I met him here, he seemed as a normal person. Then he started with his "white" lies and real lies. But, at same time texting me what he is doing, where he is at.....bringing me on that way in some sort of "relationship"! I didnt like his behavior when we met first time, he seamed bit "off" to me and having so many girlfriends that he was talking with either by messages or FB, or skype. And I wanted to pull myself out of that,few times, he brought me back every time! and all in circle......completely wired!! I have started feeling that we are in relationship, but at same time I didnt like his way of behavior and how he treats me. I am not his mom to know all his movements! then he started not to respond on messages....if I said something he was blaming me, threatening that I am not going to see him ever again. Today, finally I broke that! With a simple message: I am so over you - you do not deserve me! He blocked me right away on FB, on phone....... and I am just thinking: "how silly you are, I dont want you to contact me!" His explanation was: I was always looking for something to argue with him?! Arguing? - it was more saying what I dont like. Shouldnt we be saying that too? isnt that part of a healthy communication and relationship or I am wrong?
Lannna23: I met him here, he seemed as a normal person. Then he started with his "white" lies and real lies. But, at same time texting me what he is doing, where he is at.....bringing me on that way in some sort of "relationship"! I didnt like his behavior when we met first time, he seamed bit "off" to me and having so many girlfriends that he was talking with either by messages or FB, or skype. And I wanted to pull myself out of that,few times, he brought me back every time! and all in circle......completely wired!! I have started feeling that we are in relationship, but at same time I didnt like his way of behavior and how he treats me. I am not his mom to know all his movements! then he started not to respond on messages....if I said something he was blaming me, threatening that I am not going to see him ever again. Today, finally I broke that! With a simple message: I am so over you - you do not deserve me! He blocked me right away on FB, on phone....... and I am just thinking: "how silly you are, I dont want you to contact me!" His explanation was: I was always looking for something to argue with him?! Arguing? - it was more saying what I dont like. Shouldnt we be saying that too? isnt that part of a healthy communication and relationship or I am wrong?
Should have trusted your first instincts and run the moment he seemed a bit off. Don't blame yourself, count your blessings and move on with a smile
almera03: Should have trusted your first instincts and run the moment he seemed a bit off. Don't blame yourself, count your blessings and move on with a smile
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Lannna23: I met him here, he seemed as a normal person. Then he started with his "white" lies and real lies. But, at same time texting me what he is doing, where he is at.....bringing me on that way in some sort of "relationship"! I didnt like his behavior when we met first time, he seamed bit "off" to me and having so many girlfriends that he was talking with either by messages or FB, or skype. And I wanted to pull myself out of that,few times, he brought me back every time! and all in circle......completely wired!! I have started feeling that we are in relationship, but at same time I didnt like his way of behavior and how he treats me. I am not his mom to know all his movements! then he started not to respond on messages....if I said something he was blaming me, threatening that I am not going to see him ever again. Today, finally I broke that! With a simple message: I am so over you - you do not deserve me! He blocked me right away on FB, on phone....... and I am just thinking: "how silly you are, I dont want you to contact me!" His explanation was: I was always looking for something to argue with him?! Arguing? - it was more saying what I dont like. Shouldnt we be saying that too? isnt that part of a healthy communication and relationship or I am wrong?
