The family farm had to be sold in order to pay her 750k euro.... (18)
OgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 PostsJust wondering how would a man feel if he had to sell the farm (or any family business for that matter) in order to pay off his wife who was the one who did the cheating. Around 7 year's ago a woman i know was found to be having an affair with a local fella who also happened to be 14 year's younger than her. Nothing wrong with the age difference as far as i'm concerned but it was just that eventually she told her husband she wanted a divorce and would be looking for her half share of the farm which had been in his family for a couple of hundred years. They had only been married for 6 years. So, last year, that was exactly what the judge ordered would have to be done and the farm was sold for 1.5 million and she got her half....she already has a very well paid job as a detective in the drug's squad......i would just be interested to know how people would feel if they had to do something like this through no fault of their own.....is it fair?...
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This story disgusts me..typical money lover, without morals. I wonder if she ever loved the man she was married to.
At least she asked politely for a divorce, because some other women would just kill the husband pretending it was an accident.
At least she asked politely for a divorce, because some other women would just kill the husband pretending it was an accident.
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OgGoDeo: Just wondering how would a man feel if he had to sell the farm (or any family business for that matter) in order to pay off his wife who was the one who did the cheating. Around 7 year's ago a woman i know was found to be having an affair with a local fella who also happened to be 14 year's younger than her. Nothing wrong with the age difference as far as i'm concerned but it was just that eventually she told her husband she wanted a divorce and would be looking for her half share of the farm which had been in his family for a couple of hundred years. They had only been married for 6 years. So, last year, that was exactly what the judge ordered would have to be done and the farm was sold for 1.5 million and she got her half....she already has a very well paid job as a detective in the drug's squad......i would just be interested to know how people would feel if they had to do something like this through no fault of their own.....is it fair?...
Some say it's all fair in love and war......
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......i know Galrads....the mind boggles!!!!!....only thing is those people are so rich already and would probably earn most of it back again.....
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OgGoDeo: ....oh, she is still with him peach.....they seem to be genuinely happy.....gorgeous new three story house built......she has 2 kids already though and is 45 now and no sign of her having a child with the younger fella.....they are getting married at Easter...
I'd say the money helped their love along,haha,
Ah well if they still together and getting married ,,hope he dosnt leave her when she 60 ,as he will only be 45 by then.
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galrads: Some say it's all fair in love and war......
Most expensive divorces
Dmitry Rybolovlev's divorce from Elena Rybolovleva; estimated at $4.5 billion
Alec Wildenstein's divorce from Jocelyn Wildenstein; estimated at $2.5 billion
Bernie Ecclestone's divorce from Slavica; estimated at $1-$1.2 billion
Harold Hamm current ruling estimated at $1 billion. Amount still under appeal by wife.
Adnan Khashoggi's divorce from Soraya Khashoggi; estimated at $850 million
Craig McCaw's divorce from Wendy McCaw; estimated to exceed $460 million
Mel Gibson's divorce from Robyn Moore Gibson; estimated at $425 million
Roman Abramovich's divorce from Irina Abramovich; estimated at $300 million
Michael Polsky's divorce from Maya Polsky, $184 million
Michael Jordan's divorce from Juanita Jordan; estimated at $168 million
Boris Berezovsky's divorce from Galina Besharova; estimated at $160 million
Neil Diamond's divorce from Marcia Murphey; estimated at $150 million
Frank McCourt's divorce from Jamie McCourt; estimated at $130 million
Garth Brooks' divorce from Sandy Mahl; estimated at $125 million
