thats true.....I would,nt date any woman on here....going out on a date....dance/dinner . and having to carry her zimmer frame.....is not my idea..of having a good time......
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
truheart1941: thats true.....I would,nt date any woman on here....going out on a date....dance/dinner . and having to carry her zimmer frame.....is not my idea..of having a good time......
Mature relationship you are not selfish and you are not going to always expect to get your own way and you are willing to compromise.Have trust,respect and appreciate each other.
Immature relationship you are not willing to go the distance to make things work.
Many relationships can seem to be mature until they start going wrong. That's when you see the immaturity appear. The arguing, mud slinging, name calling.
Have never had a relationship end such a way. It serves no purpose
almera03: Many relationships can seem to be mature until they start going wrong. That's when you see the immaturity appear. The arguing, mud slinging, name calling.
Have never had a relationship end such a way. It serves no purpose
Pride, anger and vindictiveness are Terrible beasts.
One relationship dies from too much emotion and other dies from a lack thereof.
It's not that wise to be so mature because nobody left alive today is that mature. It's similar as saying it's not wise to be so rational because people are non-rational. To be too mature or too rational is unwise because to do so is to live against the reality of things as they are.
The wisest relationship(or most socially savvy relationship)is the rounded relationship. One where you're a proper grown up some of the time, a child at other times, and you keep the relationship stable and intact without it growing stagnant and stale.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Because of their very nature some love relationships have childlike aspects, The very seat of loving is embedded deep in our souls, it's how we handle these emotions which determines whether they are childlike or childish
In response to: http://www.the-open-mind.com/the-difference-between-a-mature-relationship-and-an-immature-relationship/
As far as I'm concerned, the difference lies totally in winning and losing game .Immature people always want to win an argument, even at the cost of a relationship. Mature people understand that it`s always better to lose an argument and win a relationship. That's all .
Relationships don't ask questions, people do. Asking questions (How are you feeling right now?) is one way of communicating. Shunning questions with the idea that a 'mature relationship answers them' may inhibit communication and isolate two people from each other.
If people have questions and insecurities maybe it's productive to voice them and explore them, rather than repress them.
Why age? With regards to maturity I'm not sure age is particularly important, I have employed 20 year olds that have acted and behaved far more maturely than 40+ Engineers. The same goes with relationships, I have known 20 somethings (especially here in China) who are much more mature than 30-40 year olds.
Maturity comes from experience and attitude not age IMO
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