PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
what turns me off? Dogs, smoking women, fat and ugly women. Women who don't look at their selfs at all. Also tattoos, or women who like to paint their face with lipstick, mascara and everything she can lay her hands on. If I want a painting, I'll go to the Rembrandt museum.
But if a girl has strange habits or acts funny, well that attracks me.
When a woman says she doesn't care about the homeless or makes disparaging remarks against the sick or disabled of any kind. Things that tell me she's not a very nurturing person. Bad mother material.
PeKaatje: what turns me off? Dogs, smoking women, fat and ugly women. Women who don't look at their selfs at all. Also tattoos, or women who like to paint their face with lipstick, mascara and everything she can lay her hands on. If I want a painting, I'll go to the Rembrandt museum.
But if a girl has strange habits or acts funny, well that attracks me.
Are you sure Rembrandt is the correct reference here? his painting while darkened over the ages show clear to understand scenes.
Van Gogh for example would apply better to the mindset of many woman,
PeKaatje: what turns me off? Dogs, smoking women, fat and ugly women. Women who don't look at their selfs at all. Also tattoos, or women who like to paint their face with lipstick, mascara and everything she can lay her hands on. If I want a painting, I'll go to the Rembrandt museum.
But if a girl has strange habits or acts funny, well that attracks me.
Good reasons Pe.
Hope these are not the traits of the one that you will end up with.
ChesneyChrist: When a woman says she doesn't care about the homeless or makes disparaging remarks against the sick or disabled of any kind. Things that tell me she's not a very nurturing person. Bad mother material.
ChesneyChrist: When a woman says she doesn't care about the homeless or makes disparaging remarks against the sick or disabled of any kind. Things that tell me she's not a very nurturing person. Bad mother material.
She can well pretend she cares or cares for the wrong reasons...that won't make her a good mother material... I know women who care for everyone else but their own children...
lindsyjones: I have posted "what truly turns you on" and figured it is also important to know what truly turns us off.
I can present some of it myself like: Neglect, the failure to nourish what makes love grow. Control, I mean unreasonable power of the other person to manipulate and make all the decisions without much regard as to the feelings of the other.
Can you share some that truly piss you off?
Thank you all for your participation.
I wont describe myself on being picky but I easily get turned off ....phys8cally even good looking guy but u look down and he is wearing dirty shoes oh not my type lol. ill mannered and guys who doesnt know how to stand by there woman...or maybe O am j8st an old school type
ysabeljhen: I wont describe myself on being picky but I easily get turned off ....phys8cally even good looking guy but u look down and he is wearing dirty shoes oh not my type lol. ill mannered and guys who doesnt know how to stand by there woman...or maybe O am j8st an old school type
Gayyem you made me alugh with the dirty shoes.
that is easy to fix. lol you be in charge of buying them clothes and shoes..
But the ill mannered? Oh gosh, me too, I just can't be around anyone like that.
lindsyjones: I have posted "what truly turns you on" and figured it is also important to know what truly turns us off.
I can present some of it myself like: Neglect, the failure to nourish what makes love grow. Control, I mean unreasonable power of the other person to manipulate and make all the decisions without much regard as to the feelings of the other.
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