The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship ( Archived) (21)

May 1, 2015 10:58 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
May 1, 2015 11:00 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Michael .
AGE!
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May 1, 2015 11:09 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest: Michael .
AGE!
thats true.....I would,nt date any woman on here....going out on a date....dance/dinner . and having to carry her zimmer frame.....is not my idea..of having a good time......snooty snooty snooty giggle giggle giggle
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May 1, 2015 11:11 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
truheart1941: thats true.....I would,nt date any woman on here....going out on a date....dance/dinner . and having to carry her zimmer frame.....is not my idea..of having a good time......


You could always share Zimmerframeshug
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May 1, 2015 11:11 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Michael .
AGE!


thumbs down I have dated women older/younger/ the same age as me. Age (chronologically)has little to do with it.
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May 1, 2015 11:12 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
tomcatwarne: You could always share Zimmerframes
hi tom . are you still here in britain.......???????
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May 1, 2015 11:18 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Truheart.
Maybe you should try dating women younger than you , maybe in their eighties or nineties !!
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May 1, 2015 11:20 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest: Truheart.
Maybe you should try dating women younger than you , maybe in their eighties or nineties !!
...sage/onion to you....rolling on the floor laughing tongue laugh
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May 1, 2015 11:24 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Truheart.

Just be suspicious when I'm nice to you mate! Lol
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May 1, 2015 11:34 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest: Truheart.

Just be suspicious when I'm nice to you mate! Lol
ok....till the day you ask me....*.have you any vasaline in stock*....LOL.
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May 1, 2015 11:38 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Truheart.

I told you ... Private messages should remain private!!!!!
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May 1, 2015 11:39 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Mature relationship you are not selfish and you are not going to always expect to get your own way and you are willing to compromise.Have trust,respect and appreciate each other.



Immature relationship you are not willing to go the distance to make things work.


It's more about "I" instead of "WE"
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May 1, 2015 11:45 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
If two people are immature they can not have mature relationship no matter their age...and vice versa...simple wine
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May 1, 2015 11:51 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Many relationships can seem to be mature until they start going wrong. That's when you see the immaturity appear. The arguing, mud slinging, name calling.

Have never had a relationship end such a way. It serves no purpose
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May 1, 2015 11:56 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
almera03: Many relationships can seem to be mature until they start going wrong. That's when you see the immaturity appear. The arguing, mud slinging, name calling.

Have never had a relationship end such a way. It serves no purpose


Pride, anger and vindictiveness are Terrible beasts.
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May 1, 2015 11:57 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
michael63ca: http://www.the-open-mind.com/the-difference-between-a-mature-relationship-and-an-immature-relationship/


One relationship dies from too much emotion and other dies from a lack thereof.

It's not that wise to be so mature because nobody left alive today is that mature. It's similar as saying it's not wise to be so rational because people are non-rational. To be too mature or too rational is unwise because to do so is to live against the reality of things as they are.

The wisest relationship(or most socially savvy relationship)is the rounded relationship. One where you're a proper grown up some of the time, a child at other times, and you keep the relationship stable and intact without it growing stagnant and stale.
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May 1, 2015 12:05 PM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Because of their very nature some love relationships have childlike aspects,
The very seat of loving is embedded deep in our souls, it's how we handle these emotions which determines whether they are childlike or childishprofessor
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May 14, 2015 2:16 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
emotioninmotion
emotioninmotionemotioninmotionAl-Salymiya, Hawalli Kuwait5 Posts
In response to: http://www.the-open-mind.com/the-difference-between-a-mature-relationship-and-an-immature-relationship/


As far as I'm concerned, the difference lies totally in winning and losing game .Immature people always want to win an argument, even at the cost of a relationship. Mature people understand that it`s always better to lose an argument and win a relationship. That's all .
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May 14, 2015 3:06 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Is it mature to try and tell people how their relationships should be, rather than let people decide and work it out for themselves?

"Immature relationships ask questions; mature relationships answer them"

Relationships don't ask questions, people do. Asking questions (How are you feeling right now?) is one way of communicating. Shunning questions with the idea that a 'mature relationship answers them' may inhibit communication and isolate two people from each other.

If people have questions and insecurities maybe it's productive to voice them and explore them, rather than repress them.
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May 14, 2015 6:32 AM CST The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship
rizlared
rizlaredrizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Michael .
AGE!


Why age? With regards to maturity I'm not sure age is particularly important, I have employed 20 year olds that have acted and behaved far more maturely than 40+ Engineers.
The same goes with relationships, I have known 20 somethings (especially here in China) who are much more mature than 30-40 year olds.

Maturity comes from experience and attitude not age IMO
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