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key54Plant City, Florida USA3 Threads 42 Postsam i the only person with a f'ed up extented family? getting together for the holidays with my family consists of paper plates and nasty attitudes? this year, i lied to my family and told them i gotta work.
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my kids are great though.
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LOL
I wish I could do that this year. I just want to be alone this year. I need just on christmas were someone in my family is not around.
I wish I could do that this year. I just want to be alone this year. I need just on christmas were someone in my family is not around.
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Well, I only have a small family but to lie to them to get out of being with them? Outrageous! You should relish being in the company of so many people that care about you. Besides, its only once a year!!
Dx.
Dx.
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without knowing all the facts, you cannot judge a decision that i spoke with my therapist about
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My family is extended family is right here in town.....and in fifteen years that I have been home....I haven't even been invited!!!!! Just a thought.......
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i don't understand.
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In other words atleast you are cared enough about to be invited.....
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yes, but my sister didn't. guess she was the unwanted one this year. does that tell you anything.
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My sister was angry at me also....it lasted eight years...since she was my step-fathers child....I was the one uninvited.....didn't matter whose was at fault or anything else....just the facts of life...I'd go anyway.....I wouldn't wish what I went through on anyone...
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pretty much, it is a normal function in our family. but it is not my sisters or brother (most of which are step) my mom makes it very difficult and will exclude people and make people feel really really bad about themselves. when i get excluded, i am usually pretty happy but i will feel bad on the inside, it does hurt my feelings. by the way, i was born in St. Ignace.
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No, you are not the only person fed up with extended family. However, even still, I go to the family Christmas gathering anyway--despite my feelings. I would not have lied. But the fact that you did was your choice, and I've no right to judge you whatsoever.
At any rate, I do wish you & yours a wonderful Christmas & a fantastic New Year!
At any rate, I do wish you & yours a wonderful Christmas & a fantastic New Year!
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When I was a kid my family get together usually ended up in a fight.
They are all mostly dead and gone now..............I miss them.......
They are all mostly dead and gone now..............I miss them.......
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In my house, at any holiday, I have extended family and friends.
It never bothers me at all, and no they do not all get along.
But when they come to my house I expect them to tolerate each other, and everything works out fine.
I don't even need to send out invitations, they already know that my house is the place of comfort during the holidays.
Angel
It never bothers me at all, and no they do not all get along.
But when they come to my house I expect them to tolerate each other, and everything works out fine.
I don't even need to send out invitations, they already know that my house is the place of comfort during the holidays.
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Plenty of extended family will be here & eating a feast served on china..
Yes, you are invited also..
Yes, you are invited also..
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Wow that would be a Christmas Dream come true....to share Christmas w/ another loving family.....notice I said loving......
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If you were born in St. Ignace....if you don't mind me asking How did you end up in Florida? Or Why?
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So did I....step-father was in the Air Force.....
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