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Feb 15, 2015 9:30 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
woodye85741
woodye85741woodye85741casas adobe, Arizona USA1 Threads 4 Posts
I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!
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Feb 15, 2015 10:03 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!


i do not rate photos at all.
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Feb 16, 2015 7:03 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!


I don't rate pictures as well..

Long distance? It doesn't work for me. But it works for some people.It really depends on how they deal with it.. .heart wings
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Feb 16, 2015 8:30 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
azucena2013
azucena2013azucena2013Caracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela3 Threads 42 Posts
Same here, I never get responses from guys in my area, seems that all of them are looking for a blonde woman overseas to take them out of here. That's the way Venezuelan guys are.
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Feb 16, 2015 8:58 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
kuechenhobbit
kuechenhobbitkuechenhobbitSan Francisco, California USA1 Posts
The same experiences I had, just one times i got a mail from a man around my area... but he doesn't answered. but enough from areas miles and miles away I don't know why.. I would also prefer to find somebody naer me...
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Feb 16, 2015 9:40 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
I don't rate photos. In this site; it has to be just for the forums because there really aren't many here near me.

What am I saying? I don't use these sites they way they're intended for. I don't like feeling like I'm hiding behind a computer screen for "interviews". Or even for "interviewing".

I must say though; the scammers might be evolving a little. Somewhat harder to tell with some.
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Feb 17, 2015 5:15 AM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!


Well, let's look at the psychology of a site like this. Many are disillusioned with local dating sites and responses.

If I wanted a local girl, I probably would have used a local dating site, or better still, have joined up with some single groups in my area.

But here, it is easier to have people's needs for a relationship/friendship met without having to actually deal with being with people, without having to put up with real people in real situations.

For me, I wasn't wanted by the "local women", so I went where I was wanted.

There is always the perception that "the grass is greener on the other side of the fence".

Sometimes people are seeking the different to their norm, to awake a sense of enlivenment, that they don't feel with local people.

It is the seeking of something new, or the rejection from locals, that lead people to seek connection further afield.

It did for me, and I have no regrets at all. Actually, I have received emails from many others that have experienced very positive connections with partners further afield than their local areas, who they found here on CS.

It is primarily not for locals to find locals here on CS. If that is what you are really wanting, you might be better off joining some more local dating sites.

JMO.
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Feb 17, 2015 3:57 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!



Needing your ego stroked by locals. That's adorable.


Here's a plot twist. Maybe the locals are voting, but of a low score that doesn't show who voted professor
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Feb 17, 2015 4:01 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!



the thread what about long distance and we talk about photo's

most local's we will hiding behind their computers in case their wives find out.

depends on what you want
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Feb 17, 2015 4:04 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
I took a peek at your profile and your write that you're looking for a woman to put you in your place.

Oh Jac. Calling Jac. Where are you lovely? grin
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Feb 17, 2015 4:14 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Most of us have been trained and we already know our places lol
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Feb 17, 2015 4:18 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
allthegoodnamest: Most of us have been trained and we already know our places lol
laugh laugh
So Jac already got to ya eh?
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Feb 17, 2015 4:29 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Jac was an angel compared to my ex..orcist!
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Feb 17, 2015 4:30 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
Kaybee50: So Jac already got to ya eh?
huh that little Welsh bimbo doesent worry me........flex pointing snooty giggle giggle giggle
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Feb 17, 2015 6:43 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!


You are right buddy.
But what is the use of being in International site when someone wants partner living next door!!wink cool
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Feb 19, 2015 6:44 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
southernandsexy
southernandsexysouthernandsexyunknown, Kentucky USA2 Threads 111 Posts
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!
yay evidentally you have stopped dreaming.You cant know or even guess where u might find that which u seek
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Feb 26, 2015 1:10 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
bugzee
bugzeebugzeeisle of man, Isle of Man UK42 Posts
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!


i dont rate photo's this is only the outside of the person, i do like the idea of meeting woman far away or should i say chatting with them its interesting to hear whats happening in the other parts of the world and you can make good friends
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Feb 26, 2015 1:15 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!
I dont Squeez Photoslaugh
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Feb 26, 2015 2:22 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
woodye85741: I can't understand why photos get rated from across the country but not from
a local ? I only rate photos and seek partners who I'm most likely to encounter within 50 miles of my home. Fly cross country to meet ? C'mon, that's just sad!

Totally agree, to almost the full extent. I was messaged by a man a few years ago.
He was to be in my exact city on such a date,. Well I wanted to meet. Dinner, ya know, a date. Seemed on the up and up. I want to date. I attempt ,then I flake every time. With all the the things in the news, I get a gut feeling which tells me NO. I want to meet someone that I am introduced to me threw a friend. So yes, my friends are pushing me to go to parties etc. With them, as they say "find me a man". Still, I really am ready, thus to contradict myself, I get nervous. Meeting the first time. I met one man, on this site, he was great, went out a few times, nice dinners, Really nice, movies, lunch, shopping.
He then went to the other side of the country for work. He still contacts me. Still I get nervous. I am 54, weird huh? I go out, am approached, I do not get close, I am polite, flirt, have fun. Self confident, have fun , laugh, Then , BYE ! Thus do not give my number or a definite Yes. I receive cards, Call me. I do not. Oh well. We shall see. I get messages only from far off lands. I seem to not get contact from any one in close proximity. It seems to me, from my perception all fake. Hope I made sense. TMI, If any one read this, small novel thx. : )Oh well. PEACE HHblushing wink
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Feb 26, 2015 2:26 PM CST WHAT ABOUT LONG DISTANCE
bugzee: i dont rate photo's this is only the outside of the person, i do like the idea of meeting woman far away or should i say chatting with them its interesting to hear whats happening in the other parts of the world and you can make good friends
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