Destination Long Term! (30)
annaroach: Some people on here have long term, for a relationship
Does anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!
well yes interesting would be putting mildly I never knew so many half mad people there are here now chatting it surprises me whay people say and how they live I think im normal but feel theres no normal ones on the site all seem I don't know how to say but have ridiculous expections that's best I can say it maybe lots have never grown up I wont say wrong of peoplebut until lately I must have been going around blindfold so much misery hard to believeDoes anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!
johnjjm: well yes interesting would be putting mildly I never knew so many half mad people there are here now chatting it surprises me whay people say and how they live I think im normal but feel theres no normal ones on the site all seem I don't know how to say but have ridiculous expections that's best I can say it maybe lots have never grown up I wont say wrong of peoplebut until lately I must have been going around blindfold so much misery hard to believe
I haven't come across all this ridiculous expectations and misery , I have to say.
but I have no doubt that some people out there do expect internet dating to be some kind of magical place where they will find somebody they would never attract in real life - ridiculous expectations.
Maybe when they come across the reality of their situation, this is where the misery kicks in?
mollybaby: I haven't come across all this ridiculous expectations and misery , I have to say.
but I have no doubt that some people out there do expect internet dating to be some kind of magical place where they will find somebody they would never attract in real life - ridiculous expectations.
Maybe when they come across the reality of their situation, this is where the misery kicks in?
but I have no doubt that some people out there do expect internet dating to be some kind of magical place where they will find somebody they would never attract in real life - ridiculous expectations.
Maybe when they come across the reality of their situation, this is where the misery kicks in?
mollybaby: I haven't come across all this ridiculous expectations and misery , I have to say.
but I have no doubt that some people out there do expect internet dating to be some kind of magical place where they will find somebody they would never attract in real life - ridiculous expectations.
Maybe when they come across the reality of their situation, this is where the misery kicks in?
but I have no doubt that some people out there do expect internet dating to be some kind of magical place where they will find somebody they would never attract in real life - ridiculous expectations.
Maybe when they come across the reality of their situation, this is where the misery kicks in?
johnjjm: well yes interesting would be putting mildly I never knew so many half mad people there are here now chatting it surprises me whay people say and how they live I think im normal but feel theres no normal ones on the site all seem I don't know how to say but have ridiculous expections that's best I can say it maybe lots have never grown up I wont say wrong of peoplebut until lately I must have been going around blindfold so much misery hard to believe
Life is too short to be going around miserable.
Life is good. What do you consider ridiculous expectations?
Maybe some people have been hurt in the past and are catious
johnjjm: well yes interesting would be putting mildly I never knew so many half mad people there are here now chatting it surprises me whay people say and how they live I think im normal but feel theres no normal ones on the site all seem I don't know how to say but have ridiculous expections that's best I can say it maybe lots have never grown up I wont say wrong of peoplebut until lately I must have been going around blindfold so much misery hard to believe
I hear you, JJ. However: (commence lecture)
People at our age have been around the block a few times; we're battle scarred, weary, tired, and jaded - and probably a hell of a lot more cautious than we once were. We'd like to be young, free and single - but we're not. We're older, hurt, and cast aside, be it through choice or otherwise.
Define ridiculous expectations? Is it that we are less likely to tolerate stress and drama, now that we are back in the driving seat of our lives? There is a lot of drama on here, I grant you that - from the depraved, to the depressed, and even the psychotic. But we are all on here for some form of company, and if Ms or Mr Right happens along, that's great.
This is not normal life - this is virtual reality. People say things and behave on here possibly not as they would face-to-face.
One guy had on his profile - this is my first time, please take it easy on me! Which goes to show what preconceptions there are about internet dating.
If you are lucky enough to meet up with someone, and it clicks, then this place recedes into a pass-time, and not the focus of your life.
I personally don't think I'll meet my own Mr Right on here, but one never knows. There are one or two who have potential, but I'm not holding my breath, because Time is necessary for something to develop, and Time is not a commodity most people afford you these days.
annaroach: Life is too short to be going around miserable.
Life is good. What do you consider ridiculous expectations?
Maybe some people have been hurt in the past and are catious
ah yes I agree there are people that need to be cautious theres an awful lot of people in trouble with houses and its causing much misery I have met a few and my heart goes out ton them and I think a lot are looking for some fun just to ease their plight I have seen this and it just causes more problems for them on ridiculous expections I mean people of 50 looking to have the same theybdid at twenty aint going to happen I don't thinkLife is good. What do you consider ridiculous expectations?
Maybe some people have been hurt in the past and are catious
annaroach: Some people on here have long term, for a relationship
Does anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!
Does anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!
You only live once, make the most of it.
stanley8m: You only live once, make the most of it.
Thanks for the advice, believe me i intend to
stanley8m: You only live once, make the most of it.
That's deep, Stan
henonpause: I hear you, JJ. However: (commence lecture)
People at our age have been around the block a few times; we're battle scarred, weary, tired, and jaded - and probably a hell of a lot more cautious than we once were. We'd like to be young, free and single - but we're not. We're older, hurt, and cast aside, be it through choice or otherwise.