Charles Edgar Fipke's divorce from Marlene Fipke; estimated at $123 million
Greg Norman's divorce from Laura Andrassy; estimated at $103 million
Rupert Murdoch's divorce from Anna Murdoch; estimated at $100 million
Tiger Woods' divorce from Elin Nordegren; estimated at $100 million
Steven Spielberg's divorce from Amy Irving; estimated at $100 million
Madonna's divorce from Guy Ritchie; estimated at $76-$92 million
Harrison Ford's divorce from Melissa Mathison; estimated at $85 million
Kevin Costner's divorce from Cindy Silva; estimated at $80 million
Kenny Rogers divorce from Marianne Rogers; estimated at $60 million
Kelsey Grammer's divorce from Camille Grammer; estimated at $60 million
James Cameron's divorce from Linda Hamilton; estimated at $50 million
Paul McCartney's divorce from Heather Mills; estimated at $48.6 million
Michael Douglas' divorce from Diandra Douglas; estimated at $45 million
Ted Danson's divorce from Casey Coats; estimated at $30 million
Donald Trump's divorce from Ivana Trump; estimated at $25 million
Lionel Richie's divorce from Diane Richie; estimated at $20 million
Johnny Carson's divorce from Joanna Holland; estimated at $20 million
Mick Jagger's divorce from Jerry Hall; estimated between $15 and $25 million
not many of those had a family asset 2 hundred years lost .Most expensive divorces
Dmitry Rybolovlev's divorce from Elena Rybolovleva; estimated at $4.5 billion
Alec Wildenstein's divorce from Jocelyn Wildenstein; estimated at $2.5 billion
Bernie Ecclestone's divorce from Slavica; estimated at $1-$1.2 billion
Harold Hamm current ruling estimated at $1 billion. Amount still under appeal by wife.
Adnan Khashoggi's divorce from Soraya Khashoggi; estimated at $850 million
Craig McCaw's divorce from Wendy McCaw; estimated to exceed $460 million
Mel Gibson's divorce from Robyn Moore Gibson; estimated at $425 million
Roman Abramovich's divorce from Irina Abramovich; estimated at $300 million
Michael Polsky's divorce from Maya Polsky, $184 million
Michael Jordan's divorce from Juanita Jordan; estimated at $168 million
Boris Berezovsky's divorce from Galina Besharova; estimated at $160 million
Neil Diamond's divorce from Marcia Murphey; estimated at $150 million
Frank McCourt's divorce from Jamie McCourt; estimated at $130 million
Garth Brooks' divorce from Sandy Mahl; estimated at $125 million
Charles Edgar Fipke's divorce from Marlene Fipke; estimated at $123 million
Greg Norman's divorce from Laura Andrassy; estimated at $103 million
Rupert Murdoch's divorce from Anna Murdoch; estimated at $100 million
Tiger Woods' divorce from Elin Nordegren; estimated at $100 million
Steven Spielberg's divorce from Amy Irving; estimated at $100 million
Madonna's divorce from Guy Ritchie; estimated at $76-$92 million
Harrison Ford's divorce from Melissa Mathison; estimated at $85 million
Kevin Costner's divorce from Cindy Silva; estimated at $80 million
Kenny Rogers divorce from Marianne Rogers; estimated at $60 million
Kelsey Grammer's divorce from Camille Grammer; estimated at $60 million
James Cameron's divorce from Linda Hamilton; estimated at $50 million
Paul McCartney's divorce from Heather Mills; estimated at $48.6 million
Michael Douglas' divorce from Diandra Douglas; estimated at $45 million
Ted Danson's divorce from Casey Coats; estimated at $30 million
Donald Trump's divorce from Ivana Trump; estimated at $25 million
Lionel Richie's divorce from Diane Richie; estimated at $20 million
Johnny Carson's divorce from Joanna Holland; estimated at $20 million
Mick Jagger's divorce from Jerry Hall; estimated between $15 and $25 million
I have seen this many times happen to farms held over many generations , nothing like 200 years though . Its the number one reason for farm business failure . A farm adviser at a DairyNZ fielday speech mentioned it 6 times in ten minutes . Banks do not like refinancing farmers who go through it which makes a sale more likely . I know one guy who has been through it twice staying in business by luck more than good management . Its not just a male loosing out either as I know of woman faced with the same problem , one not married but living with a guy .
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peachmelba: I'd say the money helped their love along,haha,
Ah well if they still together and getting married ,,hope he dosnt leave her when she 60 ,as he will only be 45 by then.
