Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites ( Archived) (137)

Jun 25, 2015 4:01 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
bluewave33: Good evening! I beg pardon to the forum and especially to Lolette. I ask you to apologize me. It came out all this "casino" =fuss , how we call it in Italy because of a coward false accusation I was not able to bear. It wasn't my intention to offeding or boring you with this low level, coward, false and unfair accusation. I only tried to defend myself. That's all.
Sorry again, I will never lean my ear to this dirty game.



Hi there bluewave,, no problem,,, i know you're just confused, it's alright, i undestand runnng after all the comments ,, the pros and the contre, and from others who doesn't really know the real story, they are litle bit lost too and will only add to the mess. I don't judge any of you, i was just trying ti lighten a litle tha ambiance. Don't worry for me, you have thrown disagreable comments on me, but it's OK ,, no hard feelings,, stay with the forum, i know, just like me, you're fond of it ,,, bouna serra,, laugh laugh maybe this i'm correct,, good luck to you.handshake
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Jun 25, 2015 4:02 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
It is advisable,NOT to reply,anymore to comments in this thread.
Let the thread die. and it is for your own benifit.
bluewave33: Lolette, I beg your pardon
It's me the Taurus( he is referring to my astrological sign), and I am never give up, especially when I am unfairly accused of a thing I haven' t done and I will never do. I have no reason. I left him and our relationship is over. He has to accept it without offending and accusing me .
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Jun 25, 2015 4:05 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Sannu
SannuSannuLondon, Greater London, England UK114 Posts
Good lord, how shockingly embarrassing and shameful.

Oh the indignation of it all.elephant jaw drop
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Jun 25, 2015 4:07 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
bluewave33: Lolette, I beg your pardon
It's me the Taurus( he is referring to my astrological sign), and I am never give up, especially when I am unfairly accused of a thing I haven' t done and I will never do. I have no reason. I left him and our relationship is over. He has to accept it without offending and accusing me .



bluewave, at first we don't really have any idea about the two of you, maybe if you didn't show up, his thread will just pass away, it was not really so gentle on his side bringing this story publicly, but i think he 's provoking you,, and there it goes,, it's alright,, have a peaceful mind, concentrate on your work and study and show us your results here, and we will be happy for you,,i understand you, but can't take any side,, i'm just here answering to you ,,,thumbs up thumbs up
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Jun 25, 2015 4:10 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
bluewave33
bluewave33bluewave33Jesolo Lido, Veneto Italy4 Threads 4 Polls 49 Posts
Not a reply anymore, only to tell thank you to Lolette.
It will never happen again. I was waiting to finish my work to beg pardon to Lolette and to you all.
Buonasera Lolette e Good night to you all, wherever you are.
Thank you for accepting my apologize and I am waiting for you on Saturday evening about the refound happiness.

God bless you. Sorry again!sad flower bouquet
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Jun 25, 2015 4:15 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
bluewave33: Not a reply anymore, only to tell thank you to Lolette.
It will never happen again. I was waiting to finish my work to beg pardon to Lolette and to you all.
Buonasera Lolette e Good night to you all, wherever you are.
Thank you for accepting my apologize and I am waiting for you on Saturday evening about the refound happiness.

God bless you. Sorry again!

hug teddybear bouquet ,, have peace of mind,,, it all ended well for you as far as the public opinion here is concerned,, good night bluewave, chiao bella ,,,
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Jun 25, 2015 4:45 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
bluewave33
bluewave33bluewave33Jesolo Lido, Veneto Italy4 Threads 4 Polls 49 Posts
Lolette: ,, have peace of mind,,, it all ended well for you as far as the public opinion here is concerned,, good night bluewave, chiao bella ,,,





Thank you, Lolette. A peaceful night to you. ¡ Buenas noches! Bonne nuit! See you on Saturday on my post about Happiness.teddybear bouquet
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Jun 25, 2015 7:32 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
peachmelba: The whip needs replacing as it snapped,


I know, I snapped it laugh
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Jun 25, 2015 9:48 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
RosePetals69
RosePetals69RosePetals69Lower Lake, California USA1 Threads 120 Posts
florilove: It sounds ridiculous but it's true.
My former girlfriend (52) invents faked dating profiles of young women (around 30) again and again and sends me mails in which she expresses her interest to come in contact with me. I am 59.
How would you react in such a situation?
(I am always sending her such a reply: "Sorry but you are too old for me.")

What do you think about the reasons of such a behavior?
(I would never do this with my former girlfriend ;)

Thanks for your advices




Sounds like obsession to me.
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Jun 25, 2015 10:09 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
RosePetals69: Sounds like obsession to me.


Very true. Life goes on . Some of us will find someone in a month, some in years, some never.
Some of us will make life size dolls, some of us will make imaginary profiles on the net and fall in love with themselves ..... life goes on.
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Jun 25, 2015 11:14 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
2intrigued: How would I react? Very simple...not engage in email conversation and use the block button. If you know for certain this is the individual you think it is and it becomes a stalking issue, report it to site admin.

The reasons for such behavior? Your guess is as good as mine.


thumbs up

exactly!! just disconnect. anything less would suggest he still wants to interact. I see quite often people that say they are done but they are still right in the middle of the relationship only in some new role and incur a ridiculous waste of time.

hi'ya Trigs.

hug

;-}
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Jun 25, 2015 11:22 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
The only hard thing to believe is this thread ...

Surely everyone must know by now that it's unwise to give attention to attention seekers?

If the XGF is indeed behaving as you say ... wow, she must really be thrilled by this thread ... ignore here entirely and she'll burnout soon enough!

Why worry ... be happy!
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Jun 25, 2015 11:37 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Dragos1: exactly!! just disconnect. anything less would suggest he still wants to interact. I see quite often people that say they are done but they are still right in the middle of the relationship only in some new role and incur a ridiculous waste of time.

hi'ya Trigs.



;-}


Hiya B wave I get how broken relationships can cause folks to do or say things they may later regret but this kind of thing on an open forum isn't doing either of them any favours towards putting closure on it. If this were me in a situation like this, I would be devastated. Sure, they both hurt and perhaps have ill feelings towards one another but this simply isn't the way.

hug
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Jun 25, 2015 11:43 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
2intrigued: Hiya B I get how broken relationships can cause folks to do or say things they may later regret but this kind of thing on an open forum isn't doing either of them any favours towards putting closure on it. If this were me in a situation like this, I would be devastated. Sure, they both hurt and perhaps have ill feelings towards one another but this simply isn't the way.



true...but I like what you said on the first response about not to "engage" them....same idea here I just used a different word in that I would simply disconnect. Been there and done that. probably most of us have. I hope all is going well. Big Hugs.

angel

hug

grin
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Jun 25, 2015 11:52 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Dragos1: true...but I like what you said on the first response about not to "engage" them....same idea here I just used a different word in that I would simply disconnect. Been there and done that. probably most of us have. I hope all is going well. Big Hugs.


Yep, as difficult as it may be for anyone in a breakup, disengaging with the least drama is the best way to go imho.

All is good out my way and I hope all is going well with you.

teddybear
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Jun 26, 2015 8:28 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
RosePetals69
RosePetals69RosePetals69Lower Lake, California USA1 Threads 120 Posts
raphael119: Very true. Life goes on . Some of us will find someone in a month, some in years, some never.
Some of us will make life size dolls, some of us will make imaginary profiles on the net and fall in love with themselves ..... life goes on.



Rafa from DC: you are a RIOT!!! cheers
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Jun 27, 2015 1:21 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
mollybaby: Are you that good??



Try him,and let us know.

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