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Mar 9, 2015 10:05 AM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
Upstair neighbour has become my enemy. And I can't do anything.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:11 AM CST I am angry
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 599 Posts
Sure you can. For a nominal fee, I'll give you a variety of ideas. Cover my expenses and pay me a chunk of cash, and I'll come do it personally. I'm here to help.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:14 AM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
I live in a 3 storey building and the woman upstairs always trying to tease me. She is constantly pounding with a small hammer or something slowly at 6 a.m. or at 4.30 am. Lot of things have also happend in last 6-7 years. So what should i do? im angry, sad and depressed. It is having effect on my health. I would like to get views from u all.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:27 AM CST I am angry
I also live in a similar situation.

There are 3, or more, college boys living above me and they, and their friends and girlfriends, get home around 10:00 in the evenings and don't settle down until around 4 in the morning. One of them lifts weights and lets it drop to the floor. I about have heart-attack each time that happens.

My neighbors below me scream and curse at each other from the moment they wake up every day until the moment they go to sleep. They have a mentally challenged young boy who then sobs and cries the entire time, they slam doors.

It is a living hell and I understand about the depression and sadness. I stay at the office many times late into the night so that I don't have to go home. It is a rare night that I get more than 4 hours sleep and with my hypothyroidism, I should be receiving at least 7 hours for my thyroid balance.

My lease ends at the end of July. I will be moving if I can make it that long without losing my sanity.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:28 AM CST I am angry
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
max_max123: I live in a 3 storey building and the woman upstairs always trying to tease me. She is constantly pounding with a small hammer or something slowly at 6 a.m. or at 4.30 am. Lot of things have also happend in last 6-7 years. So what should i do? im angry, sad and depressed. It is having effect on my health. I would like to get views from u all.

earplugs and sleeping pills
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Mar 9, 2015 10:29 AM CST I am angry
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
Kaybee50: I also live in a similar situation.

There are 3, or more, college boys living above me and they, and their friends and girlfriends, get home around 10:00 in the evenings and don't settle down until around 4 in the morning. One of them lifts weights and lets it drop to the floor. I about have heart-attack each time that happens.

My neighbors below me scream and curse at each other from the moment they wake up every day until the moment they go to sleep. They have a mentally challenged young boy who then sobs and cries the entire time, they slam doors.

It is a living hell and I understand about the depression and sadness. I stay at the office many times late into the night so that I don't have to go home. It is a rare night that I get more than 4 hours sleep and with my hypothyroidism, I should be receiving at least 7 hours for my thyroid balance.

My lease ends at the end of July. I will be moving if I can make it that long without losing my sanity.

I´m prescribing you a hand grenade
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Mar 9, 2015 10:29 AM CST I am angry
DonPepperoni: earplugs and sleeping pills
Neither work, believe me.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:35 AM CST I am angry
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
Kaybee50: Neither work, believe me.

what´s your take on the grenade?
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Mar 9, 2015 10:37 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Buy a detached house!!
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Mar 9, 2015 10:37 AM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
She is a woman and I dont know how to stop her and her husband. Granade is good idea! But cant do that. I sleep with thrusting cotton in my ears but I still hear it. My heart has become fearful of that sound. my heart beats faster or some fear runs throuhgh my stomach. Im worried about my mother. She had shouted from balcony but as she shouts they do it more. Thinking of going to polic now.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:37 AM CST I am angry
DonPepperoni: what´s your take on the grenade?
Do you think the wardens would allow me to hang frilly gingham curtains in my jail cell? I hope the prison attire is pink.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:39 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest: Buy a detached house!!
That is not a possibility for many of us.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:43 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
K.B.
Maybe he should invest in some earplugs then..cheaper option.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:46 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest: K.B.
Maybe he should invest in some earplugs then..cheaper option.
Earplugs aren't very effective. Slamming doors, dropping weights, screaming, don't block out this type of noise.
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Mar 9, 2015 10:49 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
K.B.

Ask to join in the fun..i.mean if you can beat them,join them!!
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Mar 9, 2015 10:53 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest: K.B.

Ask to join in the fun..i.mean if you can beat them,join them!!
I don't find dysfunction fun at all. blues
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Mar 9, 2015 11:05 AM CST I am angry
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
I briefly lived with a group of oz girls and it was like living with a pack of hyenas. There was so much laughing. What was all the laughing for? I slept most nights out in the hallway. It's torture when you can't get any peace.
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Mar 9, 2015 11:24 AM CST I am angry
Obstinance_Works: It's torture when you can't get any peace.

Yes, especially the older one gets.
In my 20s, 30s, and even in my early 40s, I could function on less sleep.
The slamming of doors above and below have knocked objects off my walls and shelves.
Yesterday, we had an unusally warm day in St. Louis.
I was so delighted to open some windows and let in fresh air....that lasted for 30 minutes, as the neighbors downstairs had their windows open as well.
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Mar 9, 2015 11:29 AM CST I am angry
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
max_max123: Upstair neighbour has become my enemy. And I can't do anything.


This is a terrible situation...my friend went through this and he completely lost it at times.

In the end he became clinically depressed...which then in a strange way helped him get rehoused

Go see your Dr and tell him that its making you ill. Then take it to the courts.

If your local council (local govt) is existent and active..report it to the noise pollution department/environmental health too

But before this send a letter to the person and keep a copy. The courts will want to know you did try to sort it out before going the legal route.
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Mar 9, 2015 11:32 AM CST I am angry
RPGs ,infallible Remedy!grin
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