Falling In Love Online ( Archived) (49)

Sep 19, 2015 8:47 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Charilove
ChariloveCharilovejohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa6 Threads 20 Posts
Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?
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Sep 19, 2015 9:24 AM CST Falling In Love Online
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Charilove: Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?



I did let my guard down once, online.....and fell a little....well, stumbled....really...not a happy outcome.

We fall in lust with the fantasy, from a distance.

I do enjoy fantasising at times, but am a realist. I only read non-fiction. Need I say more. gingerbread
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Sep 19, 2015 9:33 AM CST Falling In Love Online
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
I did it.. Fell in love online..and when we did Meet the love became even more real..when he died, I thought it could never happen aGain, didn't want it to.. But BANG..it did, and this time I feel it is just as real..
Love can happen online as fast as it can in real life ..just my experiencehug
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Sep 19, 2015 9:43 AM CST Falling In Love Online
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serena123: I did it.. Fell in love online..and when we did Meet the love became even more real..when he died, I thought it could never happen aGain, didn't want it to.. But BANG..it did, and this time I feel it is just as real..
Love can happen online as fast as it can in real life ..just my experience


Is it Tru lovegrin grin grin grin grin grin bouquet
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Sep 19, 2015 10:19 AM CST Falling In Love Online
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
serena123: I did it.. Fell in love online..and when we did Meet the love became even more real..when he died, I thought it could never happen aGain, didn't want it to.. But BANG..it did, and this time I feel it is just as real..
Love can happen online as fast as it can in real life ..just my experience


...and am so pleased it did happen for you Serena and others....hug

I'm only speaking from my own online experience.

teddybear
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Sep 19, 2015 10:24 AM CST Falling In Love Online
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
I believe it is possible. nerd
I saw my current motorbike online and fell in love with it. We have a wonderful relationship. cool grin
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Sep 19, 2015 10:32 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Capricorn143
Capricorn143Capricorn143The Best, Jugovzhodna Slovenia1 Threads 1,115 Posts
Not possible. You can only become intrigued, like the way this person writes, talks...the first time when you meet can either boost this feeling or shatter it. The most important is the chemistry you feel when face to face, if there is none...forget it

wine
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Sep 19, 2015 10:56 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Charilove: Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?


I'm less skeptical now that there's skype. Virtual presence gives an inkling of what that person is actually like. Plus lovely, normal people use dating sites now too.

Ten years ago I'd have said it's only for fantastic losers, now maybe not. These days it is more likely to be a romantic connection instead of a desperate arrangement.

None of this answers your question I know. Connection or arrangement no one here can say whether it will work.
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Sep 19, 2015 11:05 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Charilove: Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?


To some it can be, to some not,,
Falling in love on line,, it's not the question, love knows no distance,it's the fullfilment of that love that is a quite decieving and not at the reach of so many, so in this it ends up broken, sooner or later.
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Sep 19, 2015 11:18 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I suppose falling in love online is possible but falling in love with someone you have never met in person is just basing that relationship on superficial experiences.
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Sep 19, 2015 11:45 AM CST Falling In Love Online
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Charilove: Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?


Falling in love from a distance happens all the time and some feel strongly enough for one another that they will make every effort to meet face to face. It's the actual meeting and spending time together that will reveal if the feelings felt for one another are still the same and will grow from there. If a relationship remains in the virtual world with no intent of ever meeting, there is a tendency that it will fizzle out, sometimes with great emotional pain which is very real. I think we fall in love with the possibilities.
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Sep 20, 2015 2:27 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Charilove
ChariloveCharilovejohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa6 Threads 20 Posts
Thanks to u all for your wonderful contributions. I believe there are still good guys out there. It is not over untill is over soon or later we will have a good news to share.
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Sep 20, 2015 3:16 AM CST Falling In Love Online
ianrees
ianreesianreesMaesteg, Mid Glamorgan, Wales UK5 Threads 42 Posts
In response to: Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?


