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Aug 23, 2015 12:30 AM CST not responding
LITAP
LITAPLITAPAHMEDNAGAR, Maharashtra India31 Threads 55 Posts
teddybear teddybear
many person does not reply to email or flowers send to them.why they ignore the message, are they afarid.
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Aug 23, 2015 12:45 AM CST not responding
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
No, most are not afraid.


Are they opening your messages?

Are you checking they've been online recently?

Are you messaging people who's stated preferences you match?
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Aug 23, 2015 12:58 AM CST not responding
LITAP: many person does not reply to email or flowers send to them.why they ignore the message, are they afarid.
tell them you,v got something.....
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Aug 23, 2015 5:06 AM CST not responding
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
LITAP: many person does not reply to email or flowers send to them.why they ignore the message, are they afarid.


I'm afraid there are many women on this site who like to play "mind games" & enjoy the attention they receive here , when in reality, they receive little or no attention.
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Aug 23, 2015 5:10 AM CST not responding
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
LITAP: many person does not reply to email or flowers send to them.why they ignore the message, are they afarid.


I can think of a number of reasons straight off the bat....

Maybe you are messaging women who are out of your league.

Maybe you are messaging women who have stated certain preferences that don't match with your profile.

Maybe you are just messaging the wrong profiles.

My advice is to have a look and see if you are seeking someone with the same values and general looks as yourself, that is, if you are not a supermodel, then it is unlikely that you will score with a supermodel. This is just a example by the way, by all means have a shot at getting a date with a supermodel, just don't be surprised if you don't get far.....

Other than that, use the "Who's Viewed Me" tool to see what women are interested enough to have a look at your profile, and message them.

That strategy worked quite well for me.

I also ended up going viewing and messaging women in parts of the world who wanted someone like me.

So it depends on who you are messaging, and whether you are realistic in who you are messaging as to your success rate with replies....

Good luck.
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Aug 23, 2015 5:15 AM CST not responding
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Sometimes I just can't open mail sigh
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Aug 23, 2015 5:20 AM CST not responding
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
serene56: Sometimes I just can't open mail


Serious? Why?
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Aug 23, 2015 9:00 AM CST not responding
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
LITAP: many person does not reply to email or flowers send to them.why they ignore the message, are they afarid.


No answer is an answer - someone isn't interested.
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Aug 23, 2015 9:22 AM CST not responding
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
KNenagh: No answer is an answer - someone isn't interested.


AMEN. Thank you
yes, no response is a form of response, meaning = NOT INTERESTED

my ex used to say when someone does not call or does not return your calls you should get the message!
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Aug 23, 2015 9:46 AM CST not responding
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
equiya: AMEN. Thank you
yes, no response is a form of response, meaning = NOT INTERESTED

my ex used to say when someone does not call or does not return your calls you should get the message!

thumbs up
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Aug 23, 2015 11:07 AM CST not responding
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
equiya: AMEN. Thank you
yes, no response is a form of response, meaning = NOT INTERESTED

my ex used to say when someone does not call or does not return your calls you should get the message!


Your ex was a wise personthumbs up unfortunately , some people can't take a hint.
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Aug 25, 2015 7:37 AM CST not responding
a lot of the reasons have been covered on here, but others I can think of; are you messaging people too far away? There are exceptions like Halvo who wanted someone from far away, but many people are looking locally even though we may chat globally.

Also if someone states they are looking for people in their local geographic area and gets a message from several hundred or thousands of miles away, it is clear he did not read the profile.

(exceptions of course for those forum friends who PM for various reasons)
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Aug 28, 2015 9:01 PM CST not responding
Geriatrix2
Geriatrix2Geriatrix2Russell Island, Queensland Australia23 Threads 4 Polls 680 Posts
That may well be true, but when a person goes to the trouble of reading a profile and sending mail/ flower common courtesy dictates a reply even if it in the negative. (Am I past my use by date?)frustrated
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Sep 29, 2015 3:42 PM CST not responding
globeTrekker
globeTrekkerglobeTrekkerFgura, Xlokk Malta6 Posts
A simple "sorry, you're not my type" would be better than nothing.
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Sep 29, 2015 3:47 PM CST not responding
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
globeTrekker: A simple "sorry, you're not my type" would be better than nothing.


Sometimes that backfires too although I personally don't use the words "you're not my type"...I just say no thank you and wish them luck. Some will appreciate the polite response and some others get pretty nasty. conversing
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Sep 29, 2015 3:47 PM CST not responding
globeTrekker: A simple "sorry, you're not my type" would be better than nothing.
ok....sorry your not my type...grin laugh wave
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Sep 29, 2015 3:52 PM CST not responding
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
It's better to get known on the blogs and posts first or not in my case.grin
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Sep 29, 2015 3:53 PM CST not responding
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
truheart1941: ok....sorry your not my type...

Getting fussy in your old age thenlips rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 29, 2015 4:02 PM CST not responding
allthegoodnamest: Not tonight Josephine , I'm washing my hair.
tomorrow night then..i like clean pubes.....rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 29, 2015 4:08 PM CST not responding
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
truheart1941: tomorrow night then..i like clean pubes.....


Help..help rolling on the floor laughing
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