Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children? ( Archived) (82)

Oct 26, 2015 2:33 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Womens bodies are made to have children, it "completes them..I have 3 and 5 Grandchildren.. They are very precious to me.. And my children are now my companions..
A friend of mine 50.. Never wanted children (her choice) never felt any maternal instinct... I envy her life sometimes, cause she's travelled, has breasts that are still FIRM rolling on the floor laughing but she told me, she envys me.. That as I Get older, I will, could never be alone..
I know some can't have children.. But could adopt...
What's your take on this?
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Oct 26, 2015 2:35 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123: Womens bodies are made to have children, it "completes them..I have 3 and 5 Grandchildren.. They are very precious to me.. And my children are now my companions..
A friend of mine 50.. Never wanted children (her choice) never felt any maternal instinct... I envy her life sometimes, cause she's travelled, has breasts that are still FIRM but she told me, she envys me.. That as I Get older, I will, could never be alone..
I know some can't have children.. But could adopt...
What's your take on this?
You envy her breasts tut tut ....
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Oct 26, 2015 2:41 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
michaelright: You envy her breasts tut tut ....

Yes! And her freedom in a way.. But that's all.. laugh
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Oct 26, 2015 2:50 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
michaelright: You envy her breasts tut tut ....

Because another reason she Didn't want children..because she didn't want to "mess up her fiGure..and let's face it..babies hangin on your breasts.. And your stomach stretching continuously..doesn't do wonders for you!
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Oct 26, 2015 2:53 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serena123: Because another reason she Didn't want children..because she didn't want to "mess up her fiGure..and let's face it..babies hangin on your breasts.. And your stomach stretching continuously..doesn't do wonders for you!


I guess thats a fair point, but don't your breasts recover to some point ?
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Oct 26, 2015 2:55 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
serena123: Womens bodies are made to have children, it "completes them..I have 3 and 5 Grandchildren.. They are very precious to me.. And my children are now my companions..
A friend of mine 50.. Never wanted children (her choice) never felt any maternal instinct... I envy her life sometimes, cause she's travelled, has breasts that are still FIRM but she told me, she envys me.. That as I Get older, I will, could never be alone..
I know some can't have children.. But could adopt...
What's your take on this?


serena,,hi !!!

Less of a woman no, but women play an important role in the continuity of one's family then to one's race.
The appeal to maternity is a personal choice, those women who can't perform well their role as a mother,, preferable she don't give birth.
Nuns and sisters ,, they remain a big hearted women,, Mother Theresa, Sister Emmanuel,, they're great mother's of humanity.

And lots of moms still look like their teenage daughters, look is a question of healthy attitudes and body care.
If we are happy, mother or not that's the most important, contented? ,, never ,, we always miss what we can't/don't have ,,,bouquet hug thumbs up
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Oct 26, 2015 2:59 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
skippyguy: I guess thats a fair point, but don't your breasts recover to some point ?

To some extent :) after the first one.. Then you need money laugh hug
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Oct 26, 2015 3:00 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
serena123: Because another reason she Didn't want children..because she didn't want to "mess up her fiGure..and let's face it..babies hangin on your breasts.. And your stomach stretching continuously..doesn't do wonders for you!


That's not a valid reason,,those beautiful figures like Meryl Streep, Jane Fonda, Monica Belluci,, or even Madonna, just to name a few,, they're all moms and not messed up,, yes maternity changes one's body, but they don't destroy.
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Oct 26, 2015 3:01 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Hi,

Im one out of 7000 women who could not have children due to born with out my womb or any number of reasons that we find our selfs in to not be able to go through being able to become pregnent and give birth ,

Psychologically and Emotionally its there just ones body is out of sorts or hormones gone wrong ,and its an ache you have of so wonting to , yes its very hard .how do you express that in words very hard to,

The other side is Jos gave birth to... our... children , we have 3 and 11 grandkids and one more due in a few weeks ,

...noeleena...
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Oct 26, 2015 3:02 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Babettefr: serena,,hi !!!

Less of a woman no, but women play an important role in the continuity of one's family then to one's race.
The appeal to maternity is a personal choice, those women who can't perform well their role as a mother,, preferable she don't give birth.
Nuns and sisters ,, they remain a big hearted women,, Mother Theresa, Sister Emmanuel,, they're great mother's of humanity.

