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Jan 18, 2015 9:46 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
BaiHe
BaiHeBaiHeHo Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2 Threads 5 Posts
I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping
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Jan 18, 2015 9:55 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
damshoppin
damshoppindamshoppinmansfield, Nottinghamshire, England UK30 Threads 693 Posts
Times a great healer..
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Jan 18, 2015 10:00 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
BaiHe
BaiHeBaiHeHo Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2 Threads 5 Posts
thanks you
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Jan 18, 2015 10:04 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping


There's not much anyone can say or do for you, only time will heal your heart. I hope it won't take longhug
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Jan 18, 2015 10:06 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
sad flower Not easy to get over. You are not alone from your
part of the World where this happens a lot.
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Jan 18, 2015 10:15 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping


I can't tell much why this is happening to your relationship.
There might be some things which occupies him all the time as he shifted to another country for work and in new country it take some time to adjust. may be due to work load he dont get much time to talk to you or may be he is facing some problem there.

I understand the pain what you are going through but you dont have any other option than wait for his words. Its more painful if you dont find the reason why your partner is doing so and it takes your all the time to make assumptions which frustrate us.

Dont worry time is great healer and fortune teller it will provide you the reason soon to be happy.
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Jan 18, 2015 10:20 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping


Sometimes it's a stroke of luck when we don't get what we want. As the old saying goes, there's a lot of fish in the sea. Hope you heal quickly. hug
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Jan 18, 2015 10:24 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping


Sorry this happened to you and I think a lot of people can empathize with you. Time will heal the wounds but scars tend to remain. There is certainly no shortage of opportunists out there. teddybear bouquet
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Jan 18, 2015 10:33 AM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping
...That is an awful thing that happened you.....so sorry.....it is one of the worst pains that anybody can suffer.....like you say it is like somebody sticks a knife in your stomach and twists it.....you are very brave to be able to write your feelings here and you should talk to your close family and friends also......like others said the only cure for a broken heart is time but you should not spend your time alone.....try your best to get out there and keep yourself active......you seem like a lovely person and you are too good for that coward who was not man enough to be truthful with you.......you will find love again.....promise.......please take care of yourself....
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Jan 18, 2015 2:56 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
johnjjm
johnjjmjohnjjmco westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland562 Posts
ah its a horrible thing I have no words to help you but the sun will shine bright again your not alone in pain most suffer innsilence just try and move on not easy but you have to
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Jan 18, 2015 5:15 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
You are not alone in this. Revenge is not an option so you need to concentrate on the things you like to do for the time being.
When you can try concentration on your life goal(s)
P.S. Your pretty hug lips grin
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Jan 18, 2015 5:18 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In time the pain will go away.I wish you good things.comfort
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Jan 18, 2015 5:23 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping


What he did was horrible and cowardly but it doesn't help to hear things like that. rose

You're allowed to cry and be sore, tomorrow is another day and there's a better man out there for you bouquet
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Jan 18, 2015 5:41 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
BaiHe: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping


Sorry for being the reality factor in a sea of good wishes: re-read his last message. Maybe he feels you are coming on too strong. We all know that this life is short and that there are many things to accomplish before it is over, but we sometimes have to dance to a different drummer.

Step back and take a look at your life. It will be a new day tomorrow. Look for things that will make you happy. Maybe it is not the end of the road.bouquet
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Jan 18, 2015 5:54 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
pogo07
pogo07pogo07dubliin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 74 Posts
Baihe, he didnt say it was over, he said to give him time. There is a big difference! Sometimes when someone is about to make a big change in their life, such as settle down or change jobs, they need time to 'sit with it' to get their head around the idea. Guys are often like this especially where emotions are concerned. I think you should take this time to get YOUR head around it, be yourself, do things you enjoy so you will feel more whole. That way, if you still want him and he DOES get in touch, he will find a clear minded well adjusted lady and feel ready to further explore the relationship. If he doesnt get back to you, you will have filled your time and space with a better and healed you. Ni shi hen hao ren.
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Jan 18, 2015 6:08 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
pogo07: Baihe, he didnt say it was over, he said to give him time. There is a big difference! Sometimes when someone is about to make a big change in their life, such as settle down or change jobs, they need time to 'sit with it' to get their head around the idea. Guys are often like this especially where emotions are concerned. I think you should take this time to get YOUR head around it, be yourself, do things you enjoy so you will feel more whole. That way, if you still want him and he DOES get in touch, he will find a clear minded well adjusted lady and feel ready to further explore the relationship. If he doesnt get back to you, you will have filled your time and space with a better and healed you. Ni shi hen hao ren.
The Lady waited a month to hear "Give me Time"
Its over she is single now.thumbs up and kinda cutethumbs up
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Jan 18, 2015 6:14 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
In response to: I met a nice men here on 27th Mar 2014, he is an European, gentlemen and so nice to me, I fall in love with him during the time he traveled to my country, he came here twice later to see me, we skype everyday although he have not enough time to sleep but he still very happy, he also introduce me to his sister throught internet, he met and invited my family for dinner,,, all of these, i think our relationship is going ahead and more close. Since the day he fly away his country to another Asia country for work on last Dec, he suddenly silent and didn't respond to my message & email during a month time, i was so worry and don't know what happen to him. Then I got a 3 words message from him "GIVE ME TIME", now i know i am the looser, because i can't be close to him everyday like the women stick on him there. I almost collapse completely and cry everyday since then, i can eat nothing, unable to sleep, almost can't breath, my heart so PAIN, the same as someone thurst a knife in. Today is his birthday, I already prepared for him a gift and Valentine' gift too, and plan to fly to him to make him surprise. Now everything changed, he can't resist the seduction from other women and choose to dump me mecilessly. The more love the more pain. I tried to control myself not to cry but tears still non stop dropping



you are a beautify lady move on you`ll soon meet someone

hug
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Jan 18, 2015 6:21 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
pogo07
pogo07pogo07dubliin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 74 Posts
chatonlyman2: The Lady waited a month to hear "Give me Time"
Its over she is single now. and kinda cute


Chat, have you ever dated a guy? Probably not! I have, and have come across this myself, where a guy says he needs 'time'. They ALWAYS came back after a time and wanted to try again but by then I had moved on and was no longer interested.
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Jan 18, 2015 6:28 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
pogo07: Chat, have you ever dated a guy? Probably not! I have, and have come across this myself, where a guy says he needs 'time'. They ALWAYS came back after a time and wanted to try again but by then I had moved on and was no longer interested.
C'est La Vie.cheers
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Jan 18, 2015 6:31 PM CST No one to confident my heartbroken pain, just share here to feel better
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
https://www.youtube.com/embed/E3pjq0WAupc

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