Define ridiculous expectations? Is it that we are less likely to tolerate stress and drama, now that we are back in the driving seat of our lives? There is a lot of drama on here, I grant you that - from the depraved, to the depressed, and even the psychotic. But we are all on here for some form of company, and if Ms or Mr Right happens along, that's great.
This is not normal life - this is virtual reality. People say things and behave on here possibly not as they would face-to-face.
One guy had on his profile - this is my first time, please take it easy on me! Which goes to show what preconceptions there are about internet dating.
If you are lucky enough to meet up with someone, and it clicks, then this place recedes into a pass-time, and not the focus of your life.
I personally don't think I'll meet my own Mr Right on here, but one never knows. There are one or two who have potential, but I'm not holding my breath, because Time is necessary for something to develop, and Time is not a commodity most people afford you these days.
Very well put,People at our age have been around the block a few times; we're battle scarred, weary, tired, and jaded - and probably a hell of a lot more cautious than we once were. We'd like to be young, free and single - but we're not. We're older, hurt, and cast aside, be it through choice or otherwise.
Define ridiculous expectations? Is it that we are less likely to tolerate stress and drama, now that we are back in the driving seat of our lives? There is a lot of drama on here, I grant you that - from the depraved, to the depressed, and even the psychotic. But we are all on here for some form of company, and if Ms or Mr Right happens along, that's great.
This is not normal life - this is virtual reality. People say things and behave on here possibly not as they would face-to-face.
One guy had on his profile - this is my first time, please take it easy on me! Which goes to show what preconceptions there are about internet dating.
If you are lucky enough to meet up with someone, and it clicks, then this place recedes into a pass-time, and not the focus of your life.
I personally don't think I'll meet my own Mr Right on here, but one never knows. There are one or two who have potential, but I'm not holding my breath, because Time is necessary for something to develop, and Time is not a commodity most people afford you these days.
I couldn't have said it better myself
henonpause: That's deep, Stan
Would it sound better if I say it in latin, ok here you go, Carpe Diem!
johnjjm: ah yes I agree there are people that need to be cautious theres an awful lot of people in trouble with houses and its causing much misery I have met a few and my heart goes out ton them and I think a lot are looking for some fun just to ease their plight I have seen this and it just causes more problems for them on ridiculous expections I mean people of 50 looking to have the same they did at twenty aint going to happen I don't think
It does happen if they're easy enough.
I got lots of offers of 20 year olds and I'm not naive enough to think that they didn't try it with everyone under the age of 70.
Let them off.
annaroach: Some people on here have long term, for a relationship
Does anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!
Does anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!
I have friends, a good social life etc. so I don't need CS to chat to interesting people, I do that in RL.
I want someone to share my life with eventually and I don't look on CS for himself.
KNenagh: It does happen if they're easy enough.
I got lots of offers of 20 year olds and I'm not naive enough to think that they didn't try it with everyone under the age of 70.
Let them off.
well I see from fellas side .someone just wanting some fun should say so and I wfor one would give them a wide berth people hurt easily I do think its a good site but im just learning whats going on here for me ninty percent of women on it don't have an idea what they want .when most get a mail they think firstly another one you get back 3 word replys its so childishI got lots of offers of 20 year olds and I'm not naive enough to think that they didn't try it with everyone under the age of 70.
Let them off.
johnjjm: well I see from fellas side .someone just wanting some fun should say so and I wfor one would give them a wide berth people hurt easily I do think its a good site but im just learning whats going on here for me ninty percent of women on it don't have an idea what they want .when most get a mail they think firstly another one you get back 3 word replys its so childish
A lot of guys have long-term on their profile hoping that women will chat to them, but are only looking for a leg-over.
I fully agree on the honesty part and that's why I'm not looking on here, although I meet a lot of these chancers in RL as well. I just don't waste my time on them there.As to your last sentence, I know JJ and I drew my consequences from that.
Ya, I know, like, and I jus doesn't gets why I's still singles, like.
An' jus for da record, amor vincit omnia
An' jus for da record, amor vincit omnia
KNenagh: A lot of guys have long-term on their profile hoping that women will chat to them, but are only looking for a leg-over. I fully agree on the honesty part and that's why I'm not looking on here, although I meet a lot of these chancers in RL as well. I just don't waste my time on them there.
As to your last sentence, I know JJ and I drew my consequences from that.
I got a mail from a55 yearold it went that's class that was it like how can you answer that I just laughed like what school child talks like sadAs to your last sentence, I know JJ and I drew my consequences from that.
henonpause: Ya, I know, like, and I jus doesn't gets why I's still singles, like.
An' jus for da record, amor vincit omnia
An' jus for da record, amor vincit omnia
(dat was aymed at da Stan Man)
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Does anyone that does have that on their profile find that,
On that journey ,the little detours every now and again, are very
interesting, exciting and informative, chatting with lots of different
people from all walks of life, with different and interesting stories
to tell, giving credence to the saying,, "its the journey and not the
destination that is important" Just wondering!!