on his profile that's being honest but I'm on about the types that you could be chatting and abit flirty but then they get carried away and get very suggestive.


I found the exact same thing thumbs up
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Sep 2, 2014 4:09 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Veaster54
Veaster54Veaster54Durham, North Carolina USA4 Threads 136 Posts
peachmelba: Some men spoil things,,..you could be getting on with a man and yes thinking of meeting up with him,,, then he goes and spoils it by making very suggestive stuff,

And when I say something like why can't you go with the flow and just meet up first and done be putting the cart before the horse he says what's wrong with it it's natural, ,now I understand if a man makes it clear from the very start that he just after intimate encounter and it says it on his profile that's being honest but I'm on about the types that you could be chatting and abit flirty but then they get carried away and get very suggestive.

Help me here Peaches, I once was a true gentleman in this regard and never made suggestive remarks......many times ladies would come back to years later and ask " why did you not take me to bed , did you not find me attractive ? I did not think you wanted me because you never said anything so I figured you just wanted friendship ? " This happened to me more than I like to remember , so I changed my behavior to reflect my desires ? We can't have it both ways .....HELP !
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Sep 2, 2014 4:18 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Veaster54: Help me here Peaches, I once was a true gentleman in this regard and never made suggestive remarks......many times ladies would come back to years later and ask " why did you not take me to bed , did you not find me attractive ? I did not think you wanted me because you never said anything so I figured you just wanted friendship ? " This happened to me more than I like to remember , so I changed my behavior to reflect my desires ? We can't have it both ways .....HELP !


Peach is talking about BEFORE a first meeting, I think? I am anyway ...
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Sep 2, 2014 4:22 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
Veaster54
Veaster54Veaster54Durham, North Carolina USA4 Threads 136 Posts
unlaoised: Peach is talking about BEFORE a first meeting, I think? I am anyway ...


But what if I did not let my desires be known , and the lady wanted pleasure and satisfaction ...only to lose interest at my lack of expression ?
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Sep 2, 2014 4:24 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland104 Threads 14,241 Posts
Veaster54: Help me here Peaches, I once was a true gentleman in this regard and never made suggestive remarks......many times ladies would come back to years later and ask " why did you not take me to bed , did you not find me attractive ? I did not think you wanted me because you never said anything so I figured you just wanted friendship ? " This happened to me more than I like to remember , so I changed my behavior to reflect my desires ? We can't have it both ways .....HELP !




Your know what I mean cheeky,...innocent .

Im Talking about men. That I've been getting on with on line and abit of cheek flirtation is okay but I'm on about when they make really suggestive stuff for when we meet up and they spoil it for themselves and me because its the mystery and element of suprise and to just go with the flow without this expectation of theirs that they suggest,its spoils the romance,the mystery,element of suprise before even meeting them..that is not clever seduction if thete was going to be any,.
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Sep 2, 2014 4:30 PM CST Is it wrong to kiss on the first date?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland104 Threads 14,241 Posts
unlaoised: I found the exact same thing




Yes lois you understand what I mean,thumbs up
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