How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting? (93)

Apr 5, 2015 4:05 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Do you like to meet in RL life as soon as possible.

Or do you email for a long time and get to know them that way?

Or do you talk or phone/Skype?

Or..or..


Which is your preference?
Apr 5, 2015 4:07 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
In response to: Do you like to meet in RL life as soon as possible.

Or do you email for a long time and get to know them that way?

Or do you talk or phone/Skype?

Or..or..Which is your preference?
A clairvoyant conversing
Apr 5, 2015 4:07 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
a clairvoyant
Apr 5, 2015 4:09 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: a clairvoyant



dunno
Apr 5, 2015 4:10 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
to talk to them before we meet
Apr 5, 2015 4:12 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: to talk to them before we meet



A short time after first communication, or later?
Apr 5, 2015 4:12 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
mollybaby: Do you like to meet in RL life as soon as possible.


Kinda yes..As soon as poss.


mollybaby: Or do you email for a long time and get to know them that way?

Or do you talk or phone/Skype?

Or..or..Which is your preference?


A few PM's/emails... then skype (it's free) and say 'Hi', after a while the odd cam... Then link up, with out giving personal contact details.. and if it doesn't look to be going anywhre...... Zapp them from skype contact.
Apr 5, 2015 4:14 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
mollybaby: A short time after first communication, or later?



Trust your spidey sense.... After a few few comms.. why not. It's only a coffee. In a neutral place of course....
Apr 5, 2015 4:14 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Phoenix: Kinda yes..As soon as poss.

A few PM's/emails... then skype (it's free) and say 'Hi', after a while the odd cam... Then link up, with out giving personal contact details.. and if it doesn't look to be going anywhre...... Zapp them from skype contact.



That sounds reasonable enough
Apr 5, 2015 4:15 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
I like to have some form of connection before I'd even think of meeting up - humour, easy conversation etc... I guess on here, then to text/phone, then to casual coffee would be my order of the day.

If I did meet up with someone, I'd like to spend as casual and normal a day as possible, so that each are comfortable and nothing is contrived - it's easier to get feel for (or off!) a person that way...
Apr 5, 2015 4:18 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
However, to cite an example - I was on another site some time back - got 413 visits to my page and lots of winks over a few weeks - and not one person said anything more than "you look nice". No one asked to meet, and those that did try and email bored me to tears with hi, how are you today, lol

So it must be me, then. dunno
Apr 5, 2015 4:19 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
Keeneye101
Keeneye101Keeneye101cork, Cork Ireland6 Threads 1 Polls 72 Posts
mollybaby: Do you like to meet in RL life as soon as possible.

Or do you email for a long time and get to know them that way?

Or do you talk or phone/Skype?

Or..or..Which is your preference?


i like to talk once i know there some chemistry like to meet them
if you spend long time talking i find it goes no were end up going no were they stop talk
Apr 5, 2015 4:19 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
henonpause: I like to have some form of connection before I'd even think of meeting up - humour, easy conversation etc... I guess on here, then to text/phone, then to casual coffee would be my order of the day.

If I did meet up with someone, I'd like to spend as casual and normal a day as possible, so that each are comfortable and nothing is contrived - it's easier to get feel for (or off!) a person that way...


thumbs up Same here
Apr 5, 2015 4:20 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
henonpause: I like to have some form of connection before I'd even think of meeting up - humour, easy conversation etc... I guess on here, then to text/phone, then to casual coffee would be my order of the day.

If I did meet up with someone, I'd like to spend as casual and normal a day as possible, so that each are comfortable and nothing is contrived - it's easier to get feel for (or off!) a person that way...


Stop right there... What is this 'connection' thingy women come up with....
Apr 5, 2015 4:23 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
henonpause: However, to cite an example - I was on another site some time back - got 413 visits to my page and lots of winks over a few weeks - and not one person said anything more than "you look nice". No one asked to meet, and those that did try and email bored me to tears with hi, how are you today, lol

So it must be me, then.


On here, a local fella sent me two emails

1. Hi

2. Will we meet


Yeah right roll eyes
Apr 5, 2015 4:24 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Phoenix: Stop right there... What is this 'connection' thingy women come up with....
build up a rapport
Apr 5, 2015 4:24 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Keeneye101: i like to talk once i know there some chemistry like to meet them
if you spend long time talking i find it goes no were end up going no were they stop talk


So email, some tslking, then early meet?
Apr 5, 2015 4:26 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
mollybaby: On here, a local fella sent me two emails

1. Hi

2. Will we meetYeah right


He (who ever he is) sounds like he drinks too much tap water and is dumbed down..
Apr 5, 2015 4:30 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Phoenix: He (who ever he is) sounds like he drinks too much tap water and is dumbed down..



Maybe that works on some people? dunno


Not on me
Apr 5, 2015 4:32 PM CST How Long Do You Like To Communicate With Somebody Before Meeting?
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
Phoenix: Stop right there... What is this 'connection' thingy women come up with....


I'll solve that for you in one sentence, P...

Would you meet Snowy if he was a woman?

grin
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