Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much..... ( Archived) (34)

Mar 12, 2015 6:33 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
We all know the feeling...the bank statement arrives and we have a look down through it....when we went on that shopping trip last weekend we had spent a lot more than we thought!crying anyway, i am a firm believer that the modern way of paying for goods with 'cards' instead of having to hand over actual hard cash causes us to spend much more than we realise.......any thoughts on this subject?....
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Mar 12, 2015 6:35 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
OgGoDeo: We all know the feeling...the bank statement arrives and we have a look down through it....when we went on that shopping trip last weekend we had spent a lot more than we thought! anyway, i am a firm believer that the modern way of paying for goods with 'cards' instead of having to hand over actual hard cash causes us to spend much more than we realise.......any thoughts on this subject?....

Yes, especially with contactless card payment and the way it's being advertised, appealing to the necessity of frivolousness.

I have to rush off now, but I could say more.
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Mar 12, 2015 6:50 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Yes, especially with contactless card payment and the way it's being advertised, appealing to the necessity of frivolousness.

I have to rush off now, but I could say more.
....that's exactly it Jac.....those bloomin cards have a way of making spending way too easy.....
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Mar 12, 2015 8:17 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I've never felt the need to have credit cards and have always paid for any purchased items with cash only.

If I didn't have the cash to pay for things then I figured I really need it.
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Mar 12, 2015 8:35 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
OgGoDeo: We all know the feeling...the bank statement arrives and we have a look down through it....when we went on that shopping trip last weekend we had spent a lot more than we thought! anyway, i am a firm believer that the modern way of paying for goods with 'cards' instead of having to hand over actual hard cash causes us to spend much more than we realise.......any thoughts on this subject?....


I have a credit card for work travels, but I do find it handy sometimes otherwise. I know when I spend too much in the one month, I'll just have to take it easy the month after. conversing
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Mar 12, 2015 8:45 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo: We all know the feeling...the bank statement arrives and we have a look down through it....when we went on that shopping trip last weekend we had spent a lot more than we thought! anyway, i am a firm believer that the modern way of paying for goods with 'cards' instead of having to hand over actual hard cash causes us to spend much more than we realise.......any thoughts on this subject?....


comfort I learned the hard way back in 1994 - now I am just a pay as I go kinda gal.

It's always the way, you can pay now little ant or you can pay later, little grasshopper, it's a long a cold winter if you are the grasshopper.

On the other hand, I read on Facebook, a poster that said: you can always make more money, but you might not always be able make the memories later.
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Mar 12, 2015 8:51 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
OgGoDeo: We all know the feeling...the bank statement arrives and we have a look down through it....when we went on that shopping trip last weekend we had spent a lot more than we thought! anyway, i am a firm believer that the modern way of paying for goods with 'cards' instead of having to hand over actual hard cash causes us to spend much more than we realise.......any thoughts on this subject?....


Not really, I'll occasionally(and knowingly)overspend for the sake of doing something, but not for having something.

And there are ways of immunising yourself from the frivolity of the modern day and these are called self-discipline and self-restraint.
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Mar 12, 2015 8:54 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
Obstinance_Works: Not really, I'll occasionally(and knowingly)overspend for the sake of doing something, but not for having something.

And there are ways of immunising yourself from the frivolity of the modern day and these are called self-discipline and self-restraint.


yawn yawn what an exciting life you lead Obst! cheers
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Mar 12, 2015 9:11 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
I probably should have made it a bit clearer....i'm not talking about credit cards as such because i would not touch one of them with a barge pole....what i mean is the ordinary debit cards where the money goes directly out of our ordinary current accounts.......it's just that it seems a little less painfull using one than using real money.....credit cards are a complete disaster for a lot of people who cannot control their use with their huge interest rates etc.....jmo
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Mar 12, 2015 9:16 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
Coranp
CoranpCoranpMayo, Ireland1 Posts
crying No cash.. crying no card.. crying no prob.. crying
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Mar 12, 2015 9:20 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
OgGoDeo: I probably should have made it a bit clearer....i'm not talking about credit cards as such because i would not touch one of them with a barge pole....what i mean is the ordinary debit cards where the money goes directly out of our ordinary current accounts.......it's just that it seems a little less painfull using one than using real money.....credit cards are a complete disaster for a lot of people who cannot control their use with their huge interest rates etc.....jmo




My debit card is set up where it can be used as a credit card too but as I posted before I don't purchase anything if I don't have the cash in hand.
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Mar 12, 2015 9:21 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
Coranp: No cash.. no card.. no prob..
hahahahahaha....you have to be spending something!!!!
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Mar 12, 2015 9:23 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
Ccincy: My debit card is set up where it can be used as a credit card too but as I posted before I don't purchase anything if I don't have the cash in hand.
...ah, i understand ccincy....i suppose there are so many different types of cards available...handshake
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Mar 12, 2015 9:35 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
OgGoDeo: I probably should have made it a bit clearer....i'm not talking about credit cards as such because i would not touch one of them with a barge pole....what i mean is the ordinary debit cards where the money goes directly out of our ordinary current accounts.......it's just that it seems a little less painfull using one than using real money.....credit cards are a complete disaster for a lot of people who cannot control their use with their huge interest rates etc.....jmo


People have to learn to budget - it's a difference between treating yourself from time to time (or if there is a lot of month left at the end of money), but if it's something constant, people have to cop themselves on. dunno
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Mar 12, 2015 9:43 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
OgGoDeo: I probably should have made it a bit clearer....i'm not talking about credit cards as such because i would not touch one of them with a barge pole....what i mean is the ordinary debit cards where the money goes directly out of our ordinary current accounts.......it's just that it seems a little less painfull using one than using real money.....credit cards are a complete disaster for a lot of people who cannot control their use with their huge interest rates etc.....jmo


Me, I use a credit card, but pay it off when the bill comes in. Great way to not carry cash around in case of a robbery. And yes, if I spend a lot one month, I take a break the following month.

A debit card works if you have money in the bank, so one cannot overspend, unless you go over your normal budget. Of course the same applies: spend too much now, cool off next month.

The good think about either of these spending methods is that you can take advantage of some great bargains without having to run to the bank to get real cash.handshake
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Mar 12, 2015 9:49 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
OgGoDeo: We all know the feeling...the bank statement arrives and we have a look down through it....when we went on that shopping trip last weekend we had spent a lot more than we thought! anyway, i am a firm believer that the modern way of paying for goods with 'cards' instead of having to hand over actual hard cash causes us to spend much more than we realise.......any thoughts on this subject?....


Loads a money here, so no worriesgrin


laugh
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Mar 12, 2015 10:08 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
uptall: Loads a money here, so no worries
...hope all the scammers don't read this.rolling on the floor laughing only jokin!handshake
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Mar 12, 2015 10:27 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
OgGoDeo: ...hope all the scammers don't read this. only jokin!



Well I'm looking for a live in maid if they want a joblaugh

wave
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Mar 12, 2015 10:29 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Uptall.
Do you pay in kind?
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Mar 12, 2015 10:31 AM CST Ooops! I cannot believe i spent that much.....
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Uptall.
Do you pay in kind?



Yeah, I can be very very kindgrin

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