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Dec 7, 2014 3:48 AM CST Good idea or not?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Two part question

Is it a good idea to confess your deepest secrets to your partner or does this make you too vulnerable?

AND

If you can't confide/confess to your partner then who can you confide in?

dunno

Personally, I don't confess my deepest/darkest secrets to anyone. I can keep those to myself because I don't like to make myself so vulnerable. I tend to keep my guard up to a certain extent in order to avoid future attacks should my relationship or friendship were to end on a bad note.
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Dec 7, 2014 3:53 AM CST Good idea or not?
Friskyone: Two part question

Is it a good idea to confess your deepest secrets to your partner or does this make you too vulnerable?

AND

If you can't confide/confess to your partner then who can you confide in?



Personally, I don't confess my deepest/darkest secrets to anyone. I can keep those to myself because I don't like to make myself so vulnerable. I tend to keep my guard up to a certain extent in order to avoid future attacks should my relationship or friendship were to end on a bad note.
only if your a axe murderer....and i can sleep at night..with both eyes closed.....professor laugh
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Dec 7, 2014 4:09 AM CST Good idea or not?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
truheart1941: only if your a axe murderer....and i can sleep at night..with both eyes closed.....


rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2014 4:29 AM CST Good idea or not?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Friskyone: Two part question

Is it a good idea to confess your deepest secrets to your partner or does this make you too vulnerable?

AND

If you can't confide/confess to your partner then who can you confide in?



Personally, I don't confess my deepest/darkest secrets to anyone. I can keep those to myself because I don't like to make myself so vulnerable. I tend to keep my guard up to a certain extent in order to avoid future attacks should my relationship or friendship were to end on a bad note.


I don't have any deep, dark secrets. dunno

People close to me usually know what's going on, but if there is stuff which is confident or I have to keep to myself, I would only talk to those ones involved, let it be family or a partner.
(I'm thinking about money etc. as I haven't topped anyone yet).

I can talk about everything with my family thankfully.
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Dec 7, 2014 4:34 AM CST Good idea or not?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Friskyone: Two part question

Is it a good idea to confess your deepest secrets to your partner or does this make you too vulnerable?

AND

If you can't confide/confess to your partner then who can you confide in?



Personally, I don't confess my deepest/darkest secrets to anyone. I can keep those to myself because I don't like to make myself so vulnerable. I tend to keep my guard up to a certain extent in order to avoid future attacks should my relationship or friendship were to end on a bad note.

I don`t know...sometimes we have to go with our gutfeeling ...I sometimes trow myself out there,make my self vulnerable,an easy target, and take a punch...they way my partner reacts tells a lot ...
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Dec 7, 2014 4:38 AM CST Good idea or not?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Dedovix: I don`t know...sometimes we have to go with our gutfeeling ...I sometimes trow myself out there,make my self vulnerable,an easy target, and take a punch...they way my partner reacts tells a lot ...


I wouldn't see the point in being with someone I couldn't trust either.

Some things are not mine to tell, but so far there is nothing I couldn't tell a partner.

Yep, and if someone doesn't want to deal with what occupied you in the past or is difficult for you might be something to get your alarm bells going.
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Dec 7, 2014 4:50 AM CST Good idea or not?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
KNenagh: I don't have any deep, dark secrets.

People close to me usually know what's going on, but if there is stuff which is confident or I have to keep to myself, I would only talk to those ones involved, let it be family or a partner.
(I'm thinking about money etc. as I haven't topped anyone yet).

I can talk about everything with my family thankfully.


right...
the leather outfit,chains ,whips ,chainsaw and ice-pick are well hidden ...laugh
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Dec 7, 2014 4:54 AM CST Good idea or not?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Dedovix: right...
the leather outfit,chains ,whips ,chainsaw and ice-pick are well hidden ...


Do I really look as if I have any of these? innocent laugh
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