When should you give up on dating ? (91)

Mar 4, 2015 4:17 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Just curious to what people think on the subject and at what age ?
Mar 4, 2015 4:19 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: Just curious to what people think on the subject and at what age ?




When you are no longer able to offer anything positive to a relationship.
Mar 4, 2015 4:20 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
mjpd67: Just curious to what people think on the subject and at what age ?


I don't think it has something to do with age.

When something starts to make you unhappy, take a step back.
Mar 4, 2015 4:21 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
mollybaby: When you are no longer able to offer anything positive to a relationship.
what about if you never offered anything positive ?
Mar 4, 2015 4:23 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: what about if you never offered anything positive ?



Then one should question why that is.
Mar 4, 2015 4:24 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
mjpd67: Just curious to what people think on the subject and at what age ?




I'm awful I was meant to go on pof tonight to get back to a man I said I'd meet next week,


There was another I didnt get back to also,


I just don't think the winter is the time for me to date,


Oh by the way mj. A man and woman who used to be residents in the day care centre for elderly whete I worked had a date ,,,okay it was at the centres Xmas party but they had a dance ,,,they in their 80 s ,,and go to bingo on bus together every week,


smitten
Mar 4, 2015 4:28 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
mjpd67: Just curious to what people think on the subject and at what age ?


When you don't want to date anymore
Mar 4, 2015 4:30 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
mollybaby: Then one should question why that is.
Must dwell on that confused
Mar 4, 2015 4:30 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
peachmelba: I'm awful I was meant to go on pof tonight to get back to a man I said I'd meet next week,There was another I didnt get back to also,I just don't think the winter is the time for me to date,Oh by the way mj. A man and woman who used to be residents in the day care centre for elderly whete I worked had a date ,,,okay it was at the centres Xmas party but they had a dance ,,,they in their 80 s ,,and go to bingo on bus together every week,
sweet thumbs up
Mar 4, 2015 4:32 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
When you don't want to date anymore[/quotelaugh
Mar 4, 2015 4:34 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
mjpd67: what about if you never offered anything positive ?


Did you not offer or was the positive not offered to you?
Mar 4, 2015 4:34 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: Must dwell on that



A little introspection does us all good
Mar 4, 2015 4:37 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
mollybaby: A little introspection does us all good
Thats true must look into thy inner self writing typing
Mar 4, 2015 4:37 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
mjpd67: Just curious to what people think on the subject and at what age ?





Well who says give up,, if a person is not feeling good about themselves due to ill health or family commitments ,busey work schedule and the person dosnt feel they can manage dating let alone a relationship well the timing just isn't right but that's not to say things will stay that way,things change and to be one to the possibility of romance or whatever it is ya want,

Some people get too comfortable on their own quite happy ,it dosnt require any effort to step outside their comfort zone,


I've broke a meet but it's okay I let him know and just got carried along chatting at the time,
I'm not really wanting a date at this moment in time but that dosnt mean that I'm always going to feel like that.
Mar 4, 2015 4:38 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: Thats true must look into thy inner self


And not whilst one is drinking
Mar 4, 2015 4:38 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Fraya: Did you not offer or was the positive not offered to you?
Im like buying a battery from the auto factors im positive but can be negative also dunno
Mar 4, 2015 4:41 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
mjpd67: Im like buying a battery from the auto factors im positive but can be negative also





Well least you have a positive in ya somewhere mj.


grin
Mar 4, 2015 4:47 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
mjpd67: Im like buying a battery from the auto factors im positive but can be negative also


I think I understand and reminded of the "selling out" thread of last week. I challenge you to think of at least one time you have brought out the best in someone by at least making them smile and they doing the same for you. Its a good start grin
Mar 4, 2015 4:52 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Fraya: I think I understand and reminded of the "selling out" thread of last week. I challenge you to think of at least one time you have brought out the best in someone by at least making them smile and they doing the same for you. Its a good start
I can be a really nice bloke but have left women in tears also along the way blushing
Mar 4, 2015 4:58 PM CST When should you give up on dating ?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
mjpd67: I can be a really nice bloke but have left women in tears also along the way


We've all been less than pleasant at some time or other. Move on and be "positive" or...rinse and repeat laugh
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