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Sell Out is when compromise feels conscripted...and yes, i have been there....nobody's fault but mine, and the funny thing is, I have repeated the same pattern a couple of times since.....
To paraphrase the song..."the things we do for love"....
Is there a lesson learned at this late hour.....I should co-coa....
In my first relationship - my best friend was male and my boyfriend didn't like it that we kept in touch (never anything going on there). Just to keep the peace, I let the friendship die. It was tough after 6,5 years to create a new circle of people to socialise with as I avoided the old "common" crowd.
I never did this again, I have friends of both genders (and it hadn't been a problem with my ex as he knew my best mate here long before me).
Otherwise no, I always took someone into consideration and never felt conscripted with that.