how is your experience on here so far? ( Archived) (105)

1. Yes. I found her here on CS.

2. Fantastic. the best and most real love I have experienced from a woman. We met on here, wrote a few emails, etc. I found that every time I spoke with her, there was something more amazing each time. We spoke even of the mundane, and it was anything but. Eventually, I began to phone her, and we spoke every night. Then I planned a trip to China to meet her. Despite my caution, things went really well. They actually went better than well. And so started the journey towards marriage.

We ended up marrying last March and we have been happy together ever since. Our love is a frequency - we have our moments, but never the type that lead to separation. We laugh a lot, we love a lot, we share a lot.

I found that language was not a barrier to love, attitude was the greatest barrier I discovered in past relationships. But this relationship gets better and better every day.

It must be real love, because I even miss her nagging me while she has returned home to take care of family business. Her mum is in hospital.

But she is returning in a couple of weeks, and I am so excited.

Should anything happen with my (now) wife, would I do it all again? That is a tough one. I think that there would never be another love like this love again. There may be another love, but it would probably be different. This woman has such a large chunck of my heart and soul. It would be unfair to give another only what is left, and that isn't very much at the moment.

But I just don't know if I could do it all again. I believe that another person deserves the best of me, not just the rest of me.

How about you?

.....just great.....been here since 1951........waiting......

I'm here but it hasn't worked out. I'm a nice person and an honest person. I answer all messages that come to me even if it's say not interested. Unfortunately, women on here do seem to care if they answer an message or not. It doesn't take but a couple of seconds to be kind.