Ah well if they still together and getting married ,,hope he dosnt leave her when she 60 ,as he will only be 45 by then.
Some people are really selfish she got her money at the expense of her ex hubby having to sell the farm that had been in his family for years,
To me that just dosnt sit right,
Who cares whether she is happy or not.
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peachmelba: I'd say the money helped their love along,haha,
Ah well if they still together and getting married ,,hope he dosnt leave her when she 60 ,as he will only be 45 by then.
....yeah, you're right there..Ah well if they still together and getting married ,,hope he dosnt leave her when she 60 ,as he will only be 45 by then.
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OgGoDeo: ....yeah, you're right there....... She is a really good looking woman though and looks 10 years younger....i know...she seems to have it good every way!!!
Bet she will age rapid when she gets past 50
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epirb: not many of those had a family asset 2 hundred years lost .
I have seen this many times happen to farms held over many generations , nothing like 200 years though . Its the number one reason for farm business failure . A farm adviser at a DairyNZ fielday speech mentioned it 6 times in ten minutes . Banks do not like refinancing farmers who go through it which makes a sale more likely . I know one guy who has been through it twice staying in business by luck more than good management . Its not just a male loosing out either as I know of woman faced with the same problem , one not married but living with a guy .
I have seen this many times happen to farms held over many generations , nothing like 200 years though . Its the number one reason for farm business failure . A farm adviser at a DairyNZ fielday speech mentioned it 6 times in ten minutes . Banks do not like refinancing farmers who go through it which makes a sale more likely . I know one guy who has been through it twice staying in business by luck more than good management . Its not just a male loosing out either as I know of woman faced with the same problem , one not married but living with a guy .
I hear what you are saying about family possessions over generations. I don't have squat compared to most but it is what it is and I don't have another thirty-years to try and recover losses due to a divorce settlement which happens all to often. So, I'm very cautious in finding mz right for me again.
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peachmelba: Bet she will age rapid when she gets past 50
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She won't be able to compete when he goes off with a woman half her age,
,And maybe her ex hubby will have a lovely new wife.
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epirb: not many of those had a family asset 2 hundred years lost .
I have seen this many times happen to farms held over many generations , nothing like 200 years though . Its the number one reason for farm business failure . A farm adviser at a DairyNZ fielday speech mentioned it 6 times in ten minutes . Banks do not like refinancing farmers who go through it which makes a sale more likely . I know one guy who has been through it twice staying in business by luck more than good management . Its not just a male loosing out either as I know of woman faced with the same problem , one not married but living with a guy .
.....i's like the joke about what an aold farmer said when somebody asked him why he never got married....well, he said, "it's like this"...."why would I walk up the aisle with my entire farm and walk down with half it"...I have seen this many times happen to farms held over many generations , nothing like 200 years though . Its the number one reason for farm business failure . A farm adviser at a DairyNZ fielday speech mentioned it 6 times in ten minutes . Banks do not like refinancing farmers who go through it which makes a sale more likely . I know one guy who has been through it twice staying in business by luck more than good management . Its not just a male loosing out either as I know of woman faced with the same problem , one not married but living with a guy .
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At this day and age people with their own farm or business should have enough cop on to make a pre-nup to protect what each party brings into a marriage.
Unfortunately it's not recognised in all countries.
I wouldn't want to marry anyone without a pre-nup (not that I'm planning anyway) and I have been with a guy who had more than I had. I'm not a user and don't want to be used either.
Unfortunately it's not recognised in all countries.
I wouldn't want to marry anyone without a pre-nup (not that I'm planning anyway) and I have been with a guy who had more than I had. I'm not a user and don't want to be used either.
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In Canada where I live because he owned it prior to their marriage she would not of been entitled to it; only half of the appreciated value for the six years. My sister learned that when she went to get a divorce. Laws have to keep up with the times.
