LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
bluewave33: Good evening! I beg pardon to the forum and especially to Lolette. I ask you to apologize me. It came out all this "casino" =fuss , how we call it in Italy because of a coward false accusation I was not able to bear. It wasn't my intention to offeding or boring you with this low level, coward, false and unfair accusation. I only tried to defend myself. That's all. Sorry again, I will never lean my ear to this dirty game.
Hi there bluewave,, no problem,,, i know you're just confused, it's alright, i undestand runnng after all the comments ,, the pros and the contre, and from others who doesn't really know the real story, they are litle bit lost too and will only add to the mess. I don't judge any of you, i was just trying ti lighten a litle tha ambiance. Don't worry for me, you have thrown disagreable comments on me, but it's OK ,, no hard feelings,, stay with the forum, i know, just like me, you're fond of it ,,, bouna serra,, maybe this i'm correct,, good luck to you.
It is advisable,NOT to reply,anymore to comments in this thread. Let the thread die. and it is for your own benifit.
bluewave33: Lolette, I beg your pardon It's me the Taurus( he is referring to my astrological sign), and I am never give up, especially when I am unfairly accused of a thing I haven' t done and I will never do. I have no reason. I left him and our relationship is over. He has to accept it without offending and accusing me .
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
bluewave33: Lolette, I beg your pardon It's me the Taurus( he is referring to my astrological sign), and I am never give up, especially when I am unfairly accused of a thing I haven' t done and I will never do. I have no reason. I left him and our relationship is over. He has to accept it without offending and accusing me .
bluewave, at first we don't really have any idea about the two of you, maybe if you didn't show up, his thread will just pass away, it was not really so gentle on his side bringing this story publicly, but i think he 's provoking you,, and there it goes,, it's alright,, have a peaceful mind, concentrate on your work and study and show us your results here, and we will be happy for you,,i understand you, but can't take any side,, i'm just here answering to you ,,,
Not a reply anymore, only to tell thank you to Lolette. It will never happen again. I was waiting to finish my work to beg pardon to Lolette and to you all. Buonasera Lolette e Good night to you all, wherever you are. Thank you for accepting my apologize and I am waiting for you on Saturday evening about the refound happiness.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
bluewave33: Not a reply anymore, only to tell thank you to Lolette. It will never happen again. I was waiting to finish my work to beg pardon to Lolette and to you all. Buonasera Lolette e Good night to you all, wherever you are. Thank you for accepting my apologize and I am waiting for you on Saturday evening about the refound happiness.
God bless you. Sorry again!
,, have peace of mind,,, it all ended well for you as far as the public opinion here is concerned,, good night bluewave, chiao bella ,,,
florilove: It sounds ridiculous but it's true. My former girlfriend (52) invents faked dating profiles of young women (around 30) again and again and sends me mails in which she expresses her interest to come in contact with me. I am 59. How would you react in such a situation? (I am always sending her such a reply: "Sorry but you are too old for me.")
What do you think about the reasons of such a behavior? (I would never do this with my former girlfriend ;)
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
RosePetals69: Sounds like obsession to me.
Very true. Life goes on . Some of us will find someone in a month, some in years, some never. Some of us will make life size dolls, some of us will make imaginary profiles on the net and fall in love with themselves ..... life goes on.
2intrigued: How would I react? Very simple...not engage in email conversation and use the block button. If you know for certain this is the individual you think it is and it becomes a stalking issue, report it to site admin.
The reasons for such behavior? Your guess is as good as mine.
exactly!! just disconnect. anything less would suggest he still wants to interact. I see quite often people that say they are done but they are still right in the middle of the relationship only in some new role and incur a ridiculous waste of time.
Dragos1: exactly!! just disconnect. anything less would suggest he still wants to interact. I see quite often people that say they are done but they are still right in the middle of the relationship only in some new role and incur a ridiculous waste of time.
hi'ya Trigs.
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Hiya B I get how broken relationships can cause folks to do or say things they may later regret but this kind of thing on an open forum isn't doing either of them any favours towards putting closure on it. If this were me in a situation like this, I would be devastated. Sure, they both hurt and perhaps have ill feelings towards one another but this simply isn't the way.
2intrigued: Hiya B I get how broken relationships can cause folks to do or say things they may later regret but this kind of thing on an open forum isn't doing either of them any favours towards putting closure on it. If this were me in a situation like this, I would be devastated. Sure, they both hurt and perhaps have ill feelings towards one another but this simply isn't the way.
true...but I like what you said on the first response about not to "engage" them....same idea here I just used a different word in that I would simply disconnect. Been there and done that. probably most of us have. I hope all is going well. Big Hugs.
Dragos1: true...but I like what you said on the first response about not to "engage" them....same idea here I just used a different word in that I would simply disconnect. Been there and done that. probably most of us have. I hope all is going well. Big Hugs.
Yep, as difficult as it may be for anyone in a breakup, disengaging with the least drama is the best way to go imho.
All is good out my way and I hope all is going well with you.
raphael119: Very true. Life goes on . Some of us will find someone in a month, some in years, some never. Some of us will make life size dolls, some of us will make imaginary profiles on the net and fall in love with themselves ..... life goes on.
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Sorry again, I will never lean my ear to this dirty game.
Hi there bluewave,, no problem,,, i know you're just confused, it's alright, i undestand runnng after all the comments ,, the pros and the contre, and from others who doesn't really know the real story, they are litle bit lost too and will only add to the mess. I don't judge any of you, i was just trying ti lighten a litle tha ambiance. Don't worry for me, you have thrown disagreable comments on me, but it's OK ,, no hard feelings,, stay with the forum, i know, just like me, you're fond of it ,,, bouna serra,, maybe this i'm correct,, good luck to you.