I did fall in love once online, we spent a year chatting and I went to China to meet her and she was ral we soent 3 weeks together and I wanted to to come to the UK to be with me but she could not come because she lied to the British Embassy about a couple of things, so it ended that
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Sep 20, 2015 3:27 AM CST Falling In Love Online
Charilove: Thanks to u all for your wonderful contributions. I believe there are still good guys out there. It is not over untill is over soon or later we will have a good news to share.
hi Charilove......at present.i,m seeing a S/A...woman...yes we are far apart....but thelove is there.....what really makes it hard...is the rules and regulations that are imposed upon us by our own countries.....its ridiculas.jmo.
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Sep 20, 2015 3:41 AM CST Falling In Love Online
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Charilove: Falling in love from a distance with someone u haven't met yet
Is it real of a broken heart?

It's a case of mind over matter, if you don't mind , it don't matter.
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Sep 20, 2015 3:52 AM CST Falling In Love Online
allthegoodnamest: It's a case of mind over matter, if you don't mind , it don't matter.
morning john......what doesent matter.....giggle giggle giggle
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Sep 20, 2015 3:59 AM CST Falling In Love Online
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
truheart1941: morning john......what doesent matter.....


Morning pete... The fact that there should be no barriers where love is concerned . Nothing should stop you being together if that's what you both want.handshake
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Sep 20, 2015 8:07 PM CST Falling In Love Online
cruiser68
cruiser68cruiser68Red Cliffs, Victoria Australia9 Threads 704 Posts
truheart1941: hi Charilove......at present.i,m seeing a S/A...woman...yes we are far apart....but thelove is there.....what really makes it hard...is the rules and regulations that are imposed upon us by our own countries.....its ridiculas.jmo.


YEAH, I forgot about you and borders and Customs, and you with that stick of TNT you hide below your belt......professor professor wink
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Sep 20, 2015 9:16 PM CST Falling In Love Online
Geriatrix2
Geriatrix2Geriatrix2Russell Island, Queensland Australia23 Threads 4 Polls 680 Posts
truheart1941: hi Charilove......at present.i,m seeing a S/A...woman...yes we are far apart....but thelove is there.....what really makes it hard...is the rules and regulations that are imposed upon us by our own countries.....its ridiculas.jmo.
It's not jyo Pete, I'm in the same boat. The rules here governing immigration are a complete joke, (not a funny one either). My fiancee has a certificate in aged care and is currently employed in that capacity in Hong Kong, but being in a low paid profession she does not meet the monetary requirements necessary to be granted a visa. The fact that I have stated that I will be responsible for any expenses incurred while she is here appears to count for nothing. There is a desperate need for aged care workers in this country, and because of the low remuneration involved this will continue to be the case. It's a case of the bureaucrats looking a gift horse in the mouth but it appears there is nothing I can do as they are unflinching in their stance. They can admit unqualified "refugees", many of whom can't speak English (and use the taxes I have paid for the past 50 years to support them), yet refuse someone who would be an asset to this country Makes me ashamed to admit I'm an Aussie.This country has gone to hell in a hand basket! very mad
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Sep 20, 2015 9:23 PM CST Falling In Love Online
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Geriatrix2: It's not jyo Pete, I'm in the same boat. The rules here governing immigration are a complete joke, (not a funny one either). My fiancee has a certificate in aged care and is currently employed in that capacity in Hong Kong, but being in a low paid profession she does not meet the monetary requirements necessary to be granted a visa. The fact that I have stated that I will be responsible for any expenses incurred while she is here appears to count for nothing. There is a desperate need for aged care workers in this country, and because of the low remuneration involved this will continue to be the case. It's a case of the bureaucrats looking a gift horse in the mouth but it appears there is nothing I can do as they are unflinching in their stance. They can admit unqualified "refugees", many of whom can't speak English (and use the taxes I have paid for the past 50 years to support them), yet refuse someone who would be an asset to this country Makes me ashamed to admit I'm an Aussie.This country has gone to hell in a hand basket!


That really is a shame. The complexities of it all is mind boggling. blues I hope there's a way around this for you. wave
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