"You Cant Tell ME What to Do" (43)
I wont tell you what do do but that one needs lots of love.
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chatonlyman2: I wont tell you what do do but that one needs lots of love.
thanks man2, I know right, but I tried to give her away at Christmas, and I only had two takers on the blogs
and they live too far away 
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123butterflies: thanks man2, I know right, but I tried to give her away at Christmas, and I only had two takers on the blogs and they live too far away
I would but I wont but I would
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Now how do you tell a mother what to do if she seems to be doing a great job already 
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Cocheta: Now how do you tell a mother what to do if she seems to be doing a great job already
Just like that
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Cocheta: Now how do you tell a mother what to do if she seems to be doing a great job already
I know right
that's what she said 
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chatonlyman2: I wont tell you what do do but that one needs lots of love.
Children always need love but IMO this child needs to be disciplined but she shouldn't be made to think her outcry is her fault.
She is between adults who don't like each other and it appears that one of those adults (grandma) is trying to poison this child against her mother.
If my daughter came home with an attitude like that I would have a private discussion with grandma. If grandma doesn't like Butterfly, she needs to keep it to herself.
If the discussion with grandma doesn't work, the next step would be with the child's father. I can only assume that grandma is the father's mother.
If all else fails, grandma might have to be kept away from this little girl legally.
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Except for disciplining the child for listening to grandma.Not the childs fault.
Grandma needs disciplining.
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Hi butters I'm experiencing a similar issue only with a former sis in law who is my adult sons dads half sister and my sons Aunt.I could never understand families of why they act like they do.My sons Aunt admitted that she was jealous of me and has tried to destroy my son and my relationship by speaking negatively behind my back.I just don't get it.
In your case I think that someone needs to have a chat with Grandma and find out what her problem is .It's obvious that she is undermining you and how you've raised your daughter.
In your case I think that someone needs to have a chat with Grandma and find out what her problem is .It's obvious that she is undermining you and how you've raised your daughter.
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chatonlyman2: Except for disciplining the child for listening to grandma.
Not the childs fault.
Grandma needs disciplining.
Not the childs fault.
Grandma needs disciplining.
That's what I said, that grandma needs a talkin to
The child did what another adult told her to do....to wear the tee shirt. This little girl is caught between her mother and grandma. Butterfly has custody and she can keep grandma away from the little one if she chooses to. This grandma is bringing anything positive to her granddaughters life.
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chatonlyman2: Except for disciplining the child for listening to grandma.
Not the childs fault.
Grandma needs disciplining.
Not the childs fault.
Grandma needs disciplining.
I think the disciplining of the Grandma should be done by the childs father.Or else butters should have a chat with the childs father without her daughter and explain about the t-shirt.
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secretagent09: That's what I said, that grandma needs a talkin to
The child did what another adult told her to do....to wear the tee shirt. This little girl is caught between her mother and grandma. Butterfly has custody and she can keep grandma away from the little one if she chooses to. This grandma is bringing anything positive to her granddaughters life.
Cool I misread and know what your trying to say. Grandma is Not bringing positive influences.The child did what another adult told her to do....to wear the tee shirt. This little girl is caught between her mother and grandma. Butterfly has custody and she can keep grandma away from the little one if she chooses to. This grandma is bringing anything positive to her granddaughters life.
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secretagent09: Children always need love but IMO this child needs to be disciplined but she shouldn't be made to think her outcry is her fault.
She is between adults who don't like each other and it appears that one of those adults (grandma) is trying to poison this child against her mother.
If my daughter came home with an attitude like that I would have a private discussion with grandma. If grandma doesn't like Butterfly, she needs to keep it to herself.
If the discussion with grandma doesn't work, the next step would be with the child's father. I can only assume that grandma is the father's mother.
If all else fails, grandma might have to be kept away from this little girl legally.
She is between adults who don't like each other and it appears that one of those adults (grandma) is trying to poison this child against her mother.
If my daughter came home with an attitude like that I would have a private discussion with grandma. If grandma doesn't like Butterfly, she needs to keep it to herself.
If the discussion with grandma doesn't work, the next step would be with the child's father. I can only assume that grandma is the father's mother.
