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Sep 9, 2014 2:27 PM CST Move to a different country
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
twinkletoes69: Yes it was for love, and I didn't rush into it either, I gave it plentyf of tought, it took me 18 months to get moved, vias, work, house etc I had a lot to take care of, and not to mention to cost, but the hardest was leaving my daughter, family, friends. I had full support from everyone, they all happy I met
someone and now our relationship is breaking dow n


I'm sorry to read about the break down. I lived in several countries, but I can call Europe and the U.S. "home" (legally) and I have an option in another country. I'll be honest, at my age, considerations like health care, finances and a support system in case you get sick and the proximity of my son are more important to me than love for exactly the reason you posted. I'm not prepared to take that risk at this age. It's like someone said earlier: there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Sep 9, 2014 2:43 PM CST Move to a different country
Smokesignals
SmokesignalsSmokesignalsBristol, Somerset, England UK1 Posts
Hi, I did that paying the price now though.
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Sep 9, 2014 2:57 PM CST Move to a different country
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Smokesignals: Hi, I did that paying the price now though.
dunno dunno dunno
Were you forced to relocate???or on your own free will???
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Sep 9, 2014 2:58 PM CST Move to a different country
Smokesignals: Hi, I did that paying the price now though.
..sorry to hear that.....sad flower hug
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Sep 9, 2014 3:23 PM CST Move to a different country
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
For love, no.

I do plan to retire and move in 3 or 4 years time.
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Sep 10, 2014 5:50 PM CST Move to a different country
Matisse_
Matisse_Matisse_Alte Brown District, Buenos Aires Argentina4 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
Hard to decide who does the moving...
so many factors to take into account.
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Sep 22, 2014 5:13 AM CST Move to a different country
JinnahGee
JinnahGeeJinnahGeeQuarry Bay, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong1 Threads 17 Posts
twinkletoes69: How many of you would move to a different country for love?
Give up your whole life, family friends and start a whole new life


That's really tough but yeah you can give up everything for the sake of love.
Are you happy with your decisions? Did it work out for you? Sounds like you want to go back to where you come from. moping
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Sep 22, 2014 5:18 AM CST Move to a different country
Mimi1973
Mimi1973Mimi1973Perak,, Malaysia1 Threads 1,085 Posts
In a heartbeat. However, I need to wait until my 2 teenage kids finished their high school before I can do that.

He and I have already had everything planned out. Come to Malaysia to escape winter in Belgium and go back there when the weather is more pleasant. wine
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Sep 22, 2014 5:28 AM CST Move to a different country
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Nidifugous: I'm sorry to read about the break down. I lived in several countries, but I can call Europe and the U.S. "home" (legally) and I have an option in another country. I'll be honest, at my age, considerations like health care, finances and a support system in case you get sick and the proximity of my son are more important to me than love for exactly the reason you posted. I'm not prepared to take that risk at this age. It's like someone said earlier: there are plenty of fish in the sea.


This is exactly like me.
I have lived in several countries worldwide, but I can call Europe and Canada "home" (legally) and I have an option in another country.
I'll be honest, at my age, considerations like health care, finances and a support system in case one gets sick are more important to me than love. I'm not prepared to take that risk at this age.
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Sep 22, 2014 8:41 AM CST Move to a different country
sixsixfooter
sixsixfootersixsixfooterOsnabrück, Lower Saxony Germany11 Posts
Well I moved from home because of work.
And I'd definetly do for love under the right circumstances.
Work.good place for kids and all that.

Actually I thought about it pretty serious once.parted ways then though.
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Sep 22, 2014 8:47 AM CST Move to a different country
Riche101
Riche101Riche101Guapiaçu, Rio de Janeiro Brazil9 Posts
I'm moving to Brazil fully one day soon , I love doing my work here and now have a Brazilian GF
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Sep 22, 2014 1:59 PM CST Move to a different country
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
My family is dotted across two continents so I would not be leaving any family behind. As for my career and home, they are rather empty without anyone to share them with so yeah, move I would. In fact I'm planning on doing so, with or without a lover to go to.
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