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Jun 7, 2015 4:35 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Through boredom , I decided to email certain women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world to see what response I would get.. Of the five I mailed, 4 never responded & 1 said she was sorry but I wasn't her type... Can anyone put light on the reasons why... I was very polite & humorous in my emails?
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Jun 7, 2015 4:52 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
I've spoken to other guys about this & they all had similar opinions..
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Jun 7, 2015 4:53 AM CST Real world
same thing happened with me, but the magnitude was higher and one women replied you.. but to me not even one replied
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Jun 7, 2015 4:55 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Truheart.

Sometimes you wonder why such beautiful girls are single!!!
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Jun 7, 2015 4:58 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Skkapoor.

I wouldn't worry about it too much.. Your not a bad looking guy.
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Jun 7, 2015 4:58 AM CST Real world
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Truheart.

Sometimes you wonder why such beautiful girls are single!!!


A lot of women on here don't want to form relationships, they are just killing time while having kids.
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Jun 7, 2015 5:05 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Warnee.

Or maybe they are too content in there life & don't want to upset the applecart!!! Or they need an ego boost every now & again!!
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Jun 7, 2015 5:13 AM CST Real world
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
They would probably thought you were a scammer! laugh laugh laugh

Coz in real life, guys like you wouldn't have given them a second look! grin
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Jun 7, 2015 5:16 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Dreamcatcher.
You know me.. What could I possibly scam off them??
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Jun 7, 2015 5:27 AM CST Real world
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Dreamcatcher.
You know me.. What could I possibly scam off them??


It happened to me too, if a good-looking guy writes to me, more often than not, I'd just had him blocked coz I would be thinking why would such guy be interested in me if they are not a scammer ....

Unless, I know them personally through the blogs, forums, etc...
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Jun 7, 2015 5:32 AM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Interesting!!!!! I'll just to email the fit ones next time & leave the "mingers" to Truheart! Lol
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Jun 7, 2015 5:36 AM CST Real world
i think distance is the problem......knowing dream catcer....if i were nearer...she would be in my kitchen making cakes...after having her wicked way with me all night.....the dirty little hussey.....giggle giggle laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 7, 2015 12:02 PM CST Real world
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Through boredom , I decided to email certain women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world to see what response I would get.. Of the five I mailed, 4 never responded & 1 said she was sorry but I wasn't her type... Can anyone put light on the reasons why... I was very polite & humorous in my emails?


Maybe if they were interested they would have emailed you?

What do you do if someone doesn't interest you? Don't reply or tell her sorry but she isn't her type?

Just because someone doesn't make your cut doesn't mean she has to be any different to a woman that would do.
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Jun 7, 2015 12:18 PM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
KN.
I try to respond to all my emails out of politeness but how do you know if they are your type if you don't have a conversation with that person?
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Jun 7, 2015 12:34 PM CST Real world
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Through boredom , I decided to email certain women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world to see what response I would get.. Of the five I mailed, 4 never responded & 1 said she was sorry but I wasn't her type... Can anyone put light on the reasons why... I was very polite & humorous in my emails?


In essence, you had no serious intentions on pursuing these women other than to email them for experimental purposes out of boredom? confused What would you have said if one or more of them responded in a positive manner? Sorry, I was bored and it was an experiment? doh
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Jun 7, 2015 12:43 PM CST Real world
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
allthegoodnamest: KN.
I try to respond to all my emails out of politeness but how do you know if they are your type if you don't have a conversation with that person?


There were plenty of guys who emailed me and when I read what they put into their profile or their (non-existent) profile text, I often knew that I had nothing in common with them (spelling of a 5 year old, laid back, don't take things serious, looking for intimate encounter, short-term or dating). Why would I answer them as they should have know that I'm not interested if they actually read my profile text?

I stopped replying in most cases as a friendly "no thanks and best of luck to you" caused abusive texts and discussions.

Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean they have to be grateful for every email they're getting and respond - would it have been any different if someone you class as good looking didn't reply?
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Jun 7, 2015 12:47 PM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
2intregued.

Because people think I'm shallow & only go for looks.. I can assure you that is not the case & to me personality always overpowers looks.
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Jun 7, 2015 12:52 PM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
KN.
Not everyone is as polite as you!
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Jun 7, 2015 12:55 PM CST Real world
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
allthegoodnamest: 2intregued.

Because people think I'm shallow & only go for looks.. I can assure you that is not the case & to me personality always overpowers looks.


This contradicts what you stated in your OP though. conversing
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Jun 7, 2015 1:02 PM CST Real world
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
2intregued.
In what way?? Sometimes you can be attracted to their personality and in other instances they are beautiful looking but their personality is off putting . Does that make sence?
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