I have just changed my filters to block younger men, sorry, but I am not interested.
Until I changed filters, more than half the men who message me are younger - youngest was 29! Many in 30s and some in 40s. I write back, say thank you but too young (and too far away, I am looking for local man) and they message again, and again, I have to block.
In real life, this does not happen, some men in late forties chat me up but mainly men my age. So why?
Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland2,339 posts
CanaryBlue: I have just changed my filters to block younger men, sorry, but I am not interested.
Until I changed filters, more than half the men who message me are younger - youngest was 29! Many in 30s and some in 40s. I write back, say thank you but too young (and too far away, I am looking for local man) and they message again, and again, I have to block.
In real life, this does not happen, some men in late forties chat me up but mainly men my age. So why?
It's the age old 'challenge' to chat up an older woman for the 18-younger than you' age group
Because it is easy to do here, in a public place they would not chance it. Most males have fear of rejection, so here there are no repercussions, or embarrassment. imo.
Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland2,339 posts
pedalguy59: Because it is easy to do here, in a public place they would not chance it. Most males have fear of rejection, so here there are no repercussions, or embarrassment. imo.
CanaryBlue: gave my friend access to my account so she could do the filters for me and I was in her account for exchange. I forgot!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry Viv!!
I would never mind two women for the price of one.
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Why do younger men chase after older women here?(Vote Below)
Until I changed filters, more than half the men who message me are younger - youngest was 29! Many in 30s and some in 40s. I write back, say thank you but too young (and too far away, I am looking for local man) and they message again, and again, I have to block.
In real life, this does not happen, some men in late forties chat me up but mainly men my age. So why?