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What's the diffrence between a guy who wants to take his time to meet (or at least he respects your feelings and will not try to pressure you) and a guy who just can't wait to meet (Mr. pressure)?

Good Question!

Maybe the one who wants to take time just wants to get to know you better, it's so much easier talking to someone over email and IM at first! I think you form a closer bond faster that way because we tend to be less inhibited when the person cannot see us, only our words.......

Wanting to meet ASAP...Maybe that person is just eager to know what the outcome is going to be for that person so they can go ahead and jump right in or walk away to the next meeting!

There is my two cents worth...... AprilAnne

Very good explanation Aprilanne.....makes alot of sense.

Taking time is better. I heard people say they needed time. I can understand that now that I need time. I want to be able to have a good profile but be able to mean what I have there. A lot of people know what they want better than I do. I was Mr. Pressure and I couldn't take the pressure, lol. :)

hey apilanne maybe we should chat pretty lady.

well in my opinion only! and from learning from mistakes,i would say the difference is a positive sign that can save you a lot of wasted time! prospect mr-patient=respectful,thoughtful,understanding,careing,INTERESTED,possibly worth getting to know!-----prospect mr-push push=thoughtless,disrespectful,self centered,see things 1 way,me me me,wah wah,obviously-hes the one you already got to NO!thanx pal!---but thats just my opinion!4 what its worth!?

Coming from someone who feels like the Mr. Patient type I can say that the girls I have dated have vocalized their gratefullness for my respect, kindness, and (obviously) patience with both the beginning of our relationships and things in the middle and at the end. However, to me the patient way of life seems to be worthless to them in the long run and they seem to go for the jumpy ones. Anyway, in the end it seems to come to there not actually being a difference because the women simply disregard everything anyway. Maybe it's just me and my experiences, but that's the way each of my relationships have gone.
Oh, and on top of that most of the women I meet online just don't want to wait around and get to know someone....

I'm with you andrew.people seem to talk to you in e-mail or on im a couple times,next thing you know they are declaring their undying love and you havent even met.what gives? I want to get to know someone ,become friends thru phone calls and dating before I start seeing skyrockets.