2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
Leo_7: Let's say you met a man that you like.You are having a serious relationship(or a marriage) and living together.Everything is fine but your man keeps a big box of photos of himself with his past girlfriends where they hug and kiss .Also photos with his female coworkers in which they look to close to each other.He tells you that all those ladies left in the past and forgotten but he refuses getting rid of those photos,cos he thinks they are part of his (past) life.He tells you that those photos are valuable for him and would never want to get rid of them.And you must accept it and no need to worry about them at all.They are just a photos.
What would you do?
They are just photos. It doesn't, and hasn't bothered me. I have photos and videos that I won't get rid of.
What would be the next step if they were ordered to dispose of the photos? Hitting them on the head with a big magnet, in the vain hope it will erase their memory? Works for hard drives, so why not brains?
2girlsnocup: They are just photos. It doesn't, and hasn't bothered me. I have photos and videos that I won't get rid of.
What would be the next step if they were ordered to dispose of the photos? Hitting them on the head with a big magnet, in the vain hope it will erase their memory? Works for hard drives, so why not brains?
Next computer I get rid of I will smash my hardrive with a set of Bose 901'S NOTHING BUT THE BEST.
I believe everyone in our past has an important role in our lives. As long as you keep your responsibilities to our relationship, then that is fine. You start going outside for your phone calls? I'm done.
if they were part of a larger collection and he just hadn't thought about updating it, I would not care. If he was carrying them with him and looking at them frequently I would start making other plans....but I would not tell him to get rid of them. I would wait a bit to see if he did that on his own
if not?
..........As I leave I would explain that I had observed that he was obsessed with another woman's photos, so I want him to be free to pursue her...
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What would you do?
They are just photos. It doesn't, and hasn't bothered me. I have photos and videos that I won't get rid of.
What would be the next step if they were ordered to dispose of the photos? Hitting them on the head with a big magnet, in the vain hope it will erase their memory? Works for hard drives, so why not brains?