And lots of moms still look like their teenage daughters, look is a question of healthy attitudes and body care.
If we are happy, mother or not that's the most important, contented? ,, never ,, we always miss what we can't/don't have ,,,

I agree babs..some just shouldn't! Cause they wouldn't make Good mommys..
Mother Teresa must have had great breasts for her age!! laugh teddybear
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Oct 26, 2015 3:06 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
noeleena: Hi,

Im one out of 7000 women who could not have children due to born with out my womb or any number of reasons that we find our selfs in to not be able to go through being able to become pregnent and give birth ,

Psychologically and Emotionally its there just ones body is out of sorts or hormones gone wrong ,and its an ache you have of so wonting to , yes its very hard .how do you express that in words very hard to,

The other side is Jos gave birth to... our... children , we have 3 and 11 grandkids and one more due in a few weeks ,

...noeleena...

That's fantastic!hug and I'm sure you are an amazin mom! Cause you have the heart for it!
My niece can't have children.. Is trying to adopt .. They just give you such pleasure ..
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Oct 26, 2015 3:07 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
Hightech_Redneck
Hightech_RedneckHightech_RedneckGreen Forest, Arkansas USA3 Posts
It amazes me at the number of women that have 4-5 kids before they turn 30.I'm 35 with no kids but I've wanted to be a dad for several years but its hard for me to find a woman that I'm attracted to that can still have kids
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Oct 26, 2015 3:10 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
serena123: That's fantastic! and I'm sure you are an amazin mom! Cause you have the heart for it!
My niece can't have children.. Is trying to adopt .. They just give you such pleasure ..

So you have children And a Good body! I hate you ..laugh teddybear
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Oct 26, 2015 3:12 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Hightech_Redneck: It amazes me at the number of women that have 4-5 kids before they turn 30.I'm 35 with no kids but I've wanted to be a dad for several years but its hard for me to find a woman that I'm attracted to that can still have kids

My daughter is 30.. Has 5! Told her she's like a rabbit!
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Oct 26, 2015 3:13 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Hightech_Redneck: It amazes me at the number of women that have 4-5 kids before they turn 30.I'm 35 with no kids but I've wanted to be a dad for several years but its hard for me to find a woman that I'm attracted to that can still have kids



You are a victim of a way of life , but it's regretable because in some part of this planet, women gave 5 or 8 kids, and your race will be soon a minority and possibly an invaded country.thumbs up handshake
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Oct 26, 2015 3:14 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I find that title very insulting to all those women who don't have children..

Many people have kids for selfish reasons, they want them as accessories or because everybody else has one.
And most of the remainder got pregnant by accident because they weren't careful enough about contraception.

Does that make them more of a woman?


Some people choose not to have children for selfish reasons, some choose it for very unselfish reasons.
Some others aren't given the choice due to health reasons.

Does that make them less of a woman?
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Oct 26, 2015 3:16 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
serena123: My daughter is 30.. Has 5! Told her she's like a rabbit!


No,, she's one hope of your country,,some are too shortsighted and too personal? Forming a sane society is everyone's lookout.
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Oct 26, 2015 3:21 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serena123: To some extent :) after the first one.. Then you need money

laugh it's all that jumping you are doing !!!!! i swear it grin
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Oct 26, 2015 3:28 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
Hightech_Redneck
Hightech_RedneckHightech_RedneckGreen Forest, Arkansas USA3 Posts
Babettefr: You are a victim of a way of life , but it's regretable because in some part of this planet, women gave 5 or 8 kids, and your race will be soon a minority and possibly an invaded country.


huh?
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Oct 26, 2015 3:35 AM CST Is a woman less of a woman if she doesn't have children?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
serena123: Womens bodies are made to have children, it "completes them..I have 3 and 5 Grandchildren.. They are very precious to me.. And my children are now my companions..
A friend of mine 50.. Never wanted children (her choice) never felt any maternal instinct... I envy her life sometimes, cause she's travelled, has breasts that are still FIRM but she told me, she envys me.. That as I Get older, I will, could never be alone..
I know some can't have children.. But could adopt...
What's your take on this?



I find this whole notion to be outdated and somewhat demeaning, to be honest.


There are women who are able to have children and they can choose to, or not.

Then there are women who are unable to have children, their choice is removed unless they have the means to choose other avenues, or not.

Bearing children does not complete us unless it is our ultimate goal in life.

And for many women, it isn't.
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