Is it wrong to kiss on the first date? (63)
It depends on the chemistry and what feels natural. 
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peachmelba: If a couple are meeting up for the first time why spoil it by making loads suggestive things before even meeting up,, because one dosnt even know if thete is chemistry until the actual meet,,,I'm not talking here about flirting on line and you know you never going to meet up with them veas, So don't take it like I'm talking about you I am not.
OK , I am trying to be good and learn from you ladies at the same time !
Slipped up a while back and put my thoughts on here about your beautiful peaches ...... It was online , and they are beautiful ......so maybe I get a pass for that one but I told you how I felt a month ago ....damn you are a long ways away though .....you will just have to teach me online ...you and laios ?
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I have to agree with Minnie, if the attraction is there , why not kiss on the first date? I enjoy kissing and it's always great to meet a woman who enjoys it too. If things don't lead to more dates, at least you'll always have the memories of your kisses.
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serene56: Yeah like, we're all busy people okay
What can i say, serene? I am a simple kinda guy and i always like to make things simple and easy for the ladies..
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mnowsa: What can i say, serene? I am a simple kinda guy and i always like to make things simple and easy for the ladies..
You're my kinda guy
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In response to: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
That is Your opinion - Mine is this - Moralizing about rules and what should or should not happen on a first date between the two people involved is out of order -
It is exclusively their own business
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serene56: You're my kinda guy
oh..thank you! thank you!! It always feels great to be appreciated..
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mnowsa: oh..thank you! thank you!! It always feels great to be appreciated..
You're welcome mnowsa
Have seen your posts on here, you're a fun guy
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serene56: You're welcome mnowsa Have seen your posts on here, you're a fun guy
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Maybe a friendly peck on both cheeks?? 
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I live in the outback of Australia. About a year ago I started to correspond with a lady this include both emails and phone calls. We met thro CS. Two weeks ago I was travelling to Sydney for a family wedding and arranged to meet her. As neither of us live in Sydney we had one day to find out whether or not things would go further. I am happy to say that not only did we have lots of things in common and that yes the date included both holding hands and lots of kissing.
Watch this space we both believe a relationship will develop.
Watch this space we both believe a relationship will develop.
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Winthrop48: I live in the outback of Australia. About a year ago I started to correspond with a lady this include both emails and phone calls. We met thro CS. Two weeks ago I was travelling to Sydney for a family wedding and arranged to meet her. As neither of us live in Sydney we had one day to find out whether or not things would go further. I am happy to say that not only did we have lots of things in common and that yes the date included both holding hands and lots of kissing.
Watch this space we both believe a relationship will develop.
Watch this space we both believe a relationship will develop.
Brilliant! All the best to you Winthrop
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Sometimes it is inevitable 
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Benny1518: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
You need to ask?? This is not something you can ask a friend about. It is not something you do by numbers or follow a manual or book. Everyone, every first date every situation is different. It is intuitive. Sad you need to ask.
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Benny1518: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
I don't know if it's necessarily wrong, that seems to be everyone's own choice, but for me...I would prefer a gentleman not make that kind of gesture or advancement that quickly, nor would I want a tight hug that early either. The first several dates should be more no-touchy until both persons are completely comfortable. JMO
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Benny1518: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
I don't know if it's necessarily wrong, that seems to be everyone's own choice, but for me...I would prefer a gentleman not make that kind of gesture or advancement that quickly, nor would I want a tight hug that early either. The first several dates should be more no-touchy until both persons are completely comfortable. JMO
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Anglaishomme: You need to ask?? This is not something you can ask a friend about. It is not something you do by numbers or follow a manual or book. Everyone, every first date every situation is different. It is intuitive. Sad you need to ask.
Everyone sees things differently. I didn't see this as sad, though that could be an opinion. I see it as courteous that he would ask for some feedback from women and men on this subject. JMO
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Benny1518: The first date is usually a very awkward time and for a guy to initiate this type of intimacy so early can produce a negative response.
The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
I wouldn' t say it' s right or wrong. Just sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn' t. It depends how the date goes and the feeling at the time.The focus on the first date should be on finding if their is chemistry and learning about each other.
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If a couple are meeting up for the first time why spoil it by making loads suggestive things before even meeting up,, because one dosnt even know if thete is chemistry until the actual meet,,,I'm not talking here about flirting on line and you know you never going to meet up with them veas, So don't take it like I'm talking about you I am not.