kody18OPAngeles City, Central Luzon Philippines14 posts
Sometimes in ur life, some people will make messes, big or small.
It's either you forgive, forget or both. Depends on how big their mistakes are to you.
But why is it so hard for some people (who apologized/asked for pardon forthey are regretful on what they've done) that sometimes you can only offer them forgiveness (& it's not meaning I will forget as well)?
Why some are so shallow that forgive wont always mean forget? vice versa?
Why would they push u still to forgive them and forget?
Like hello, a big mistake, is maybe, forgiveable, but not always forgettable?
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
kody18: Sometimes in ur life, some people will make messes, big or small.
It's either you forgive, forget or both. Depends on how big their mistakes are to you.
But why is it so hard for some people (who apologized/asked for pardon forthey are regretful on what they've done) that sometimes you can only offer them forgiveness (& it's not meaning I will forget as well)?
Why some are so shallow that forgive wont always mean forget? vice versa?
Why would they push u still to forgive them and forget?
Like hello, a big mistake, is maybe, forgiveable, but not always forgettable?
kody18: Sometimes in ur life, some people will make messes, big or small.
It's either you forgive, forget or both. Depends on how big their mistakes are to you.
But why is it so hard for some people (who apologized/asked for pardon forthey are regretful on what they've done) that sometimes you can only offer them forgiveness (& it's not meaning I will forget as well)?
Why some are so shallow that forgive wont always mean forget? vice versa?
Why would they push u still to forgive them and forget?
Like hello, a big mistake, is maybe, forgiveable, but not always forgettable?
I think it's best to forgive otherwise the anger just eats away at us. But we shouldn't always forget because we learn from our mistakes and the mistakes of others (if we are smart). We can't forget anyway our brains won't let us. the expression forgive and forget really does not mean to literally forget...it means to let go of anger and vengefulness.
Some one might push you to forgive or forget because they want the comfort of being forgiven or they want to continue their relationship with you
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It's either you forgive, forget or both. Depends on how big their mistakes are to you.
But why is it so hard for some people (who apologized/asked for pardon forthey are regretful on what they've done) that sometimes you can only offer them forgiveness (& it's not meaning I will forget as well)?
Why some are so shallow that forgive wont always mean forget? vice versa?
Why would they push u still to forgive them and forget?
Like hello, a big mistake, is maybe, forgiveable, but not always forgettable?