allthegoodnamestOPLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
Through boredom , I decided to email certain women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world to see what response I would get.. Of the five I mailed, 4 never responded & 1 said she was sorry but I wasn't her type... Can anyone put light on the reasons why... I was very polite & humorous in my emails?
allthegoodnamest: Dreamcatcher. You know me.. What could I possibly scam off them??
It happened to me too, if a good-looking guy writes to me, more often than not, I'd just had him blocked coz I would be thinking why would such guy be interested in me if they are not a scammer ....
Unless, I know them personally through the blogs, forums, etc...
i think distance is the problem......knowing dream catcer....if i were nearer...she would be in my kitchen making cakes...after having her wicked way with me all night.....the dirty little hussey.....
allthegoodnamest: Through boredom , I decided to email certain women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world to see what response I would get.. Of the five I mailed, 4 never responded & 1 said she was sorry but I wasn't her type... Can anyone put light on the reasons why... I was very polite & humorous in my emails?
Maybe if they were interested they would have emailed you?
What do you do if someone doesn't interest you? Don't reply or tell her sorry but she isn't her type?
Just because someone doesn't make your cut doesn't mean she has to be any different to a woman that would do.
allthegoodnamest: Through boredom , I decided to email certain women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world to see what response I would get.. Of the five I mailed, 4 never responded & 1 said she was sorry but I wasn't her type... Can anyone put light on the reasons why... I was very polite & humorous in my emails?
In essence, you had no serious intentions on pursuing these women other than to email them for experimental purposes out of boredom? What would you have said if one or more of them responded in a positive manner? Sorry, I was bored and it was an experiment?
allthegoodnamest: KN. I try to respond to all my emails out of politeness but how do you know if they are your type if you don't have a conversation with that person?
There were plenty of guys who emailed me and when I read what they put into their profile or their (non-existent) profile text, I often knew that I had nothing in common with them (spelling of a 5 year old, laid back, don't take things serious, looking for intimate encounter, short-term or dating). Why would I answer them as they should have know that I'm not interested if they actually read my profile text?
I stopped replying in most cases as a friendly "no thanks and best of luck to you" caused abusive texts and discussions.
Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean they have to be grateful for every email they're getting and respond - would it have been any different if someone you class as good looking didn't reply?
allthegoodnamestOPLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
2intregued. In what way?? Sometimes you can be attracted to their personality and in other instances they are beautiful looking but their personality is off putting . Does that make sence?
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