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Nov 16, 2014 3:12 PM CST Question for the ladies.
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
Leo_7: Let's say you met a man that you like.You are having a serious relationship(or a marriage) and living together.Everything is fine but your man keeps a big box of photos of himself with his past girlfriends where they hug and kiss .Also photos with his female coworkers in which they look to close to each other.He tells you that all those ladies left in the past and forgotten but he refuses getting rid of those photos,cos he thinks they are part of his (past) life.He tells you that those photos are valuable for him and would never want to get rid of them.And you must accept it and no need to worry about them at all.They are just a photos.

What would you do?


They are just photos. It doesn't, and hasn't bothered me. I have photos and videos that I won't get rid of.

What would be the next step if they were ordered to dispose of the photos? Hitting them on the head with a big magnet, in the vain hope it will erase their memory? Works for hard drives, so why not brains? laugh
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Nov 16, 2014 3:20 PM CST Question for the ladies.
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
2girlsnocup: They are just photos. It doesn't, and hasn't bothered me. I have photos and videos that I won't get rid of.

What would be the next step if they were ordered to dispose of the photos? Hitting them on the head with a big magnet, in the vain hope it will erase their memory? Works for hard drives, so why not brains?

Next computer I get rid of I will smash my hardrive with a set of Bose 901'S NOTHING BUT THE BEST.hug grin handshake
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Nov 16, 2014 3:22 PM CST Question for the ladies.
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
chatonlyman2: Next computer I get rid of I will smash my hardrive with a set of Bose 901'S NOTHING BUT THE BEST.


Just hold the magnets close to the hard drive, and wipe them across several times, in the SAME direction.

Guaranteed to wipe a hard drive clean, as testified by some fool who did it once to his Dad's work PC and went to a certain forum for help.
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Nov 16, 2014 3:34 PM CST Question for the ladies.
RomanceLife37
RomanceLife37RomanceLife37Dallas, Saxony Germany2 Threads 22 Posts
I believe everyone in our past has an important role in our lives. As long as you keep your responsibilities to our relationship, then that is fine. You start going outside for your phone calls? I'm done.
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Nov 16, 2014 7:19 PM CST Question for the ladies.
if they were part of a larger collection and he just hadn't thought about updating it, I would not care. If he was carrying them with him and looking at them frequently I would start making other plans....but I would not tell him to get rid of them. I would wait a bit to see if he did that on his own

if not?

..........As I leave I would explain that I had observed that he was obsessed with another woman's photos, so I want him to be free to pursue her...dunno
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Nov 16, 2014 7:58 PM CST Question for the ladies.
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
BlueCoupe: I'm with you, dump the photos if they are indeed in the past. Otherwise the baggage in that relationship must be huge.


R U KIDDING ME !!!!!!!

cause if your kidding , it's fine.
But if your not. What your just said it's out of this world.

laugh

I'm off , night night to everyone.
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