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OgGoDeo: Just wondering how would a man feel if he had to sell the farm (or any family business for that matter) in order to pay off his wife who was the one who did the cheating. Around 7 year's ago a woman i know was found to be having an affair with a local fella who also happened to be 14 year's younger than her. Nothing wrong with the age difference as far as i'm concerned but it was just that eventually she told her husband she wanted a divorce and would be looking for her half share of the farm which had been in his family for a couple of hundred years. They had only been married for 6 years. So, last year, that was exactly what the judge ordered would have to be done and the farm was sold for 1.5 million and she got her half....she already has a very well paid job as a detective in the drug's squad......i would just be interested to know how people would feel if they had to do something like this through no fault of their own.....is it fair?...
With the short info given it seems unfair but there must have been other factors that the judge took into consideration to rule for the family’s property be divided or the guy did not seek for a better lawyer (s).
Do young guys realty want a committed relationship with a mature woman? I doubt it.
Would a young guy prefer a rich mature woman with to a young girl –making the minimum wage- but with a gorgeous body?
He can have both and the comfort of the mature lady assets.
Does the mature lady think his young lover will be only for her?
She has to sing like Édith Piaf and perhaps.
Wait until the lady assets touch cero and then she will see what real love is.
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lifeisadream: With the short info given it seems unfair but there must have been other factors that the judge took into consideration to rule for the family’s property be divided or the guy did not seek for a better lawyer (s).
Do young guys realty want a committed relationship with a mature woman? I doubt it.
Would a young guy prefer a rich mature woman with to a young girl –making the minimum wage- but with a gorgeous body?
He can have both and the comfort of the mature lady assets.
Does the mature lady think his young lover will be only for her?
She has to sing like Édith Piaf and perhaps.
Wait until the lady assets touch cero and then she will see what real love is.
.....I d'ont think we will have need to worry about this lady's assets becoming depleted anytime soon!... As i said already she is very good looking....looks way younger than her age.....dresses beautifully.....not a hair out of place on her head at any time.....and she has an excellent salary as a top drug's detective.....in the looks department she is way ahead of her younger partner and also way ahead in the brains department.....if anybody ever did the leaving my opinion would be that it would be her.....no, she will never be short of money or admirers.....Do young guys realty want a committed relationship with a mature woman? I doubt it.
Would a young guy prefer a rich mature woman with to a young girl –making the minimum wage- but with a gorgeous body?
He can have both and the comfort of the mature lady assets.
Does the mature lady think his young lover will be only for her?
She has to sing like Édith Piaf and perhaps.
Wait until the lady assets touch cero and then she will see what real love is.
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OgGoDeo: Just wondering how would a man feel if he had to sell the farm (or any family business for that matter) in order to pay off his wife who was the one who did the cheating. Around 7 year's ago a woman i know was found to be having an affair with a local fella who also happened to be 14 year's younger than her. Nothing wrong with the age difference as far as i'm concerned but it was just that eventually she told her husband she wanted a divorce and would be looking for her half share of the farm which had been in his family for a couple of hundred years. They had only been married for 6 years. So, last year, that was exactly what the judge ordered would have to be done and the farm was sold for 1.5 million and she got her half....she already has a very well paid job as a detective in the drug's squad......i would just be interested to know how people would feel if they had to do something like this through no fault of their own.....is it fair?...
That works out at €125k a year!
Seeing as she didn't have an interest in the business beforehand, and I very much doubt she had any involvement with it while they were together, then I find it surprising the judge found in her favour.
If her job is well paid enough to support him while they were together, then he should counter sue her to make up the alimony so he can continue his standard of living he had while they were together.
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OgGoDeo: .....I d'ont think we will have need to worry about this lady's assets becoming depleted anytime soon!... As i said already she is very good looking....looks way younger than her age.....dresses beautifully.....not a hair out of place on her head at any time.....and she has an excellent salary as a top drug's detective.....in the looks department she is way ahead of her younger partner and also way ahead in the brains department.....if anybody ever did the leaving my opinion would be that it would be her.....no, she will never be short of money or admirers.....
And neither she will be cheated or perhaos she would not mind it.
Beauty ends and gravity does his work (must be a man invented thing
) and there will always be younger and prettier persons.I wish happiness to her and the double to her ex.
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