Not looking forward to the party. (32)

Jan 7, 2015 12:30 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
freeman65
freeman65freeman65Longford, Ireland373 Posts
henonpause: I guess it's just that he finds it odd to see his new woman and his old woman having a chat, lol. My ex is a sound person, one of the best, he has nothing to hide, so I have nothing to expose him with, lol.

One night we all went for a meal, I think it was for my daughter's birthday - he was at the head of the table, me on left and her on right, lol. I found myself stealing one of his chips before realising I can't do that anymore lol.



I Sowwie.

Should remember how daughter's birthdays can be. Have two of my own.
Jan 7, 2015 12:35 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Tinypaws: Think of it this way - for her it will probably be even more uncomfortable. This is yours and his daughter's party. There will be lots of family, people who once associated you and him together.

Put yourself in her shoes for a moment. She might be really frightened of the night coming. Make her feel welcome, for I am certain if you were her, you'd be glad if the ex showed you an offer of friendship, right?
Unless she is the nasty type, those exist too but if she is nice, then she is not your enemy and has done nothing wrong by falling in love with a free man.

You gonna be fine and all the best to your daughter





Yea ill be polite and say helo ,,ive no regrets that it was a mutual agreement for us to separate,


All the same no I don't need to be all friendly ill say helo that's it.


grin
Jan 7, 2015 12:41 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Yea ill be polite and say helo ,,ive no regrets that it was a mutual agreement for us to separate,All the same no I don't need to be all friendly ill say helo that's it.




Thanks anyway tiny.


hug
Jan 7, 2015 12:47 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
henonpause: I guess it's just that he finds it odd to see his new woman and his old woman having a chat, lol. My ex is a sound person, one of the best, he has nothing to hide, so I have nothing to expose him with, lol.

One night we all went for a meal, I think it was for my daughter's birthday - he was at the head of the table, me on left and her on right, lol. I found myself stealing one of his chips before realising I can't do that anymore lol.
My ex is sound as well great woman and good mum we split by mutual consent ,but you always get people that try and make out otherwise ,faceless people i might add laugh ah not to worry will laugh it off,i dont comment myself on other peoples affairs unless i know the full storyteddybear
Jan 7, 2015 1:04 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
just dont go!! im not going to any social partys for my son when my ex will be there
Jan 7, 2015 1:12 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
pedro27: just dont go!! im not going to any social partys for my son when my ex will be there





laugh ,

I'm gona leave early wont be boozing anyway,


grin .


hug
Jan 7, 2015 1:31 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Just thinking there are alot more important things going on than be going on about a party ,a happy occasion,

cheering .



All is well.


Thanks everyone.


wine
Jan 7, 2015 1:32 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Just thinking there are alot more important things going on than be going on about a party ,a happy occasion,

.
All is well.Thanks everyone.






That's not wine I'm drinking btw,


That is to cheer you lot .


bouquet
Jan 7, 2015 2:12 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
Mauss
MaussMaussKilkenny, Ireland1 Threads 196 Posts
peachmelba: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.

All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"

Just keep in mind who the party is for and who is important for that person. It's not about you, your ex or his new partner. It all will be good.
Jan 7, 2015 2:15 PM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Mauss: Just keep in mind who the party is for and who is important for that person. It's not about you, your ex or his new partner. It all will be good.





Yes your right maus and I will take my isms out of it.


About my daughter,


wine
Jan 10, 2015 4:06 AM CST Not looking forward to the party.
johnjjm
johnjjmjohnjjmco westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland562 Posts
In response to: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.

All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"
well tonight im having a party and alls welcome were going to give it socks , now peach I cant see you just saying hello and then hiding away with noy=thing to say sure your the greatest chatterbox here now I knows its not here but don't you change the way you are for nobody just be yourself and talk away to all and enjoy you seem nice and friendly so go for it just relax and enjoy
Jan 10, 2015 5:44 AM CST Not looking forward to the party.
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
johnjjm: well tonight im having a party and alls welcome were going to give it socks , now peach I cant see you just saying hello and then hiding away with noy=thing to say sure your the greatest chatterbox here now I knows its not here but don't you change the way you are for nobody just be yourself and talk away to all and enjoy you seem nice and friendly so go for it just relax and enjoy





Thanks John I'm actually looking forward to the party,,just meant it be a little strange but it's next week and I don't feel so strange about it now,




It's other people can be strange.

laugh
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