If all else fails, grandma might have to be kept away from this little girl legally.
hi secret, nice to see you
bottom line is grandma hates me guts, hate is a strong word, so I say dislikes me kindly in a hateful way, but over all, she is Good with Charlie, and Charlie loves her to death, unfortunately sourness between us got in the way over the years, just sometimes struggle cuz I know, AWAYS, she'll give me a dig here and there and use charlie for it and unfortunately char is caught in the middle, but one thing I wont do, is dis her grandmother to her, ever, she loves her pieces, so I bite me tongue 
but not saying, I don't pray for the grandmother to rot in hell 
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123butterflies: hi secret, nice to see you bottom line is grandma hates me guts, hate is a strong word, so I say dislikes me kindly in a hateful way, but over all, she is Good with Charlie, and Charlie loves her to death, unfortunately sourness between us got in the way over the years, just sometimes struggle cuz I know, AWAYS, she'll give me a dig here and there and use charlie for it and unfortunately char is caught in the middle, but one thing I wont do, is dis her grandmother to her, ever, she loves her pieces, so I bite me tongue but not saying, I don't pray for the grandmother to rot in hell
Hey little butterfly. Definitely don't poison Charlie's mind against grandma cause it will come back to haunt you when she gets older.
I don't know your child but my suggestion is to talk softly to her, asking if she thinks it's nice to talk to her mommy like that. Kill her with kindness and understanding butterfly. Stop biting your tongue and let Charlie know that the way she talks to you is not a way to show that she loves you. Of course do this in your own form.
Good luck
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Ccincy: Hi butters I'm experiencing a similar issue only with a former sis in law who is my adult sons dads half sister and my sons Aunt.I could never understand families of why they act like they do.My sons Aunt admitted that she was jealous of me and has tried to destroy my son and my relationship by speaking negatively behind my back.I just don't get it.
In your case I think that someone needs to have a chat with Grandma and find out what her problem is .It's obvious that she is undermining you and how you've raised your daughter.
In your case I think that someone needs to have a chat with Grandma and find out what her problem is .It's obvious that she is undermining you and how you've raised your daughter.
I hear you ccincy, I don't get it either really, some people need to get a life, so much easier to focus on other people rather than to focus on yourself....I feel sad for such people, but in the same breath, my feelings still get hurt, and its not just during the Christmas or holiday seasons either, all year and talk to grandma
is sorta like playing Russian roulette with both guns loaded not even an after thought, a no go, cuz I would hate to kill someone 
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123butterflies: I hear you ccincy, I don't get it either really, some people need to get a life, so much easier to focus on other people rather than to focus on yourself....I feel sad for such people, but in the same breath, my feelings still get hurt, and its not just during the Christmas or holiday seasons either, all year and talk to grandma is sorta like playing Russian roulette with both guns loaded not even an after thought, a no go, cuz I would hate to kill someone
butters I told my adult son that I've always wanted him to have a close line to his late fathers family that is why I chose long ago to not turn him against them.When I visited my son in person a couple weeks ago I wanted him to continue to have a good relationship with his late fathers family that was why I never put them down to him.Cause I know that someday that it would all come back to haunt me if I did.He's obviously an adult and has to make his own choices in his life of who he chooses to hang with.I just figured someone had to be the hero in all this mess.I don't hold grudges and never will cause it's petty and childish for me to do anyway.
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God bless you Ccincy, your son is so lucky to have you in his life, your a kool mom, and have things in perspective, one day, hope im as strong as you
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secretagent09: Hey little butterfly. Definitely don't poison Charlie's mind against grandma cause it will come back to haunt you when she gets older.
I don't know your child but my suggestion is to talk softly to her, asking if she thinks it's nice to talk to her mommy like that. Kill her with kindness and understanding butterfly. Stop biting your tongue and let Charlie know that the way she talks to you is not a way to show that she loves you. Of course do this in your own form.
Good luck
I don't know your child but my suggestion is to talk softly to her, asking if she thinks it's nice to talk to her mommy like that. Kill her with kindness and understanding butterfly. Stop biting your tongue and let Charlie know that the way she talks to you is not a way to show that she loves you. Of course do this in your own form.
Good luck
well you just wrecked my plan, OK GIRLS LET CHARLIE LOOSE AND LET THE DUCK TAPE NOT BRUISE HER, LET HER LOOSE GENTLY OFF THE CELIING.....
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123butterflies: God bless you Ccincy, your son is so lucky to have you in his life, your a kool mom, and have things in perspective, one day, hope im as strong as you
CC is very strong and my friend. In case other posters dont know dont mess with my friends
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