what truly turns you on? ( Archived) (1,001)

Mar 25, 2015 1:21 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Cocheta: Communication
Trust
Respect
Humour
Sex

Integrity defines who we are, not our looks, self importance, possessions or where we come from.

The above is what make me feel safe in a relationship. Feeling safe turns me to putty in his hands and he can do magic with me


My first time to see you on my write Cocheta, welcome. handshake

Outstanding preferences are points.

I do love the integrity. Honesty is one big point for me.

Thanks for joining in.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:23 PM CST what truly turns you on?
skippyguy: Not so easy to express in a few words,

Intelligence, Humour, ability to share likenesses , a good heart
Looks great in a dress
and is willing to share their chocolate
p.s in any order :)


Very reasonable except for the chocolate.

Lol
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Mar 25, 2015 1:25 PM CST what truly turns you on?
allthegoodnamest: Initial attraction .
Compatible......
Intelligent......
Well mannered.
Family orientated.
Sexy...............
Supportive...
Understanding.

Apart from that I'm not really fussed.


All, a very doable and I might add, popular order. Supportive, I love that.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:28 PM CST what truly turns you on?
lindsyjones: What are the things you are looking for in your mate?

I know it's not easy to find all the best qualities in one package, so can you please put them in order of importance?


For me. In order?

No drugs. Absolutely no smoking. Respectful, caring, understanding, value togetherness as much as silence with compassion.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:28 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 6,786 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Obs.
I can relate to that... I had a three year relationship with a girl in her thirties two years back and we parted because she wanted children and I didn't... A few months down the line she became pregnant and is now in a loveless marriage... We remain good friends and she still claims to love me.


It definitely happens. I'm making a truthful but insincere insight. I really don't seek out women on the back foot, and men that do don't say that they are. If a mid-30s woman said to me she's desperate and worrying about last the few eggs left in the chamber, then the last she'd see of me is the shimmering air which vaguely traces the outline of where I once stood.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:29 PM CST what truly turns you on?
lindsyjones: For me. In order?

No drugs. Absolutely no smoking. Respectful, caring, understanding, value togetherness as much as silence with compassion.



Bonus would be, humility is equally important and generosity.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:30 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 6,786 Posts
lindsyjones: My dear dear Obs, I didn't realize there's a big twist up there where your brilliant mind resides.

Or for lack of a better word, you're so incapable of a deep feel for passion?

Can you park your head for a while please?

Love your eccentric ways just the same Obs, and I'm lucky to be your friend.


You laughed, Lindsy. That's the take home message. Don't take too much else at face value.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:32 PM CST what truly turns you on?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK47 Threads 6,674 Posts
Lindsy .
They are more my attributes... I don't see why I can't get the same in return.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:38 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works: It definitely happens. I'm making a truthful but insincere insight. I really don't seek out women on the back foot, and men that do don't say that they are. If a mid-30s woman said to me she's desperate and worrying about last the few eggs left in the chamber, then the last she'd see of me is the shimmering air which vaguely traces the outline of where I once stood.


Obs, with your looks and brain you'd have no problem staking your demands. I mean there'd be a long line for anyone to compete on your heart.

However, I'm sure you have your own agenda as to who's capabilities you'd hit first. I'm sure you're one great catch to those aspirants. May you be blessed Obs. wine
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Mar 25, 2015 1:42 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works: You laughed, Lindsy. That's the take home message. Don't take too much else at face value.


Yes Obs,you noticed that, you're observant mind is a plus. I told you work yourself to the top echelon of global politicians, will you?

I hardly use emotions. You gave me a blast.

I would have loved you to date any of my daughter's but none is available.

You're one I admire most on here Obs.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:44 PM CST what truly turns you on?
allthegoodnamest: Lindsy .
They are more my attributes... I don't see why I can't get the same in return.


On the contrary, you might get more than you have in mind that is plus to the relationship, All.

My respects.
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Mar 25, 2015 1:57 PM CST what truly turns you on?
unlaoised: What turns me on? A sexy man


Unlaouised, been a long time since I saw your grace on my writes.

Thanks for joining in.

Sexy it is. That's one of my criteria, of course. The ability to enjoy our body as gifted and be healthy. Also my priority.

Thanks again and good luck.
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Mar 25, 2015 2:20 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 6,786 Posts
lindsyjones: Yes Obs,you noticed that, you're observant mind is a plus. I told you work yourself to the top echelon of global politicians, will you?

I hardly use emotions. You gave me a blast.

I would have loved you to date any of my daughter's but none is available.

You're one I admire most on here Obs.


I have no ill-feeling towards you, Lindsy. None at all. Amazing when you consider how uptight I am.

And I'm in serious need of some PR work if I was to ever get into politics. My campaign slogans so far would be:

'Come on Baby Boomers prepare your arse cheeks for a pounding'

&

'You thought David Cameron was a c*nt? Watch this!'

I don't think I'd garner many votes. No, people would first need to realise that Democracy is all well and good, but it is weak and it is decadent and the nation needs a strong leader. The Fatherland needs the Father.
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Mar 25, 2015 2:27 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 6,786 Posts
Back to the subject of the thread. What really turns me on in a woman is that winning combination of beauty and low self-esteem.
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Mar 25, 2015 2:30 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Johannesburg South Africa1 Threads 2,509 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Back to the subject of the thread. What really turns me on in a woman is that winning combination of beauty and low self-esteem.


You never cease to make me laugh laugh
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Mar 25, 2015 2:38 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works: I have no ill-feeling towards you, Lindsy. None at all. Amazing when you consider how uptight I am.

And I'm in serious need of some PR work if I was to ever get into politics. My campaign slogans so far would be:

'Come on Baby Boomers prepare your arse cheeks for a pounding'

&

'You thought David Cameron was a c*nt? Watch this!'

I don't think I'd garner many votes. No, people would first need to realise that Democracy is all well and good, but it is weak and it is decadent and the nation needs a strong leader. The Fatherland needs the Father.


Radical approach to a world so highly conditioned to unprincipled and as you said decadent and disdainful system might shake the trust of the skeptical majority, might not be effective. But to the millenials and current population of ME ME ME, generation might work.

I would like to see how it will shape the future of this world.

Meantime don't underestimate how truly pathetic some leadership are today.
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Mar 25, 2015 2:41 PM CST what truly turns you on?
Obstinance_Works: Back to the subject of the thread. What really turns me on in a woman is that winning combination of beauty and low self-esteem.


Low self esteem, you'll feel empowered by constantly letting her coil to a mediocre stance?

You're so funny Obs, get all the broken ones abdominal line them up will you?

How about the rejects oh HH?
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Mar 25, 2015 2:42 PM CST what truly turns you on?
lindsyjones: Low self esteem, you'll feel empowered by constantly letting her coil to a mediocre stance?

You're so funny Obs, get all the broken ones abdominal line them up will you?

How about the rejects oh HH?


Typo Obs, abdominal? ??? Shouldn't be there. rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 25, 2015 2:46 PM CST what truly turns you on?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK47 Threads 6,674 Posts
OBS.
Always thought of you as the kind that would relish the challenge of the chase but be careful what you wish for. Once you build their self esteem up again they will f*ck you up.
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Mar 25, 2015 2:57 PM CST what truly turns you on?
hoolet
hoolethooletDenia, Valenciana Spain54 Threads 2 Polls 13,800 Posts
In response to: What are the things you are looking for in your mate?

I know it's not easy to find all the best qualities in one package, so can you please put them in order of importance?



a man who knows how to make love
a man who makes you FEEL love
a man who takes you for him
a man who melts every limb
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