hi to you Lannna23, your experience is not different from so many, in fact it's a milder one compared to others i read from other sources about dating sites, you should take a glance at youtube and try to go over some postings there, it will help you to assimilate something about it in the future. I know how degrading to be in your place, playing games the next time? well it seems boys and girls are already in the backyard before you, your story will make you a litle "used to it" the next time, be careful though,,
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
almera03: Should have trusted your first instincts and run the moment he seemed a bit off. Don't blame yourself, count your blessings and move on with a smile
Nice expression of symphaty, i think one day we all end up good runners here.:
Lolette: hi to you Lannna23, your experience is not different from so many, in fact it's a milder one compared to others i read from other sources about dating sites, you should take a glance at youtube and try to go over some postings there, it will help you to assimilate something about it in the future. I know how degrading to be in your place, playing games the next time? well it seems boys and girls are already in the backyard before you, your story will make you a litle "used to it" the next time, be careful though,,
Lannna23: I met him here, he seemed as a normal person. Then he started with his "white" lies and real lies. But, at same time texting me what he is doing, where he is at.....bringing me on that way in some sort of "relationship"! I didnt like his behavior when we met first time, he seamed bit "off" to me and having so many girlfriends that he was talking with either by messages or FB, or skype. And I wanted to pull myself out of that,few times, he brought me back every time! and all in circle......completely wired!! I have started feeling that we are in relationship, but at same time I didnt like his way of behavior and how he treats me. I am not his mom to know all his movements! then he started not to respond on messages....if I said something he was blaming me, threatening that I am not going to see him ever again. Today, finally I broke that! With a simple message: I am so over you - you do not deserve me! He blocked me right away on FB, on phone....... and I am just thinking: "how silly you are, I dont want you to contact me!" His explanation was: I was always looking for something to argue with him?! Arguing? - it was more saying what I dont like. Shouldnt we be saying that too? isnt that part of a healthy communication and relationship or I am wrong?
But if you broke up with him saying you were over him, how would you know he blocked you, especially on the phone? Why were you even calling him? Sounds like you were playing games rather than sticking to your guns.
Lannna23: he will be forgotten soon! But it is a little frustrating when everyone is complaining about lairs, looking for honesty.....and I approach him with open heart and honestly bummer!!! That mean next time I should be playing a game?!
That's what most women do, from my experience, and why I stay away from most women. In most cases, I'm sure some man will pay for the supposed transgressions of others...in spades.
Liebe2: But if you broke up with him saying you were over him, how would you know he blocked you, especially on the phone? Why were you even calling him? Sounds like you were playing games rather than sticking to your guns.
All too many women play games without even realising it, and continue to do so for their entire lives.
kidatheart: That's what most women do, from my experience, and why I stay away from most women. In most cases, I'm sure some man will pay for the supposed transgressions of others...in spades. All too many women play games without even realising it, and continue to do so for their entire lives.
Hello, been a while, hope you're well.
Hey kiddo! Alive and kicking, so I guess you can say it's all good. How have you been?
Liebe2: But if you broke up with him saying you were over him, how would you know he blocked you, especially on the phone? Why were you even calling him? Sounds like you were playing games rather than sticking to your guns.
what others do is not your business and they(including me ) dont need your Suggestions , People have thier own lives and they have brain to spend thier lives ,let them move on thier way ,you dont have any right to monitor them .Stop your Nosey behaviour ,
Liebe2: But if you broke up with him saying you were over him, how would you know he blocked you, especially on the phone? Why were you even calling him? Sounds like you were playing games rather than sticking to your guns.
No I did not call him, indead I deletaed his phone number But knowing him it is my assumptatuon
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Then he started with his "white" lies and real lies. But, at same time texting me what he is doing, where he is at.....bringing me on that way in some sort of "relationship"!
I didnt like his behavior when we met first time, he seamed bit "off" to me and having so many girlfriends that he was talking with either by messages or FB, or skype. And I wanted to pull myself out of that,few times, he brought me back every time! and all in circle......completely wired!! I have started feeling that we are in relationship, but at same time I didnt like his way of behavior and how he treats me. I am not his mom to know all his movements!
then he started not to respond on messages....if I said something he was blaming me, threatening that I am not going to see him ever again.
Today, finally I broke that! With a simple message: I am so over you - you do not deserve me!
He blocked me right away on FB, on phone....... and I am just thinking: "how silly you are, I dont want you to contact me!"
His explanation was: I was always looking for something to argue with him?!
Arguing? - it was more saying what I dont like. Shouldnt we be saying that too? isnt that part of a healthy communication and relationship or I am wrong?