Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage? ( Archived) (87)

Sep 10, 2014 3:23 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
There are stories that in some cultures girls are getting married too young and some are commuting suicide. What do you think CS members?
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Sep 10, 2014 3:56 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Justjim.... Well said. I agree with you. However, in some poor remote societies the average life span is low compare to us.
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Sep 10, 2014 3:56 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
What is "too young"?
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Sep 10, 2014 4:02 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
musicfreak
musicfreakmusicfreakParadise City, British Columbia Canada20 Threads 1 Polls 670 Posts
Benny1518: Justjim.... Well said. I agree with you. However, in some poor remote societies the average life span is low compare to us.


Life span doesn't matter. It's about the age difference these young girls are dealing with.
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Sep 10, 2014 4:04 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
Benny1518: Justjim.... Well said. I agree with you. However, in some poor remote societies the average life span is low compare to us.


I can see what you mean, my comments are souly based on my opinion and cultural experiences, no disrespect is meant, I'm basically talking about a situation where a 60 year old man marries a 12 year old girl, to me that's just wrong and disregards the rights of the child.wine
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Sep 10, 2014 4:06 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
musicfreak: Life span doesn't matter. It's about the age difference these young girls are dealing with.


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Sep 10, 2014 4:17 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Nidi... I see you point. Some kids mature before others however, lawmakers in some countries put 18 as a standard time when most young are mature enough to make an important decision as marriage.
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Sep 10, 2014 4:17 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Benny1518: There are stories that in some cultures girls are getting married too young and some are commuting suicide. What do you think CS members?


It is very easy to be influenced when young. There should be a legal age of about 18 (which I still find very young) to make sure that kids are mentally and physically mature.

They don't get a choice in some cultures.
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Sep 10, 2014 4:20 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Music... I agree with you point. Maturity is key. We don't need immature couple becoming irresponsible parents
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Sep 10, 2014 4:27 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Music. What if the lifespan is 35. Would make sense to put 18 as the legal age for marriage. No .
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Sep 10, 2014 4:28 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Marriage should be upped to 30 .dancing .gnite
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Sep 10, 2014 4:30 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Marriage should be upped to 30 . .





Sorry it's morning here wrong icon.giggle
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Sep 10, 2014 4:30 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Justjim. Point taken
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Sep 10, 2014 4:35 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Knenagh... Yes eighteen is still young but it's better than 13 or 14.
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Sep 10, 2014 4:41 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Peach.. Are you sure. 30 could be too old
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Sep 10, 2014 5:08 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Benny1518: Peach.. Are you sure. 30 could be too old




No couples could live together first get their finances and home together grow with each other maybe one would outgrow the other or maybe not and then marry,haha,


I'm just joking ,,seriously I think 21 is a fair age,, I got married day before my 21 st,

We did okay it lasted for 15 years , 19 years all together as we courted as they say for few years first.dancing
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Sep 10, 2014 5:17 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
Benny1518: Nidi... I see you point. Some kids mature before others however, lawmakers in some countries put 18 as a standard time when most young are mature enough to make an important decision as marriage.


I don't agree. I don't think anybody under 18 is mature enough to be married. Most people aren't mature enough past the age of 18 to make a commitment for life. We set the age of legal maturity at 18 and I think it's 17 when you can go and get yourself killed in a war. 21+ to smoke and drink. I think marriage should be allowed at the age of legal maturity because it involves a legally binding contract between two people that has serious consequences.

We say on the one hand that a teenager is to be tried in juvenile court if they commit a crime because they aren't able to comprehend the seriousness of an offense; we say that people under 18 lack the mental capacity to enter into a legal contract, so contracts with minors are in most cases null and void, yet we allow a 16 year old to enter into a lifetime contract? tsk tsk...

Long story short, I think 18 should be the legal limit.
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Sep 10, 2014 5:37 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Peach.. Sorry to hear but I know you had many good years.
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Sep 10, 2014 5:37 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Peach.. Sorry to hear but I know you had many good years.
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Sep 10, 2014 5:37 AM CST Is It Necessary to Have a Legal age for Marriage?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA33 Threads 561 Posts
Peach.. Sorry to hear but I know you had many good years.
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